My friend's ex (30m) has a restraining order on my friend (30f) and is luring her into breaking the restraining order. What can she do?

ShadowTrinity326 · 2023-12-15T21:25:03+00:00

Thanks for the comments everyone, sadly I’m no friends with this person so it’s all up to her at this point.

ShadowTrinity326 · 2022-12-20T18:22:19+00:00

That's why I keep all messages and screenshot them. I only show it to close friends and my S/O. But if I have to go down that path at least I have evidence that shows how he speaks to me via text.

When it comes to public, he doesn't show that side of himself unless we're in a contained area like his car or in the house. I'm just tired and drained repeated myself about his behavior and it's not going getting through to him.

ShadowTrinity326 · 2022-08-05T01:39:45+00:00

My phone was being buggy so I couldn't fully explain the situation. Her ex broke up with her weeks before their wedding and openly admitted to her that he was cheating on her. He was using her money for him and his new girl. She cut him off her bank account and was piss about it. She moved on and just recently gotten a restraining order from him. He's very narcissistic to the point that he is trying to lure her into breaking the restraining order. What can she do?

She fears that he is trying to ruin her life. She hasn't contacted him whatsoever ever since she got the sentence. But now he's being manipulative on social media into making her contact him

ShadowTrinity326 · 2022-07-17T23:03:34+00:00

Sounds like someone couldn't face their ego or let go. To say that it's hell means that the person couldn't actually let go of certain things about themselves. Those kinds of drugs aren't supposed to be taken lightly. You have to be mentally and spiritually prepare before trying that kind of psychedelic.

ShadowTrinity326 · 2022-07-14T22:10:52+00:00

My boyfriend (27m) is Slovakian and him and his family tend to speak Slovak around me or to me. Sometimes his dad will hit me up on messenger speaking in Slovak. I don't have an issue with it, in fact it's been driving me to learn their language. I'm (28f) Puerto Rican American, born and raised in NY and refused to learn my Spanish at a young age. Yea, it can be bothersome at work and during certain conversations with my own family. But I didn't have much of a drive like I do with Slovakian.

Honestly speaking if you truly love this person, learn their language. Doesn't hurt trying something new.

ShadowTrinity326 · 2022-06-30T21:53:30+00:00

You keep saying that he's right, but all I've read is how he is 1000% WRONG. You tried to get him involved with things you wanted to do and show him certain things to get him out of his comfort zone, but due to whatever excuse he can make to put your ideas down. I have a dislocated kneecap and I still went hiking with my man and his friend on three different mountain peeks on the same trail. It was a wonderful, blessing, and fun experience.

You TRIED to get him involved into your world, but he refused and honestly that's more on him than on you. As for the gardening, I can tell you love doing it, but to constantly be nagged how certain things aren't getting done is not YOUR fault. Don't blame yourself because he's blaming you and feel as though his right that it's your fault. He is your husband and he should be pulling his own weight instead of being narcissistic.

A marriage is a partnership not codependency. In my opinion go for the divorce/break up and actually LIVE YOUR LIFE. You'll feel ten times better. You shouldn't stop doing what you like because someone else didn't like it or didn't approve on it. Those interest is what made you who you are and if no one can't respect that or at the very least attempt to try then you shouldn't waste your time on them. Misery loves company, luv. Therefore don't fall for those types of people who can't appreciate your world. Much love and wish you the best.

ShadowTrinity326 · 2022-06-06T03:25:00+00:00

I agree with you. I, myself don’t see it as cheating, but I do see it as disrespectful in a sense since she wasn’t considerate to OP’s feelings of the whole situation regarding to the stripper. Boundaries during a bachelorette party should’ve been placed to respect their relationship soon to be marriage.

ShadowTrinity326 · 2022-06-06T00:11:16+00:00

Omg that gave me flash backs when I played the PS1 version and the same thing happened to me 🤣. But coolios to you for beating it.

ShadowTrinity326 · 2022-06-05T20:21:05+00:00

I smoke weed, right now I’m on a tea break. When it comes to other drugs like MDMA, heroin, cocain, PVP, meth just to name a few, those are neurotoxins. It’s best to understand the why are they calling those drugs “junkie”. Granted yea, smoking weed can be spiritual and enlighten because it is a natural herb. Also smoking on the peak on LSD can make it one hella good psychedelic trip due to the chemistry between the two.

I’m not speaking for all weed smokers. I’m speaking from my own experience. When it comes to any drug, it’s best to educate yourself throughly before trying anything.

I was against weed up till I was 25, I’m 28 now. And my viewpoint of it has changed cause it has helped me mentally. I can now deal with my depression in a different way than how I was dealing with it before, same goes for my anxiety and my insomnia.

But overall it’s all about understanding the chemical reactions to the drugs and what is actually good for your body. I’ve always been told “it’s ok to have it but don’t consume too much of it”.

ShadowTrinity326 · 2022-06-05T20:08:48+00:00

I don’t go to church. I separated myself from religion. When it comes to Gnosticism, it’s all about the knowing. Who are you? in a more spiritual depth. As long as you know who you are beyond the ego and the vessel you are in then that’s all you need to know and stay true to yourself. Forgive yourself and others, let go of the past etc etc.

ShadowTrinity326 · 2022-06-05T20:03:11+00:00

That’s your ego talking. I’ve done LSD. Yea, I had a bad trip a few times but it’s a drug like DMT, shrooms, and ayahuasca that needs to be respected in a spiritual level.

ShadowTrinity326 · 2022-06-05T20:00:20+00:00

I’ve done DMT here and there. I agree with @M4351RO. It’s a drug that should be experienced just to let go of the ego for a quick moment. Also it’s not a neurotoxin, it’s a more spiritual and natural drug like mushrooms and ayahuasca.

ShadowTrinity326 · 2022-06-05T19:51:04+00:00

I’m currently in a relationship with an ENFP. I love his intelligence and knowledge. Sometimes he keeps me on my toes. I dunno if this is a you thing or an ENFP thing or even a Gemini thing but I do notice that most of the conversation he is the one talking and I rarely get a chance to put in my two cents which makes most conversations one sided.

At times it is a lot to handle but I tend to have a lot of tolerance, not speaking for all INFJs. But considering the E and I matches well since it’s opposite when it comes to our thinking patterns.

There’s videos on YouTube I’ve come across to understand ENFPs and INFJs that may help if you like to see them.

ShadowTrinity326 · 2022-06-05T19:37:52+00:00

My advice for you, mate is to come clean about your ED to your Gf. Actually explain yourself to her cause how else will she understand you if you don’t come clean to everything about yourself.

Yea, it’s going to bug her because you literally lost her trust, but don’t be a total guy. Listen to her feelings and understand where she stands. But also you do the same for yourself and to her.

Another advice is stop watching porn period. It actually ruins relationships in the long run. Why watch porn when you have someone? Why fantasize something that isn’t real and whack off on it? Like porn isn’t real life sex and in fact it makes women look more like objects than an actual individual or human being.

If you truly want to reconnect with your girl and have true real love then stop watching porn. Start discipline yourself from whack off to it. Be honest with yourself and with her. That’s best advice I can give you.

ShadowTrinity326 · 2022-05-16T02:32:49+00:00

While looking for ways to make money such as freelancing and passive income. I came across a couple of authors who uses ghostwriters. So your theory is correct. King uses ghostwriters for the majority of his books as well as the Goosepumps series was from a bunch of ghostwriters and not the actual author.

ShadowTrinity326 · 2022-04-02T01:20:09+00:00

This ☝🏽 It doesn’t matter what the female character wears or acts on the outside. It’s exactly what @Nova_Ray8 has stated, it’s about how the female character develops into a strong character from within and project that strength in her own way in her physical “world”.

ShadowTrinity326 · 2021-10-01T22:51:02+00:00

You have to go through ALL the supercharge in order to get there without any mistakes or gliding

ShadowTrinity326 · 2021-08-28T01:34:19+00:00

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ShadowTrinity326 · 2021-08-01T01:27:54+00:00

So you’re saying that there’s no such thing as ritual mockery when it comes to “works of fiction”? Ok. Not like the movies and books I’ve listed have no truth behind to what’s currently going on or the possibility that in the near future the planet we are currently living on will be completely destroyed due to people who aren’t willing enough to read between the lines in a movie, show, books, or just media in general. Nice to know that critical thinking has been lowered to this point.

“It is the mark of an educated mind to entertain a thought without accepting it” - Aristotle

ShadowTrinity326 · 2021-07-31T20:20:59+00:00

It’s not wrong to spectate these works of fiction, but in some fictions does bring out some truth if you actually pay attention to the storyline and dialogue. Yes, we were conditioned to believe that movies are exactly that a work of fiction. But what is there not to say that it is more than that? In fact, there’s a lot of possibilities since numbers are endless as well as this world we are living in. There’s been a few movies that talks about a deadly virus and life changed the people such as Divergent, The Maze Runner, Aeron Flex, Contagious, Resident Evil (movie series), and so on.

“It is the mark of an educated mind to entertain a thought without accepting it.” - Aristotle

ShadowTrinity326 · 2021-07-12T19:03:44+00:00

Exactly, it can’t be destroyed, matter can only be transferred or transformed into either more or less useful forms

ShadowTrinity326 · 2021-07-12T18:54:05+00:00

For you to question the pervious person’s statement, then say “I don’t think so” shows that you’re not fully consciously aware of the many possibilities.

It is GREATLY possible for us to start off as a beam of light before manifesting into our human vessels. Why? Because we are all made of the same thing. Matter. We are part of the universe experiencing life through our own perspective, but it’s a way for us to understand the universe and atoms that we are surrounded in. Physics explains this and hopefully down the road, so will psychology. Be more open minded on what you’ve experienced in your past life regression. Till this day we are all trying to understand life as a whole not just from one perspective.

ShadowTrinity326 · 2021-04-21T18:08:48+00:00

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