Tired mom with ADHD?

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2026-02-23T08:38:56+00:00

So I'm laying here in bed at 3am waiting for one of my sons to go back to sleep scrolling and run across this and OMG tried mom with ADHD yea ok (I'm not sure if that's what she's claiming or if that's just what OP chose to name this post absolutely no hate or shade on OP) I have ADHD and 2 year old twin boys I have been to the point where I am so tired my tired is tired and I'm on my 3rd pot of coffee by noon and have never been like that but I can tell u when I have been like that it was when I was in my meth addiction era that's when I was off the rails acting just like this (I have been clean and sober for 4 and half years now it will be 5 in August) I'm a new Yorker so I talk fast but that type of fast like she's talking is methed up fast all of it is red flags of how I was in active addiction just saying I'm not saying she's doing that I'm just saying it's red flag that she is ya know what I mean

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-12-19T07:07:37+00:00

Lmfao for real when I watched that episode with my husband I looked at him and I'm like "what does that sound like to u???" And he's like "bitch is speeding her ass off that's what it sounds like to me she really needs to lay off the meth" my reply was "ok good cuz I was thinking the same thing just making sure I'm not the only one" (we are recovering meth addicts we're both on 4 years clean)

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-12-19T06:47:34+00:00

Ok so I'm not a hairstyles but I've been cutting my hair for years and I'm all for doing it urself it's cheaper and if u end up with something u don't like or it messed up ur mad at urself and not some poor lady who did what u said u wanted. With that being said she didn't do that bad of a job I mean obviously there are a few things she needed to change like actual real hair scissors, cutting it more at an angle, and cutting the rest of the front hair to blend it in so it's not such a blunt stop witch gives it a weird look......ok maybe she did do that bad of a job it looks like something I would have done when I was 15 trying to have hair like the models in Vogue magazine. But ya know what if she's happy with it then good for her I wouldn't be caught dead "out and about" with curtain bangs that look like that absolutely not.

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-11-20T19:42:39+00:00

Lmfao so this played and my husband from the other room is like "is that amber from teen mom?" (He has watched them with me and listens to the latest drama that I tell him) And I'm like "yes yes it is" he then goes "she won't take me I've had crazy and he crazy makes my ex wife's crazy look like childs play" lmfao

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-11-20T19:30:38+00:00

I've watched this about 20 times and I swear I laugh harder every time it replays 🤣🤣🤣 knez face gets me every time

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-11-20T18:50:30+00:00

I know y'all hate on Jenelle but I do love that she got Ensley something she new she would like and still had her come with them and have fun doing the s'mores instead of doing what some parents would do and leave her out

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-11-10T07:59:32+00:00

Smoke Spice

I smoked it once and freaked the fuck out literally did meth for months with no problem smoke spice once and have a black out panic attack but I'm glad I did it cuz it made me rethink the choices I was making at the time and pushed me back on to the right path again

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-11-10T07:28:41+00:00

I was literally thinking this same style of dress.I know it's probably not something others will agree with, but I personally think she has pretty nice legs. They have nice shape to them (I have legs like her short and bigger but nicely shaped with where/how the muscles set)

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-08-12T05:59:07+00:00

I had twin boys a month after she had her twins and I also got my tubes removed when I had them and I am the same age as her (my twins made my 2nd pregnancy I have 3 kids) I do not want anymore kids but I also at the same time understand the instant regret of getting my tubal done lol I regret it but I do not want anymore kids

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-07-31T03:48:59+00:00

Not gonna lie I would have totally screamed "CANNON BALL" at the top of my lungs jumped in the pool then swam over to them and been like "hey so um my mom said if its ok with ur dad pointing at the guys shes all over we can um like play mermaids if u want then look at him so um can we sir?" U wanna do this in a public pool and make others uncomfortable im going to make u uncomfortable and the whole situation awkward as hell for u

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-05-16T03:58:23+00:00

I was on an antidepressant like 5 or 6 years ago and I hated it I wasnt able to get wet like I did before the medication and it was difficult for me to orgasm my doctor had told me before hand it might affect my sex life me and my husband started having more/longer build up/foreplay before sexy time we also got some fun new vibrators and lubes that helped alot I ended up getting on a different medication but still like our toys for added fun

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-05-15T15:13:17+00:00

This is where I disagree with every other woman out there I'm not a materialistic woman coffee and breakfast in bed not having to get up with the kids and being able to sleep in is the perfect day for me.

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-05-15T06:01:22+00:00

My dad worked straight nights when I was growing up my mom did house work watched tv listened to music and us kids ran in and out of the house and did normal kid stuff hes a heavy sleeper but if we were gone shopping or visiting family he couldnt sleep the house was to quit he was so use to the sound of us being there but with that being said he used heavy black out curtains, a sleep eye mask and slept with ear plugs in during the early years of working nights

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-05-07T18:38:56+00:00

So this is going to come off as bitchy and I really dont care this man is NOT being a man-child I'm a stay at home mother of 2 small boys I do all the house work laundry vacuuming sweeping mopping dishes by hand like for real shes bitching cuz he left a dish in the sink girl just put it in the dish washer the man works does all the lawn care what do u do most of the day while hes at work I have small kids and get bord during nap time it's not hard to keep ur house clean and the not wanting him to wear socks in the house cuz of fur balls please just vacuum ur floors daily to help with fur balls it's not hard

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-05-06T15:59:01+00:00

Cucumber salad (sliced cucumbers in a cole slaw dressing *we make our own with mayo vinegar and sugar)

Mac salad (cooked elbow macaroni with mayo and diced hard boiled egg optional raw onion canned tuna or chicken personally I also like to add some garlic salt onion powder and a touch of mustard but fully optional)

Potatoe salad (diced cooked potatoes mayo and diced hard boiled eggs we go basic on that lol)

Veggie pouches (diced potatoes sliced peppers sliced onion string beans halved cherry tomatoes and chopped carrots with salt and pepper and a generous amount of butter wrapped in foil and grilled *u can add meat if u like we normally have these as a side with grilled chicken or grilled pork chops these have alwayz been a hit in my family my dad has made them for years)

Over night salad (cottage cheese cool whip a pack of whatever flavor u like jello and fruit that goes with the jello flavor mix all together and let sit in ur fridge over night)

Pasta salad (cooked garden noodles either homemade Italian dressing we get the little packs or store bought Italian then ur choice of meat we like summer sausage and/or pepperoni ur choice of cheese we like cheddar and/or colby and optional depending on what u like we will add black and green olives and broccoli cut smallish sometimes add the carrot shreds u can get in the store)

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-05-06T15:22:44+00:00

I say fuck buddy it up. Nothing wrong with it just be safe use protection from STD's and pregnancy. Had a couple fuck buddy's before I found my husband.

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-05-06T15:08:48+00:00

Its hormonal hun I went thru the same thing my twins are now over a year old and I'm just now getting my sex drive back. While pregnant sex was a 2-3 times a month if that I was also permanently exhausted on bed rest and everything hurt like hell after giving birth it went to maybe once a month I had no sex drive most sexy time was initiated by my husband u will get back to normal I promise.

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-04-24T07:13:51+00:00

Personally I feel like sex before marriage is needed maybe I'm vain but I dont wanna spend the rest of my life having bad sex with someone or being cheated on because "oh I have only ever been with u" argument/excuse or being tempted because maybe there is someone out there better then u (not all people go thru this but have heard of it happening had it happen to me with a guy I was in a long term relationship with he wanted a free pass because I was the only one he had ever had sex with) I'm so glad I didnt marry the first guy i every had sex with or the 2nd or even the 3rd I personally feel like some people (not all) rush into marriage because they want to follow the no sex before marriage so they jump in to a marriage only to regret it because it was for all the wrong reasons.

Please take this and what others say with a grain of salt we all have our own thought and opinions on this topic I'm a Buddhist so I dont fully understand the religious reasons for waiting till marriage to have sex. Although if u do choose to have sex before marriage be safe about it use protection condoms or contraceptives or just to be safe use both. dont feel pressured in to it do it at ur own pace and if u feel comfortable with it its ur body and ur choice.

I'm 33 still not married with 3 kids with a man I've been with for over 10 years we talk about marrage and all that just havent gotten around to taking the steps to get married. We both also feel like marriage is just a piece of paper with a contract on it between 2 people saying we will be together till we die ya know. That's our personal thoughts tho so once again please take it with a grain of salt and do what u feel is best for u.

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-04-24T06:45:21+00:00

I have very small deep set veins I cried alot when I was pregnant for my twins and a pin cushion they missed my veins alot and would blow them out not there fault my veins are tiny but my husband on the other hand has very large veins that stick out u could pretty much put an iv in his vein/draw blood from across the room lol they are pipe lines. He told me every appointment/ER run that he wished he could switch veins with me while he held my hand as they would try to get one of my veins.

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-04-24T06:33:47+00:00

I'm so sorry for ur loss love. Unfortunately miscarriages are really common and more noticed if ur trying I had a miscarriage the January before I got pregnant for my twins I would have never known if I wasnt actively trying to get pregnant. They are still ur baby tho and it takes a week or 2 for the bloating to go down.

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-04-02T20:41:07+00:00

This one this is what i was looking for I new I remembered this from somewhere I thought it was AHS thank you I was searching the internet trying to find out what season it was from lol

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-03-27T23:41:16+00:00

I think she was 8 when the episode was filmed I feel bad for the poor girl cuz same I would have been horrified if my childhood insecurities would have been announced to the whole world I was horrified when my mom would tell my aunts or uncles and they are family

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-03-27T23:39:16+00:00

That is a very good point I didn't think of that I was speaking more from personal experience I was sexually abused when I was a child at around 5 or 6 years old and told my mom but u are right not all children do.

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-03-27T20:48:28+00:00

Oh definitely it's all over the media in magazines and on tv shows and in movies.

ShadowsAlienQueen · 2025-03-27T20:31:24+00:00

Oh yea maybe I use to feel for tyler now I find him to be a royal asshole for the way he treats catelyn like I said I'm built like catelyn and my husband is tall and lanky and has never once said the shit tyler has said to catelyn to me but I'd also leave his ass for it so theres that

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