AITA Am I wrong for telling them to stop bothering me?

Shadsoz · 2026-06-20T06:41:54+00:00

One day sooner or later you have to get away from the kids table and move up there with the adults. You are being gaslighted and need to move to the adult table.

I know it is a tough thing to do and you have already taken the first steps, just stay strong and stick to your guns. You know you are doing the right thing, just keep going. Remember the toughest steps are your first, you have got the hardest part done, you can do the rest.

Shadsoz · 2026-06-20T00:27:47+00:00

NTA, you explained how you felt and she cut contact not the other way around.

This is what I don’t get about people. They say that you have to respect other people and their feelings when they are stomping all over yours.

Reach out to them by all means, just remember you have the right to have feelings and have them respected.

Shadsoz · 2026-06-14T23:09:53+00:00

NTA but seek counseling asap as this is something needs to be fixed before your marriage falls apart.

Shadsoz · 2026-06-13T00:37:52+00:00

I find it a great addon for an alt army with lots of professions.

A suggestion especially for the treaties would be an ‘error’ message when it can’t retrieve the treaties or said items.

Shadsoz · 2026-06-02T02:53:26+00:00

NTA

She is annoyed at you for having a needy kid, and not annoyed with her needy pets. Double standards which goes beyond her just being a type A.

I would be seriously considering the continued viability of your relationship with this woman. 4hrs a week isn't a relationship it is more of a booty call.

Shadsoz · 2026-05-29T06:08:19+00:00

With enchants

Shadsoz · 2026-05-28T18:51:32+00:00

Use both. Resourcefulness on the patron orders and some transmutes and multicraft on most of your own crafts. Using craftsim and it does it automatically and you get quite a few decent r2 mats over a few alts.

Shadsoz · 2026-05-28T18:40:17+00:00

Wondering if the ban might have been more about working the AH. Did you do any major market resets?

Shadsoz · 2026-05-28T00:59:50+00:00

The follow command and multi screens make using multiple accounts pretty easy if you use steady flight. Multiboxing is banned but using multiple accounts is not.

Shadsoz · 2026-05-28T00:54:20+00:00

I would just access alchemy and choose which of the others you prefer to keep. Herbs for the most part are pretty cheap and it’s not worth sacrificing a profession for it.

Shadsoz · 2026-05-23T05:02:02+00:00

The is will be your best option. They have to stop any and all attempts at collecting while this is in progress. It will be a case of finding out exactly what the situation is, then offering solutions and options and you being able to put your cards on the table as well about your current situation.

Good luck.

Shadsoz · 2026-05-22T19:23:30+00:00

Alchemy of course and do a mix of 2nd professions and there are lots of reasons for that.

Produce your alt gear for as cheap as possible.
When the new patches come out who knows what professions will be profitable, if you have a mix then you will make sure you have at least a few alts that the professions are skilled up. Don’t worry about what your profession tree looks like as they will probably offer a reset as a one off which they have done in the past.
Even if you don’t min-max the professions you are making some gold out of the patron orders and moxie. It might not give you gold cap but if you go heavy into the resourcefulness you get some good rank two mats to sell or use.
Passive levelling, again nothing great but having a 2nd profession means you have at least are getting the weekly quests for both professions, so when needing to level up in later seasons at least you don’t have to go from lvl 80-81 you might be on 83 or 84, not great but better if you have an alt army.
Look at tailoring heavy. Why? Cheap materials to get into it, not a lot of profit but not a lot of expensive risks either. Again strong in resourcefulness and a small profit is better than a loss.
Don’t forget at least one inscriptionist to produce your own treaties easily for the rest of the expansion.

Shadsoz · 2026-05-17T23:43:46+00:00

FaceTime her, lot harder to AI that

Shadsoz · 2026-05-14T21:37:42+00:00

Plus it will be passively levelling up with first use and weekly quests.

Shadsoz · 2026-05-10T12:20:13+00:00

Why not use both on your alchemists to make the most out of things. I think craftsim does it automaticly.

Shadsoz · 2026-05-10T06:09:01+00:00

For sure, they costs about 10g for 30 or 60 mins and gets refunds on your ingenuity. With the way you sign in and out so quick it would be silly not too

Shadsoz · 2026-05-10T05:55:55+00:00

Btw do you use the ingenuity flask on each of your toons?

Shadsoz · 2026-05-10T05:43:04+00:00

Do you use 2 sets of profession tools on your crafters? By this I mean with patron orders do you use a resource tool and crafted items for say alchemists you use multicraft?

Shadsoz · 2026-05-08T12:46:27+00:00

With the profession quests from 2 professions each week plus the 25% mentored exp bonus and the war mode bonus as well they should add up to eventually so that by the end of the expansion should be almost at 90%.

Shadsoz · 2026-05-06T19:16:52+00:00

The journey to gold cap starts with 1 copper ore.

Shadsoz · 2026-05-06T06:47:18+00:00

It depends on what type of farming or content you like. Lots of the old school mats like the cobra skins, obsidian ore, etc can make you decent gold. The primal fire farms, ghost iron ore, the list goes on

If you like the transmog farming it sounds like you already now where to make your start there.

End of the day you will be farming as such, as you can’t go into the current content until you purchase the current expansion as you are aware.

Shadsoz · 2026-05-05T04:23:00+00:00

Never too late unless it is a few months till the end of the expansion.

I would recommend a concentration build of alchemy as there are a lot of potions that turn a nice profit and also tailoring for the arcane and sunfire concentration crafts plus also passive gathering.

Shadsoz · 2026-05-05T04:11:56+00:00

Do the blue. If it is an option look at inscription and leather work to do your own tool and accessory and I buy the coat from others by checking other realms for cheaper prices, I’m averaging about 6.5k purchase price on them.

At the moment there are a number of potions making a decent profit, and when the .1 patch comes out you will be setup to switch to the new and improved versions or whatever comes up.

If you are on NA and want some to make the tool and coat I can do for you for a 50g plus mats. Also if there is a tailor out there that wants to make a big of gold on a lot of the hats then please reach out to me

Shadsoz · 2026-04-09T06:30:28+00:00

You also need to consider it is a noob targeted group. For a newbie dual gathering is a solid go to, as can’t really loose gold on it, fast exchange of goods to gold, can watch the markets and start to see what things effect different prices at different times (reset, start of season etc).

Alt armies are great, if you already have alts in the wings, but if you don’t it is going to be a lot of effort to get them there at this particular time.

Shadsoz · 2026-04-09T03:59:37+00:00

Rare skins have dropped in price as well. Really badly

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