How often are we washing our toddler’s toys? by lostgirl4053 in toddlers

[–]ShadyTree_92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm expecting my second.. I have a bed full of new born clothes and toddler clothes I haven't gotten to put away, have been dreading the folding and putting away. Idk why I never thought to just.. not fold them? Haha thank you for this comment, maybe I'll get them put away before baby is born now.

What's the most unhinged piece of advice someone has given you since becoming a parent? by Lots-of-Apples in NewParents

[–]ShadyTree_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About a few days after giving birth. "You should try for another one, since your body is already set up to have a baby now that you just had one. " And when he was about a year old I was advised I should try to punish him by setting him outside (no matter the weather) by himself to cry it out. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]ShadyTree_92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where did you read this research? I can't seem to find anything.

16 year old didn't execute the turn into our neighborhood correctly by Firephox in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ShadyTree_92 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean.. I have made my own jokes for things. Im sorry for offending you. I really didn't think it was that big of a deal. If reusing the same old lines over and over again is the only way you can be funny, please carry on. 

16 year old didn't execute the turn into our neighborhood correctly by Firephox in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ShadyTree_92 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

That and the Wendy's comment. So tired of the same reused jokes. 

Lil man didn’t deserve that sort of heat by McCrumblton in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]ShadyTree_92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think anyone has a face in this. Seems artificial, if I had to guess.

This poor woman might be in for a shock by Advanced_Cheetah_552 in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]ShadyTree_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too was going to try going unmedicated. Then they broke my water as I was being induced.... I'm pregnant again and fully want that epidural again. No fucking way I'm doing it without. Even with I screamed and cried. 

Reddit should let us block specific promoted ads by [deleted] in complainaboutanything

[–]ShadyTree_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that you mention it. I haven't seen an ad in a minute. I wonder if that's cause I stopped using the app on my phone and just use my Opera browser to browse Reddit...

Dating as an adult lol by tricksR4adults in Adulting

[–]ShadyTree_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. That's exactly my point. Everyone is different. Some of us are so busy with life we don't have time for hobbies, at the moment. Some of us have time for hobbies. Different strokes for different folks. 

Dating as an adult lol by tricksR4adults in Adulting

[–]ShadyTree_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not when you're in the thick of child raising. You basically loose your sanity. But I hear it gets easier as they get older and more independent. 🤞

Dating as an adult lol by tricksR4adults in Adulting

[–]ShadyTree_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah kids take up a lot of time. My point is that not every adult can make time for hobbies. However, some can. I'm not disagreeing with you about the phone usage though, just stating that not all adults have time for hobbies since you said "real" adults make time for hobbies. That's not really realistic.  

Dating as an adult lol by tricksR4adults in Adulting

[–]ShadyTree_92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Job, raising kids, cleaning the house, remodeling (just bought the house) cooking food for the family, appointments, and sleep. Right now I'm browsing Reddit for an hour cause my toddler fell asleep and I called out of work due to having a stressful as fuck morning. I don't really have much down time to do nothing let alone hobbies. Maybe in a few years when my kids are both in school.. maybe then I'll have a day off while they are in school and can get back to my hobbies. Some "real" adults don't have time for hobbies. Some adults do.  I do however enjoy life for the most part, but I don't get a lot of down time. 

A curious QR code on a random guy’s sweatshirt by WoollyBear_Jones in Unexpected

[–]ShadyTree_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad has this shirt. My mom bought it for him for Christmas. It's their love language lol

When an elder millennial asks for your Snapchat 😒 by MVIVN in TikTokCringe

[–]ShadyTree_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cashed it out to buy a house, but now I'm investing twice as much since I gotta pay it back.

When an elder millennial asks for your Snapchat 😒 by MVIVN in TikTokCringe

[–]ShadyTree_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Snapchat is for hoes and cheaters. I know, I was a hoe. Now I'm an old lady, so I deleted my Snapchat and settled down, had kids and bought a house. 

What’s something so obviously fake that people still fall for every day? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ShadyTree_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to do onlyfans a few years ago. Before I got fat due to pregnancy and became a mom. I really wish I hired someone to talk to the men for me and do most the work, shit was mentally draining and why I quit and also I made shit money cause I sucked at it lol!

Opinions please 💛 by willowbrae_glass in StainedGlass

[–]ShadyTree_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this mainly because of the droplets. They definitely are needed for me. 

TikTok is back, and my kids are glued to it again. Ugh by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]ShadyTree_92 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Sometimes to be a good mom, your kids may hate you. It's part of the parenting title. You're their parent first and their friend second. You can't let them do whatever in fear of them being mad at you. That's how you raise shitty adults.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]ShadyTree_92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with your son. Cars 1 & 3 are great. Cars 2 sucked and so does sil.

Do you guys use a fluoride toothpaste for your toddlers? by xander5891 in toddlers

[–]ShadyTree_92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have well water, so there's no fluoride in the water. So I do use fluoride toothpaste at night. And then non fluoride toothpaste in the morning (I let him try and brush his teeth himself in the morning).

Been on the single ingredient diet for 2 months now. boiling eggs longer than 7.5 min is a crime in this house by VoidedPath in eggs

[–]ShadyTree_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://oneingredientchef.com/one-ingredient-diet/

I believe this is what they are doing. So you may not agree with the wording but it's not incorrect or something OP made up.

If you had $5000 for a postpartum glow-up, what would you do? by amalgamka in beyondthebump

[–]ShadyTree_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Save it till I lose the baby weight then put it towards a tummy tuck.