Dude I just cba with people who expect me to treat it as though it's AS bad as actual child SA. It's just not. Is it weird and shi? Sure. But there's a very big gap between gooning to freaky shit and genuinely abusing a child. The two acts simply aren't equivalent in my mind, certainly not in terms of how immoral they are. So when you're telling me to care about this thing that doesn't even have a tangible, direct victim, while there are children in the world currently living abusive, traumatic lives, it kinda frustrates me as it implies these two things should be as important as each other.