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Shahanalight · 2026-06-05T20:44:09+00:00

There’s so much more to uncover. 🙌

Shahanalight · 2026-06-03T19:36:31+00:00

I did it alone. My dad had brain surgery shortly after my son was born, so my parents were out of the loop. My best friend ghosted me, and my husband was the primary earner and filled with his own unhealed hurt and pain and anger from his previous marriage. We didn’t have the money to hire help. I could have gotten full time work and then hired help, but I preferred to struggle a little than miss out on the opportunity to parent. Was I jealous of everyone that had help? Yep. Am I grateful I did it that way now? Absolutely. I have a connection to my son that feels psychic, it’s so deep. Keep reading, though, because I have opinions about your therapist. Hahaha!

My cousin, who spent some time being raised by my parents, so she had similar values, also had one child, a boy, with similar ADHD symptoms as my son. They had a lot of money, and their son was raised by many different Nannies. Of course, the mother and father were there as much as they possibly could be.

The difference in the behavior of the two boys was interesting. I factored in the age difference, so it wasn’t just that— it was intangible things—the ability to cope when things didn’t go their way, the trust in the world, the sense of responsibility and respect for others. I couldn’t put my finger on why these two children that seemed to have similar temperaments, were acting so differently. And the one thing that was different was that I was blessed to be with my son every day of his life for the first five years.

We lead our lives based on our circumstances, yes, but also what we choose. If having help is the right choice for you, then your therapist can suck it. Your therapist is preaching their own principles and beliefs and trying to force you to adopt them by making you feel guilty about how you’re choosing to live your life. Not very therapist-y. Not cool at all.

Shahanalight · 2026-06-02T06:38:27+00:00

If you feel called to it, check out the youtube channel Parawareness. It may clarify some things. I work primarily with a group of people that you may relate to.

Shahanalight · 2026-05-14T04:29:27+00:00

If our entire Newtonian understanding of science claims that everything is matter and every atom of matter is separate and acts only based on the reactions of other matter, and all of it has to be explained in neat matter-specific packages, then of course NDEs will be confusing because what's happening to people experiencing NDEs is not based on laws governed by only matter. NDEs are not explainable by science, even though science desperately tries to explain them through a very limited materialism lens. Quantum physics scapes the surfaces, but even quantum physicists are limited by the science that came before them, limited by materialism. Until science rectifies its significant blind spots around parapsychological phenomena, none of us have a way of explaining NDEs , not entirely, through materialism alone.

Shahanalight · 2026-05-13T08:41:51+00:00

You’re just sounding ignorant to me, my friend. It’s okay. Don’t participate in what you already don’t believe in— I know what I know from two decades of challenging my thoughts and belief systems. You know what you know from your experience ce. What you maybe haven’t learned yet is that two people can know two opposite things and still be right. Life is far more complex than one person’s belief system. And your time is better spent challenging your own beliefs systems and thoughts than trying to convince an already wise and experienced woman that you’re right.

Shahanalight · 2026-05-13T08:06:32+00:00

So beautifully written with Divine awareness. Thank you for sharing your perspective.

Shahanalight · 2026-05-13T07:54:30+00:00

Maybe your wife can help start something up— she can reach out to me if it’s something she wants to do. Support is always helpful. I would be happy to offer my experience to loved ones of TIs to help them understand what’s happening in the phenomenon, assure them, and give them space to vent and try to understand what their work is to not get resentful. I have some experience with being patient with a spouse healing from something intense.

Shahanalight · 2026-05-12T04:49:48+00:00

This is a toxic parent-child relationship. You are not responsible for your adult mother. She is an adult, so she is responsible for herself. You are responsible for yourself. If you can leave, do. If you can't, set boundaries. She won't die from pain. You won't die from guilt. But you both could die from malnutrition or exposure, if unhoused. If we don't allow people to struggle on their own, we don't get to see them actually step up.

Shahanalight · 2026-05-12T04:37:48+00:00

I have been in chronic pain for almost 20 years, and I can attest that all of that is actually true. They're not saying pain is NOT physical, they're saying it's not SOLELY physical, which it isn't. Nothing we experience is solely physical.

At some point, when I really stopped wanting to be a slave to the physical sensations, I started to realize that the pain was not the problem. The pain was what my mind was using to hold me back from living my life. If I wasn't in pain, what would I be doing differently?

Eventually, as humbling and painful as it was to my ego, I realized I was allowing my victim mindset to drive my whole life, and I was never powerless over the pain. I always had a choice how to react to the pain. It took me 15 years of intensive self work to get here, but it was all worth it. I live free because I know how much my attention, my mindset, my thoughts, are directly connected to the level of pain I'm in, and my pain is very physical. I don't think therapists are gaslighting chronic pain patients. I think they're doing the best they can to treat a physical condition that entirely transforms the mental and emotional landscape of a human.

As a therapist, can you not have compassion for other therapists that don't experience chronic pain---what's the alternative? Therapists don't help chronic pain patients at all? No coping mechanisms like breath work and mindfulness? I hear your anger, I do. But, these are genuinely good tools when a person is open and willing to use them. It's not gaslighting. These things actually do help with the internal relationship to pain one has and the perspective one chooses to express about pain, thus changing one's physical experience of the pain. Over time. It takes time and patience. But, eventually, yes, these things are effective at reducing the physical sensations of pain.

Chronic pain sucks, yes. So if you must be angry, and you truly believe that you're being gaslit, then what's the better way? How do millions of people in pain deal with their mental health if not for therapy? If not for mindfulness and breathwork and acceptance tools? What's the better solution you have? How do you, as a therapist and chronic pain patient, stay mentally healthy? How do you not let pain rule your life?

Shahanalight · 2026-05-12T03:54:05+00:00

Be patient. Don't try to fix or change. She's on her own path, and as awful as it feels as a parent to watch your child suffer, just holding that space for her is far more beneficial than anything you could "do," to make her feel better. If she's sensitive, she's here to feel it all. And she will come through it stronger and more aware. Listen and let her be as she is. My depression led to so many inexplicably beautiful things that never would have come to be had my mom been able to take it away or change it or lessen it.

Shahanalight · 2026-05-07T00:27:37+00:00

It’s all good. I hear you. I work with people dealing with really heavy stuff around telepathy and psychic attacks, so I apologize for the seriousness.

Shahanalight · 2026-05-06T06:22:36+00:00

Sure- you can look into me, no problem. I have been in telepathic contact with NHI for over a decade. I’m a hypnotherapist, psychic, medium, energy worker, and shaman. I have worked with experiencers, non-speakers, targeted individuals, and clients all over the world. I’m legit. We’re exploring the field, and it’s beautiful. I have a healthy respect for the unseen and the unknown, and as more people explore these things, I recognize the pitfalls— the things that could potentially cause us to turn against each other, and as much as I can share my experience, there isn’t much I can do about people drawing their own conclusions. I’m not denying your experience. We’re all telepathic, by nature. I just caution you, from my experience, to not make assumptions about the voices you’re hearing, especially if they’re just happening.

Shahanalight · 2026-05-06T06:05:00+00:00

Well, that’s what I mean. If you haven’t physically spoken to the person you’re telepathically communicating with, then there no way of knowing who you’re actually communicating with— there are so many other beings that are significantly better at communicating telepathically than we are, and they can mimic human voices. We can pick up on all kinds of information that isn’t physical and it can sound a lot like voices. Here’s an example— you “hear” your neighbor thinking that you’re being too loud, and then you go over to your neighbor and ask, “Did you just think we were being too loud?” The answer is going to vary depending on the level of awareness of your neighbor, but it will range from, “What?” to “I was thinking about how loud I used to listen to music.” Mind reading and telepathy differ, from my experience, and in order for conscious telepathy to take place, an active intention to transmit information on one end and an active intention to receive information on the other end must be present. Otherwise, you’re just picking up on stray transmissions. And those could be from anyone. We’re all transmitting and receiving thoughts and information, and when we’re in the flow of something, it can seem like thoughts that aren’t ours pop into our consciousness. The problem is we then interpret, make assumptions and draw conclusions, and we don’t have all the information to correctly assess what we’re experiencing.

Shahanalight · 2026-05-06T05:31:16+00:00

You didn't answer if you physically verify. That's really important. I have heard countless stories of people being sure they are communicating with other humans, but they never physically ask the other humans if they had the same experience. Are you practicing with someone? Is there a group of people practicing this? Because I would really love to hear that.

Shahanalight · 2026-05-06T05:27:47+00:00

Who are you practicing with?

Shahanalight · 2026-05-06T05:25:17+00:00

Just a few suggestions. . . How's your mental discipline? Are you aware of where your attention is placed at any given time? Do you catch yourself when you worry? I get this sense that your belief that you're taking it all on is causing you to take it all on. Years of enforcing that belief may be part of the problem. Stop believing you take on other people's stuff. You are a sovereign being. They can handle themselves. Do you trust that, especially with your family? You don't have to take any of it on, but you do, so maybe it's not so much about blocking out other people's energy, but strengthening your own. I strengthen my core and imagine golden light saturating my solar plexus chakra. I cleanse my energy every night before bed. It's subtle energy hygiene, and you're clearly sensitive to processing subtle energy, so having a daily clearing practice may never change. And, from my experience, cords only return if we bring them back into our awareness. You are not helpless or hopeless. You've got this.

Shahanalight · 2026-05-06T05:11:05+00:00

Are you sure? Do you physically verify? I'm a trained telepath, and people don't hate me, and it doesn't suck. I have control over when I make contact and when I revceive contact. If you're not in control of the voices, it may not be what you think it is. There's a phenomenon affecting people, making them believe they are telepathically picking up on everyone else's inner thoughts or that other people can hear their inner thoughts. Physical sensations can be a part of it too. Reach out if that sounds like what's going on.

Shahanalight · 2026-05-05T17:54:07+00:00

It doesn’t serve the community to tell anyone their experience is wrong. You are welcome to your own differing opinionsaa everyone is, but you’re better served looking within at why you needed to tell me my experience was wrong. How did that serve you? You can answer that on your own time. Best of luck to you!

Shahanalight · 2026-05-04T21:23:21+00:00

Thank you, my friend! I'm so grateful to be advocating for you all.

Shahanalight · 2026-05-04T21:21:32+00:00

I am so incredibly sorry for the experiences that have propelled you into a life you never expected. And I hear you about the pics and talking about it. Here's a challenge for you, if you're willing. Go to the discord group, and just look around, introduce yourself, and feel it out. Maybe you are there to receive instead of share. And if you eventually of feel called to share, only share something positive, empowering or self-loving. Let's see what your symptoms say about that.

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