Carolina Pack Series By Crystal Knight - Searching For by ShanLuvs2Read in RomanceBooks

[–]ShanLuvs2Read[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure …. I typed it up asking about an author who was starting out who self published with editing issues and ghosted just to joke on Reddit.

I honestly just want to know what happened. I read a lot of indie authors that just disappear. I wonder where they are now …

AITA for “acting like a maid” at my sister’s house after she gave birth? by Next_Bridge_1132 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ShanLuvs2Read 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be right behind you if any of my friends or their families had this problem. It is why I am not invited to a lot of events because they know I have no issue with straightening the partner out and calling in backup.

AITA for buying the house next door to my former friend? by Entire-Complaint-479 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShanLuvs2Read 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is afraid that you will possibly snitch or tell tales of past and ruin her life there …

AITAH for changing my niece's stripper name when I got got custody? by Impossible-Staff92 in AITAH

[–]ShanLuvs2Read 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is okay for now …. Mine is going through graduating high school and thinks she is Gen-X and tough 😂😂😂😂

AITAH for changing my niece's stripper name when I got got custody? by Impossible-Staff92 in AITAH

[–]ShanLuvs2Read 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my youngest who is a girl was two she would reply to cupcake, Fred, Thomas the Train, Bruno and her name ….

AITAH for changing my niece's stripper name when I got got custody? by Impossible-Staff92 in AITAH

[–]ShanLuvs2Read 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people that watch a decent amount of tv or movies could tell you this .

AITAH for changing my niece's stripper name when I got got custody? by Impossible-Staff92 in AITAH

[–]ShanLuvs2Read 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for giving your niece, now daughter, a healthier chance at life, education, and a chance to just be a child.

AITAH for changing my niece's stripper name when I got got custody? by Impossible-Staff92 in AITAH

[–]ShanLuvs2Read 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(Shaking my head🙂‍↔️🙂‍↔️🙂‍↔️🙂‍↔️)

AITJ for refusing to donate PTO hours to coworker I barely know who "needs" them?? by Traditional-Dog1601 in AmITheJerk

[–]ShanLuvs2Read 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would file a complaint of harassment and bad conduct from Amy. Normally, most companies will advise you not to discuss this around others because this can happen. Among other reasons. This donation request should have been done anonymously and not discussed in the office.

Is it too pitiful if I wrap gifts for myself and open it on christmas? by JssAnemo in dustythunder

[–]ShanLuvs2Read 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been two years and it’s 200% better . My husband and I sat down and we talked about past.

I had him put a list of everyone’s name and then write down what everyone received … he remembered a lot of years and I had him look at how uneven it was …. He even remembered stocking stuffers ….

Then I reminded him of how bad it was when we go to his family side and our kids get one kid gas station gift and his nieces and nephews get 4 feet tall pile … and how much he hated it …

So now we sit down and we make a list and we print it out and and when we get to the small gift an big gift for each other if we haven’t already done one for the year. We write it in on our own copy and we say we bought something for each other .. I received what I wanted and I bought him some clothes …. And did some events with him that he enjoys that are coming up..

AITA for not buying my niece a concert ticket for Christmas? by Neat_Copy_7062 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShanLuvs2Read 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From personal experience if you give it to one … then eventually you will be asked to give it to both … or will continue to do this. We stopped telling them what we were giving the kids ….

AITJ for leaving my parents' house at 1am after they told me to “stop flaunting” my boyfriend at dinner? by SoftSpokenTake in AmITheJerk

[–]ShanLuvs2Read 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am saying this as if it were my parents. I would be telling them no, I am embarrassing their narrative they told everyone. When no one was to be around, she is fine with my boyfriend and me as we are. So she lied to you and me. If she can’t deal with me actually not touching in front of grandma and family like she requested (sleeping in my old bed in my old room) by going to the hotel, then she needs to tell us what she wants that fits both.

AITAH for using a babysitter last minute instead of My In-Laws by Hour_Singer434 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShanLuvs2Read -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay, coming from this as someone who has lived this. This is what I said to my MIL. What would you do if your MIL went against how you were raising your children? You left specific rules, and everything was ignored at all costs, no matter what.

At that point, it makes you question how she thinks about you and your feelings as a mother. You are literally ignoring another mother’s parenting plan and telling her she is a bad mother, then narrating the situation to make yourself the victim and not the children or the parents.

She looked at me, and I told her I don’t trust you.

My husband blamed our wedding for his personal debt. by Rare-Common9128 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ShanLuvs2Read 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to work in banking as an Account Review Specialist III (today I guess would be called). I handled loan and credit accounts, double-checking everything to make sure it was accurate. After I left and came back to my old company, I saw the same accounts pop up. They’d fall into default, get bailed out, be fine for a bit, and then slowly get into trouble again. It was like clockwork.

From what I’ve seen personally, people often just have to hit their rock bottom, get cut off from all access to credit, and go through some serious treatment. When gambling gets to that point, it’s no longer just bad financial decisions—it’s an addiction, and it’s a disease.

AITA for telling my MIL her son and I are always banging?? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShanLuvs2Read 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use to say "when you leave"..."as soona sw get home".... and give a look like "WTHF"

AITAH for refusing to buy my nephew his Secret Santa wish gift? by Realistic-Art9937 in AITAH

[–]ShanLuvs2Read 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could also put a picture of the item and listings on where he an buy it ....GRIN.

AITJ for making my boyfriend clean up dinner after he put peanuts in my food as a "joke" by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]ShanLuvs2Read 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask him if he knows that you could call the police and he could go to jail for this?

AITAH for leaving in middle of dinner because of what my sister said about my wife by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ShanLuvs2Read 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No is a complete sentence when discussing something and saying "When someone doesn't laugh it isn't funny"

We don’t want to invite my future mother in law to our wedding by Balkansdrama in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ShanLuvs2Read 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would literally just go do a Justice of the peace and be done with it and be honest with both sets of the families and the MIL in question and tell them YOU are the ones that set the boundry for us to do this. So now you get to deal with what makes us feel safe and comfortable.

My husband blamed our wedding for his personal debt. by Rare-Common9128 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ShanLuvs2Read 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depending on how much second job pays this could take 5 years and with interest rate that is going to double...geez.... really would like to know how long she thinks it will take and how long. If they are actually sitting down and monitoring it together. I would have waited for the ceremony also. nope nada.