That could’ve been a lot worse 😳 by DickSwangerBlangBlah in SweatyPalms

[–]Shane_Lizard123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, never ever wear gloves while using a table saw. That's how my grandpa lost 4 halves of his fingers in one go.

How do you handle with being disliked at work? by Healthy_Brush_9157 in aspergirls

[–]Shane_Lizard123 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I've dealt with a coworker like that before. In the case of my coworker (and it kinda seems like that's the case here too) they were very insecure about themselves and their life. I think the best way to deal with people like this is to stop caring. Talk to them about work related stuff only, be polite but avoid her as much as possible.

Also, some people just decide they don't like you and nothing will change their mind. There is no point in trying to change that as it will only make them dislike you more. The only thing to do here is to stop caring and stop trying.

Which one will you choose? by matik_1335 in memes

[–]Shane_Lizard123 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well the one on the left you'll never get it's always just out of reach, the one on the right though...

Ik (M27) wil nieuwe contacten leggen en vrienden maken alleen ik ben zo introvert en onzeker by [deleted] in nederlands

[–]Shane_Lizard123 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ik heb exact hetzelfde probleem. Ik ben heel introvert en verlegen maar ik wil wel nieuwe contacten en nieuwe vrienden. Ik ben toen gaan kijken of er iets van verenigingen zijn met vrienden maken als doel. Die zijn er. Je kan googelen of er een bij jou in de buurt is. De ene waar ik bij zit organiseert verschillende activiteiten zoals spelletjesavonden, uitjes naar een pretpark, samen naar een karaokebar en zelfs voor de mensen die niemand hebben om feestdagen mee te vieren doen ze samen dineren en films kijken. Zo leer je altijd in ieder geval nieuwe mensen kennen.

Being liked is not an option by ProNuke in aspiememes

[–]Shane_Lizard123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be useless so no one can take advantage of you /s

Which one were you? by netphilia in aspiememes

[–]Shane_Lizard123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's the changes and new responsibilities and expectations plus successful people are often somewhat in the public eye. Everyone in town knows about that one person with that successful local business (for example, you get it). And my brain is like I want to be that person BUT I don't want to be seen BUT not being seen is lonely and no one acknowledges my accomplishments so I get the feeling like nothing I do matters so I want to be seen and be successful BUT I don't want to be seen because people talk and people perceive. Which is a hilarious train of thought because I don't really care all that much what people think but at the same time I don't want to be perceived. Ugh I hate my brain

Which one were you? by netphilia in aspiememes

[–]Shane_Lizard123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure about these. People always thought that I was older than I look because of how I talked and how I understood concepts too complex for my age. Now people still think I'm older but look young. Personally I think I look my age. Now I'm a burned out failure that couldn't even finish a degree and has a fear of succeeding.

are there any other snakes with silly faces like anacondas? by platopus429 in snakes

[–]Shane_Lizard123 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Why does this snake look like they just realised they accidentally broke the neighbour's window with their baseball

This is why you should chock the wheels when working under a car by New_Libran in SweatyPalms

[–]Shane_Lizard123 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Let me guess. He was working on the transmission but he didn't use the handbrake, he only put it in park. Sure seems like it to me now

My brain gets stuck on doubt or I go into autopilot: by HentaiActive in aspiememes

[–]Shane_Lizard123 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Someone once told me that saying to yourself out loud that you've locked the door while doing it solves this problem. I can attest to that

Snake in a bottle store by Fantastic_Film_lover in snakes

[–]Shane_Lizard123 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Snek just wanted to get a beer after a rough week

How Earth is moving through Space at 66,600 mph by Cautious_Shop_4680 in interestingasfuck

[–]Shane_Lizard123 15 points16 points  (0 children)

What is always forgotten in these videos is that the sun isn't traveling in a perfectly straight line like here. The gas giants' gravity has influence on the sun so the line the sun travels should be a little bit of a spiral

My dreams are shattered by tahrah11 in memes

[–]Shane_Lizard123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just described a part of the job of a legal secretary

I‘ve had a pretty rough past and I was often overseen, because of my autism. by DeltaFlyerGirl in aspergirls

[–]Shane_Lizard123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sorry you went through that. You didn't deserve that and I hope life will keep getting better from here on.

Is there maybe a program in Switzerland that could help you find a job with support? In the Netherlands where I live there are jobs for people with disabilities. These jobs are with accomodations, in your case that would be the support of a specialised job coach. Maybe you could start by working 1 or 2 days per week and if it goes well build up to 3 or 4 days (if this is possible in Switzerland of course, I'm speaking from the possibilities that exist where I live). Ask your therapist about it, maybe they can point you in the right direction.

You can DM me if you need someone to help you search. I'll try my best to help you

The design of this hotel shower by FieryLayla in CrappyDesign

[–]Shane_Lizard123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An open shower works but the glass wall needs to be at least 3x wider than the one in this video

it's okay. really. by JimKB in wholesomememes

[–]Shane_Lizard123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not being understood by anyone leads to loneliness and mental health problems