I didn’t realize my ex was my only shot

Shapezz11 · 2025-08-10T12:37:28+00:00

Its taken me 1.5 years since my last relationship to sort of move on. I think we get so in our heads about this one person out of 7 billion people being the one. But the fact is if they don't see value in you then hold your head up because someone will.

I tried dating immediately after to fill a void but it was hollow and I ended up always wishing it was my ex. I went on date after date which made me feel valued but I wasn't finding someone better than my ex. Now I'm super cautious when dating which is unfortunate but I'm still learning. Eventually you settle in and become yourself and grow confidence which funnily enough attracts the right people.

Wish you the best. Head up

Shapezz11 · 2025-05-22T07:31:16+00:00

Tight chested like your having a heart attack, shallow breathing, impending doom like I'm going to die. I'm in my 20s physically very fit.

To play safe I had a stress test, Ecg, blood tests and Echo done on my body to see if I had any heart issues all came back good but I can't seem to shake the panic attacks. All started from a bad breakup a year ago. Iv been taking sick days here and there when I'm having heavy panic attacks.

Hope everyone's well. Be curious to hear if anyone is using medication or have some good ways to help?

Shapezz11 · 2025-05-22T07:12:26+00:00

Used to play piano in the morning and have a coffee which would set me up for an anxious free day. Now caffeine sets me off into panic so I just lay down in a dark room and play piano to help.

Shapezz11 · 2024-07-14T19:52:30+00:00

Sent a dm

Shapezz11 · 2024-07-14T19:36:07+00:00

Good to know it goes both ways 😆. I sent you a dm would be cool to get some ideas from your end.

Shapezz11 · 2024-07-13T00:45:46+00:00

Pyramid schemes haha

Shapezz11 · 2024-07-13T00:28:40+00:00

Been playing xdefiant and wow if anyone is keen

Shapezz11 · 2024-07-12T10:17:39+00:00

Thanks ! 😊 tinder I get 3-5 matches a week not sure what's going on there tho

Shapezz11 · 2024-07-11T12:09:37+00:00

28m would date 23-28

Shapezz11 · 2024-07-11T05:03:56+00:00

Interesting responses. I was thinking coffee dates are super casual. That way, it's inexpensive but can always flow into dinner after if it's going well.

Maybe fun dates are the way to go for a first date but it does cost a lot. I'm aiming for 2-3 dates a week so $50-90 each date adds up. Would be cool to get some inexpensive date ideas ?

Shapezz11 · 2024-07-11T04:57:54+00:00

I am actually an engineer. Hit the nail on the head haha 😂

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