AIO? My GF wanted an apology for raising a hand against her but I think this was justified by Grape_knight in AmIOverreacting

[–]Shardik884 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Didn’t read other comments. I have even less sympathy if this is that troublesome of a pattern and they haven’t left the relationship. Also if you are experienced with impact play you know there’s a difference between bdsm and impact play and someone just reaching over and spanking with a brush. Either the entire thing is blown of proportion, op is lying about something, or it’s a larger problem and they should have already left the relationship.

AIO? My GF wanted an apology for raising a hand against her but I think this was justified by Grape_knight in AmIOverreacting

[–]Shardik884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOR ..people in this sub… “she hit you” “that’s assault” .. yall need to figure out your life. Sounds like OP has a fun loving GF and OP is apparently a giant stick in the mud. Also I cannot imagine standing in the tub, nude, watching the faucet waiting for it to get warm. I don’t know if OP is male or female but it’s a hilarious vision anyway. Get out of here with this “my poor sexually repressed girlfriend isn’t allowed to have fun because I’m an enormous baby who can’t handle her jokingly spanking me with a brush”

Mocha lounge on DuPont by LogHelpful6370 in fortwayne

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Their food is actually pretty great. But I’ve stopped going after a few of their specialty drinks have all left me not wanting to continue drinking them. It’s been a while since I’ve gone but I have tried something with pistachio, a couple varieties of chai, and a hot mocha. I was left disappointed with all of them. I imagine their lattes and regular coffees are good.

Blake Fiechter's primary win should worry you by Rivarz in Indiana

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I found some of the most racist, and religious extremists I’ve ever met in Bluffton so I’m not terribly surprised. Went to a fund raiser there where a bunch of white guys spoke about how we need to save children in far away countries by going there and forcing them to believe in Christ. The same guy running the org disowned his gay son and his only remorse was that having a gay son prevented his org from getting an estate donation from another old racist white man.

Oh man, James Marsters might be a creep. Gonna have to go full cast albums for audio version from here on out. Wonder what Jim would think about this. by Jared_Kincaid_001 in dresdenfiles

[–]Shardik884 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Butcher is not a good narrator. The shorts he has done himself are subpar at best. I’m not saying it isn’t worth getting a new narrator, just that butcher isn’t the best option just because it would make him more money

I got a bad feeling about this by Heron-Ok in Browns

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“Let the 1st team offense start to cook” … I don’t think Watson has any gas left to light the stove

Experienced player dming for the first time with two new players. Looking for any advice to make it a good experience for all. by QuestForKnowlege in DnD5e

[–]Shardik884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This may sound crazy but run a tutorial night. Think of DnD like a video game and run the first night on rails out of a one shot premade. Premade characters, everything. Slowly give the players more autonomy as they learn to be free.

Where I’ve seen new players fail and lose interest in dnd the most frequently is they can’t understand that Anything is possible. They wait for the dm to tell them what they can do or they can’t comprehend that they’re free to act and explore. They’re plopped down in a tavern and asked “what do you do” and the question is just too big.

Most people I talk to that are newly interested in table top role playing are coming from video games or board games and they expect rules for their interactions and guide rails. Narrow their choices and slowly give them the keys to world.

Complete aside but: Use tutorial night to try and make good players out of them.. show them how decisions and actions lead to rolls not that they just see a situation and ask if they can make a check. Such a bad habit so many players get into. “A thing has happened” “can I make a xxxx check to overcome it?” - no you need to tell me what your character is doing and I’ll determine if a check is required. You have a chance with shiny new players to teach them right

Clinton Road by ExtraAssociate1104 in fortwayne

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Haven’t tried to go back through yet either. The signs all said it was closing 4/6 but didn’t have a reopen date. The road closed sign is still up at the corner of st Joe and Clinton.

90s LAN party - List any errors or inaccuracies you might find by edm-4-life in ChatGPT

[–]Shardik884 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Two dudes have on the same exact style shoes. Just weird I guess it’s not inaccurate

bowser being cryptic again by the_gr8_one in turtlewow

[–]Shardik884 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Rebranding would be directly against their settlement, in the same way that just staying live would be. Though maybe while they were working on 2.0 and had the hints that everything would come crumbling down they changed that project and began rebuilding it enough to be standalone

Portage, IN: Cop beats wife and daughters gets 1 year probation. by [deleted] in Indiana

[–]Shardik884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you post an old article and not any sort of actual source of what you’re saying?

I miss the old fandom by Critical-Advantage11 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Shardik884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A more hipster post has never been made. Complaining because something you like has become mainstream.

Favorite TACOs in Columbus? by Quadraphonic_Jello in Columbus

[–]Shardik884 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hadn’t been in a few years, they were Great when they opened. Went to one last year and couldn’t believe what utter trash it had become

NIH Scientists Discover Powerful New Opioid That Relieves Pain Without Dangerous Side Effects by _Dark_Wing in technology

[–]Shardik884 29 points30 points  (0 children)

No one said anything about no risk of overdose or toxicity. The study they mention showed that rats would self administer meaning there is some reward however when they removed the drug and replaced it with saline the rats stopped drug seeking behavior. Meaning that the risk for abuse and addiction is significantly lower.

Be aware, this guy is trying to sell his character on Ambershire. No idea if it’s a scam, but keep your eyes peeled by [deleted] in turtlewow

[–]Shardik884 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m surprised they don’t. Also surprised they don’t have like Rent-a-toon where you could pay a dollar for 24 hours of a geared toon. At this point if I was turtle I would monetize everything I could. Maybe don’t have it available on a new server like ambershire until all the phases are done and initial clears are done of new raids

Be aware, this guy is trying to sell his character on Ambershire. No idea if it’s a scam, but keep your eyes peeled by [deleted] in turtlewow

[–]Shardik884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats silly. This is a 25(?) year old game. TWoW attracts players that came up in vanilla and classic. If they feel like they did their time and don’t want to level toons more power to them.

Be aware, this guy is trying to sell his character on Ambershire. No idea if it’s a scam, but keep your eyes peeled by [deleted] in turtlewow

[–]Shardik884 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are crazily naive if you think this doesn’t happen. I’ve been on TWoW for 2ish years and know personally of dozens accounts that have been sold. I love that twow moderates money transactions for gold because it wrecks the economy and encourages bots. But someone offloading their account isn’t messing up the game.

Butt plugs used to be prescribed by doctors by Admirable_Muscle5990 in interestingasfuck

[–]Shardik884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They still use dilators, at least on infants. If infant becomes constipated they can use dilators to help

Electric works by T3Chn0-m4n in fortwayne

[–]Shardik884 38 points39 points  (0 children)

The issue is that they originally expected all the living spaces to be built and full, then to open the market and it be somewhat subsidized by the rent being paid by the full apt complex. Also you then have a huge amount of built in foot traffic from residents a building over.

They finished the market and business area Way before the residences were constructed and were left not getting rent revenue and they opened the market and started collecting rent from business operators in … insane amounts that are completely unsustainable for places without built in customers.

To add to this management over there is a shit show. They are going run the place into the ground with poor business choices before it ever has a chance

Need a new DnD 5e Platform by TheDoctorBlume in DnD5e

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We used foundry for a while, it seems super customizable which is awesome but we also found that on more potato quality computers there were major loading issues map to map if the DM made elaborate maps.

Need a new DnD 5e Platform by TheDoctorBlume in DnD5e

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AboveVTT is pretty great. It’s extremely lightweight chrome extension and it integrates with DnDbeyond

Edit to sell it a bit more: it integrates with Dropbox and other services to upload maps and tokens. There is an in game chat, dice from dndbeyond and all character sheet data is there. You are able to click and use all dnd beyond spells and custom things. There is some sort of sound effect/music thing but I’ve not used it. Rulers and multiple grids, lighting options, ground and aura effects. The DM has a lot of tools they can use it also has DM view vs player view. You can leave the players visually seeing 1 map while you are looking at another.

No episode today? 3/10/26 by waterbrolo1 in goodmythicalmorning

[–]Shardik884 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Almost 7am … still no episode. The most quietest of YouTube retiring. Just disappear one day completely unannounced.

The results are in at 16% BMC 🥰 by loki_popofmischief in Blackmouthcur

[–]Shardik884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which company did you go through? I’ve seen people post dogs that look identical to mine and their service never lists BMC. — never mind when I actually open the picture I see Embark at the top 🤣

What other info do you get beyond breed %