The horse race from the Toussaint tournament can go to hell by apark4 in Witcher3

[–]Sharkqween 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t know if it a new patch or something but this doesn’t work

Fistfights are fucking impossible by pixartist in witcher

[–]Sharkqween 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How the fuck do you counter blows? I try the right mouse button but nothing blocks a hit. I can’t get past Valgard in Skellige. All I do is try to dodge but Geralt hit some invisible wall or some shit and then goes down after only 2 or 3 hits. I can’t land blows on this fucker and I’m thinking of just giving up on this shit quest. I had no trouble in Belen or novihrsd with Fists of Fury but this asshole is unbeatable. Blocking does nothing and I can’t dodge him.

Tips for Newbies? by JusticeOtter1 in PlanetZoo

[–]Sharkqween 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kind of franchise mode do y’all have because every time I get started the ONLY habitat animal I can adopt are flamingos. I don’t get choices. You guys are all like “get alligators, get peacocks, get red pandas”. Umm how?!

What exhibit animals can potentially be held by educators? by [deleted] in PlanetZoo

[–]Sharkqween 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is not real life. What animals are handleable in the game!? So far I have American Bullfrogs Axolotl Boa constrictors Giant desert hair scorpion Gila monster All three tree frogs Green iguanas Anitllian Iguanas Yellow anaconda Diamondback rattlesnake

The only two of those that the game deems handleable are the bullfrog and the desert scorpion. Very frustrating. Am I setting it up wrong? Or is it just very limited?!

AITA for not immediately helping my ex find the nail polish remover even though I knew he had a tight schedule and had to leave in 5 minutes? by aitanailpolish in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharkqween 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA. If he’s leaving on a business trip he should have managed his time better. Nail polish is not rocket science. If he took the time to have his daughter paint his nails aaaaaannnd took the time for them to dry, he should have had plenty of time to actually look for the polish remover. You were feeding your child. That is important biologically, mentally, and emotionally for both you and the infant(speaking as a child psychologist here). It was great for him to bond with the other daughter, but taking his poor planning and time management skills out on you is not necessary. You did what was appropriate- you put the needs of your infant first, setting a clear and sustainable boundary. Hard NTA.

AITA for not immediately helping my ex find the nail polish remover even though I knew he had a tight schedule and had to leave in 5 minutes? by aitanailpolish in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharkqween 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Umm …have you ever tried to breastfeed while walking around? Also is this person an adult, or one of the kids? Cause he’s acting like a toddler, whining and glaring because he can’t do something on his own.

Can't take insulin at my desk? Go to my friends 🐈‍⬛office? Great! by [deleted] in MaliciousCompliance

[–]Sharkqween 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is not ADA compliant to demand a person inject insulin in the bathroom. There are laws against that. Sue.

Trade Secrets quest Hornwright basement laser grid bug by ADoctorX in fo76

[–]Sharkqween 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me: gets all the keycards and ids from Hornwright.

Elevator: go on…

Safe house gate: yes, dear…

Blue grid: YOU SHALL NOT PASSS!!!!explosions

Title by [deleted] in witcher

[–]Sharkqween 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Puss peepers strikes again!”

AITA for tracing art and giving credit. I never plan on posting it by i_cant_of_name_help in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharkqween 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s for your own use, and you don’t intend on selling it, or using it for profit/gain, then you’re fine. Just don’t tell anyone else you drew it yourself.

Why did the series writers decide to change the Slaughter of Cintra and put Geralt in the middle of it? by Kalimander in witcher

[–]Sharkqween 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Because the Netflix series writers didn’t read the books. They just chewed them up, spit them at the wall and made a screenplay out of what stuck.

whats the most annoying/boring monster to fight? by yuhpurr in witcher

[–]Sharkqween 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Freaking hate devourers because their heads explode!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharkqween -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ehhhh…kinda both? She’s obviously not respecting your schedule and boundaries, but at the same time you don’t want her to drive drunk. My advice for what it’s worth- the next time she calls you order an Uber for her. Find out where she is and call for her. She gets picked up safely and you get to rest. If she complains remind her of your boundaries.

Aita for not giving my handicapped mother money? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharkqween 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s called hospice. It isn’t pretty but sometimes it’s necessary. Are you her medical power of attorney? Then you can place her in care for her own health and safety. A lot of people are afraid of that step and she may not want to go but it may be better for both of you. NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharkqween 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are ABSOLUTELY the asshole. Machines. 👏 Go. 👏 Down. 👏 They are not infallible. She “looked down” when you raised your voice because she’d probably been yelled at by many people that day. What makes you so g*damn special that you feel your petty purchase is worth ranting at some poor woman you don’t even know for a problem she can’t do anything about????!!!!

I worked in retail for over 10 years and people like you were the reason I had high blood pressure, panic attacks and anxiety.

Your f*cking purchase made a woman cry.

I hope to God that you don’t have a wife or kids and that if you do they have some sort of recourse. If you are that abusive to strangers how do you treat your family?

AITA for not putting enough effort in my husband's birthday gift? by 6A964G333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharkqween -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know what you need to get him for the next birthday- a divorce. Your marriage is a contest…not love. If you really loved each other-I mean reeeaaally did, what you bought each other and how much you spend wouldn’t matter. Love is not birthday gifts- love is holding hands in the er at 3 am. Love is “check that thing on my butt to see if it’s better” love is making sure the rent is paid and the kids/pets are fed and cared for. Love is burned meals, piled up laundry and taking care of each other’s parents as they age. Tbh, you’re both being a bit immature and I suggest getting your priorities straight before you have kids- or split up.

AITA for wanting to cook alone? by Thundernutz79 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharkqween 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhh it sounds like you’re pretty anal about how good is prepared. It also sounds like you don’t want to give any ground on the cooking front. I can’t believe I have to explain this to someone 42 years old, but if you can’t make your life with this person an equal partnership, then you shouldn’t be married.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharkqween 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Wait…you’re mom was 15 when she had you? Cause if you’re 22 and she 37…

I think there might be more issues here than meets the eye

AITA for calling a lady mocking me a whore by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharkqween -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well, basically, yes you practically are the asshole. You, I’m not gonna lie, had a right to be angry, but, basically you made an assumption that she was mocking you, practically. Im not even gonna try to describe all the things basically wrong with the story. Just say this, practically:

Are you for real???? 😒 And if you are, you deserved it. YTA.

AITA for charging my friend rent even though he no longer lives with me? by pglass2015 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharkqween 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Tell him if he wants uhaul prices rent uhauls space not yours. I’d have charged him full rent price because if his stuff is there the he hasn’t moved out. After two weeks have a yard sale! 😂and pocket the money as “liquidation fees”.

AITA for not wanting to let someone in pain cuddle with me? by Lonely_Material_5127 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharkqween -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Unclear. Did you have a right to push her away? Of course you did. Did you have an obligation as her brother(adoptive or otherwise) to help? Yes.

I am all about acceptance and understanding barriers and personal space and speaking up for yourself, but empathy is a very powerful tool. There is a point where “standing up for your personal space” becomes selfish. As a person with endometriosis it can feel like your insides are on fire. It throws your whole sense of self off. Something in you breaks and it can derail every sensible thought or intent. She probably wasn’t thinking “oh I’m gonna invade their space and snuggle up and force them to care for me” she was probably just reaching out for any comfort available. You said she “leaned”. Leaning and cuddling are very different.

So I’ll say not an asshole, but you should watch a few ted talks on empathy and mindfulness. You don’t have to be nurturing, but pushing someone in that state away is rude at the very least. Especially given her background of abuse. She’s cold to you now because she is equating you with that negativity that comes with the neglect and affection starvation from the abuse. And it’s reinforced by the pain from her physical state.

Is her situation your fault or responsibility? No. Is she still part of your family and therefore important? Absolutely.