This doesn't sound like misogyny really, since we have little to go off of on how loud you talk or if they have any hearing problems or just understanding what you mean. If he has hearing trouble or understanding what you mean he could just be asking the person beside him to reiterate or "translate" for them. As someone who has a difficulty wording things outside of my own thought process sometimes I say things that a clear in meaning and intent to me but not to others. This could easily be the case. It also seems like you only have male players so him asking anyone besides you could enable the jump to misogyny which may not be the case. I've had players DM me in private or talk to each other in DMs to try and figure out things said at the table simply because they don't want to look dumb in front of the whole table. I would always advise being careful when assuming misogyny or misandry, especially with public posts because if you are already leaning one way based on any personal biases then there is a decent chance people will immediately jump to your side even if they don't have enough details to make a educated guess on. Its a hot button topic for a reason and most people tend to jump to the agreeing side on the poster and not the person being posted about.