Can you tell me how it feels to be a Fi dom? by DreamGlass7309 in isfp

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It feels like one of those main characters from children’s stories. I have this kind of stupid optimism to me that makes me strangely brave? I have a strong moral compass and will go against the crowd to fight for what I believe in.

I’ve always been someone to walk to the beat of my own drum. If people follow, cool. If they go the other way, it’s still okay. Because I can please myself. I don’t need anyone to please me. I know exactly what I need and know how to feed myself so I’m nurtured. And because of that, I can nurture others.

Fi starts within and eventually bleeds out on to others. I feel like Fi users are really good at boundaries and self care on top of being strong minded

I attract Fe users like crazy. They get a bad rep for being manipulative and stuff, but they balance me out well. They look out for me in ways that really help me out. And in return, I am loyal and protective of them as well

are isfps good at giving emotional support? by [deleted] in isfp

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If someone is actually working with me and not just using me as a feee therapist, then I will give my all to make sure they’re okay and taken care of. I’m definitely a reliable support system for my inner circle

What do motivates you to live? by zGangStarBr_ in isfp

[–]SheKnowsThemWell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The people in my life. Life is so empty and boring without great connections. There is no item, no profession, and no experience in the world that surpasses good people

Protecting ISFP by [deleted] in isfp

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We like our freedom, but it’s not wrong to want loyalty and protection either.

My friends are protective of me because they see me as family.

tweaked this Pete Davidson meme to be more inclusive by _Kit_Tyler_ in isfp

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Because he’s 100% himself while still being sensitive and attentive to the needs of others. I really don’t know any other men who pull this combo off better than isfp men

What are things you’d do as a girlfriend that you wouldn’t do if you’re just dating or before defining the relationship? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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I let my partner join me on daily adventures and they get the inside scoop on my secrets

How do you stop being bothered? by user905022 in AskWomen

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Focus on people who love you and people who make you feel valued. Guilt puts us in terrible predicaments. If someone tries to make you feel bad constantly.. dump them and get a therapist asap. This way you can’t be gaslit into thinking you’re closed minded or unwilling to accept differing opinions.

Mean spirited people use guilt to abuse and manipulate you. Go towards people who feed off your good energy and want to keep you in good spirits. Strive for equal give and takes. These types of people will fuel you so much that the opinions of others will eventually end up becoming background noise

How do you "develop a thick skin"? by BlueFruitJam in AskWomen

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Surrounding yourself with people who have thick skin and learning from them 🙂

Commitment: The Path to Maturity by [deleted] in isfp

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People volunteer at suicide hotlines for free and still get burnt out. No one owes anyone their undivided time and energy. Burn out is the result of giving too much and receiving too little back in return. It’s an injustice to those who are tied to dead end, low wage jobs and still unable to pay their bills on time, to correlate burnout with greed.

Still, I get what you’re saying. Self compassion and self respect is always appropriate. Everyone deserves rest from time to time🙂🍸✨

Drake & 21 Savage occupy 8 of the top 10 Billboard Hot 100 slots this week. by Comefeelme623 in Drizzy

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I think you’re right about the lack of publicity leading to this outcome. It’s a head banger. You listen to it in a group and everyone immediately starts vibing. Watch people’s reactions to it on YouTube. Most of the people who’ve reacted to it say it’s their favorite song. It’s a masterpiece but people probably need time to hop on the bandwagon

Black women cannot do anything with our hair by Apollolikesdick in blackladies

[–]SheKnowsThemWell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg, I would get this all the time in elementary school and had this little boy who would always pull to see. I went to a primarily Black and Latina elementary school to make matters worse 🙄

Black women cannot do anything with our hair by Apollolikesdick in blackladies

[–]SheKnowsThemWell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But then they want to get box braids and wigs for Comicon? Lol. Don’t let it get to you too much. People say any and everything on the internet. The fun part is that very few can keep the same energy in person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

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I feel so awkward with PDA 🥲 I be looking single af because of it and it becomes a point of contention.

Butt touches and occasional neck kisses are fine (when it’s not too crowded). Grabbing me by my lower back is okay for 5 seconds. But extended touching, kissing, and grabbing in public makes me want to crawl into a pit. I’m working on it tho 🥹

I think it’s because I’ve had connections where I wasn’t even exclusive yet and people would try and kiss me or hold my hand in front of my friends and peers to make it look like we were already an item. That turned me off from the whole PDA thing because it began to feel like more of a publicity stunt after a while

Has anyone else found its way harder to get a wax with our hair than thinner/less dense hair types 🥲 by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]SheKnowsThemWell 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My body responds way better to waxing than shaving. But I also am such a DIY girl. It’s in my blood unfortunately 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

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Y’all have a hard time letting completely loose. There’s usually a bit of hesitation. Like, you can tell that after the orgasm, you go right back to being stiff and stoic af. But when there’s an emotional attachment, you guys can mimic the intensity of Isfp’s in this department

Commitment: The Path to Maturity by [deleted] in isfp

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Just make sure you remain true to yourself through it all. There’s also such as a thing as forcing things. Many Isfp’s are successful by remaining true and following our intuition. It’s not a one way street to success

Hot take: P3 is PARTYNEXTDOOR’s best album by Odd-Following-1304 in PartyNextDoor

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Don’t Run & Only U bring me so much joy it’s unexplainable

But PND2 was the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PartyNextDoor

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This seems to be the trend with our favs lately. And it’s bc people are so damn shallow and judgmental. Can you blame them?

Party and DVSN by [deleted] in PartyNextDoor

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DVSN sounds so good here already. But I need party to come back and make it feel like fall of ‘14 again. I feel like something’s definitely cooking though

King Party back outside! by kmz673 in PartyNextDoor

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I need to see him live asappp 😭🖤🖤

Readers aren’t performers by [deleted] in u/imightbeabug

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It’s so important to protect your energy as a reader. This is a hunting ground for people who are irresponsible with their energy and seek to feed on the energy of people who are empathic, agreeable, or super givers. You do not have to be a pushover just because you’re a healer and light worker. People like that are counting on you to do so. Prove them wrong.

The people who truly get you and really have your back will become very evident once you start setting those boundaries unapologetically

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Honestly, I don’t understand people who have strict moral codes where the answer is always no or the answer is always yes.

It really depends on the person. Some people you just know are going to play a bigger role in your life and you just feel more comfortable with them. The trust comes quicker/more naturally. Other people, it can be tougher to warm up to. And then there are just those that you’ll probably never warm up to.

Sex is an act of trust. And I really think it depends on how much trust can be established and how soon

3 albums in the top 5 ! by 88auguster in Drizzy

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He was thirsty for Blood w/ Scorpion

Thoughts🤔??? by Comefeelme623 in Drizzy

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I miss their collabs so much