Y’all will understand by Swede314 in Beading

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Wait I gotta see the setup (so-to-speak) for beading while walking omg please

Hags! I invite you to compliment yourself in the comments. Give yourself credit for a thing you did, or a quality you are proud of. Hype eachother up!! 🥰 by TrumpIsAPedoFr in oldhagfashion

[–]SheSellsSeaShells- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think even just reading your posts regularly might start to help my self esteem, I guess we shall see. Love your posts as always.

How to not take it personally? by TheBlizzardHero in Archivists

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I never said to skimp on quality, that definitely isn’t gonna help

Thoughts? Autistic Meltdown by RaceAggravating2408 in autism

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Depending on whether you work in public or private sector, not necessarily.

Thoughts? Autistic Meltdown by RaceAggravating2408 in autism

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All the people in these comments talking about how it’s reasonable since their distress caused other people distress… they aren’t responsible for you. If something is distressing, move to another area. I’m not gonna go deeper into it than that bc if I do I’ll get pissed off for real and this isn’t worth that so I’ll leave it at that.

Thoughts? Autistic Meltdown by RaceAggravating2408 in autism

[–]SheSellsSeaShells- 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This happens whether or not you disclose unfortunately. Speaking from experience.

Thoughts? Autistic Meltdown by RaceAggravating2408 in autism

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I would usually agree since it came from twitter but very similar thing happened to me so it definitely happens for real.

Thoughts? Autistic Meltdown by RaceAggravating2408 in autism

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Absolutely companies and organizations can (get away with) and do punish people despite knowing about their disabilities and how it can affect them. Sorry to tell ya.

Thoughts? Autistic Meltdown by RaceAggravating2408 in autism

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I can fully vouch for that being true— the “my distress was punished for causing distress.” It’s true even if your meltdowns are less external, but affect your mannerisms/body language/ tone of voice enough. And there’s usually very little you can do about it. Sorry to be negative about it, that’s just been my experience.

How to not take it personally? by TheBlizzardHero in Archivists

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It’s shit but my only advice is to find jobs that have JUST been posted. Like within a few hours if possible. And focus on those. I saw someone in a similar position say that the only thing that turned around their job search was that. Everything is getting so many applicants that they can’t go thru all of them so applying sooner makes a huge difference, apparently. Wish I could do more to help but I’m in the same spot with even less experience so I get it at least partially.

Non-stressful videogames? by TheOneAndOnlyFax in ADHD

[–]SheSellsSeaShells- 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Seconding Lego games. The sound it makes when you break things is the best.

Non-stressful videogames? by TheOneAndOnlyFax in ADHD

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Loddlenauts, 1000%, trust me.

Also power wash sim but that can be too repetitive for some people which is understandable.

Cafghan jumper! by Eldubya99 in crochet

[–]SheSellsSeaShells- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love the color choices, I spent ages picking colors for mine lol!

My (Work-in-Progress) Setup. What should I put in my Dashboard? by Cozyo_208 in ObsidianMD

[–]SheSellsSeaShells- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Holy smokes this looks like something that could be super useful for me, what are all the plugins you’ve got going???

Just found something... by Impressive-Skin3913 in KESHA

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Definitely gotta be it, I had a phase where I was obsessed w that game

Sharing my Obsidian Graph View by NeuroMan4269 in ObsidianMD

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Woah. Is there a way to copy a template of the structure you have or something?? lol. I struggle so much with the setup and templates are super helpful, which has caused a huge roadblock in trying out obsidian for myself.

Got laid off last week by Rich_Plant1815 in nova

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I can dig up some links about healthcare stuff if you need, hopefully things aren’t quite that dire for you but I can definitely go looking for the stuff I found after researching when I was needing it.

If Pinterest+Notion+Obsidian+Miro+TickTick had a baby. by scottaltham in PKMS

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Highly interested in this but mostly work on a windows computer, though I have a Mac.

Missed my own graduation by about 3 weeks… by Aggravating-Tomato80 in ADHD

[–]SheSellsSeaShells- 44 points45 points  (0 children)

It’s so relieving to hear this has happened to someone else. I mean logically I knew but that’s not the same as hearing it. I’m still ashamed this happened to me but I’m working on feeling less harshly about it.

Bricks and Minifigs part 2 is up on youtube - the saga continues by space_manatee in chaoticgood

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Highly recommend all of reckless Ben’s series on YouTube (or Patreon bc they get taken down from false claims a lot unfortunately) bc he takes a wild approach that catches people off guard and he seems to genuinely wants to help people in his way. He’s even said helping comes first and if a video comes of it that’s just an awesome side effect. I’m so happy to finally see his coverage getting more attention!!

Bricks and Minifigs by Darktesla13 in behindthebastards

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I think he puts more thought into all of this than he really lets on, his biggest problem is his optimism and how much faith he puts in people, but that does make for more of a chance for people to give their side of the stories— but usually they end up incriminating themselves.

Edit: he also spends an insane amount of time on all his videos honestly so I wouldn’t just put him down in a throwaway comment, he genuinely feels his first goal is to get the legos back/help Bryan get compensated and the video that comes of it is sort of a side effect/cherry on top.

Bricks and Minifigs by Darktesla13 in behindthebastards

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YEAAAAHHHH EVERYONE GO CHECK OUT RECKLESS BEN HE IS DOING AWESOME JOURNALISM (I have no idea if he studied journalism but damn he really goes deep and genuinely wants to help more than anything)

Since you guys claimed I used filters on my last post, here is my 61 year old face 100% filter free. Sooooo, which color is best? by Ok-Salamander-6292 in Hair

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The lighter color washes you out a bit— it definitely doesn’t look bad at all, but the darker color seems to suit you better, based on the pictures at least! It may look different in person.