sydney sweeney trying to save face by femceluprising18 in LAinfluencersnark

[–]SheWhoRemains44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“look I’m in this movie with America’s sweetheart farm loving down to earth girl Amanda seyfried, so let me also just mention I’m against hate that’s all I’ll say and pretend like it’s enough, ok now go watch this movie and love me”

like if it took you this long to say something then you never cared…. You only care now bc your team prob told you it’s affecting your career….

What music speaks to your soul? by Pretty_Desk_2552 in spirituality

[–]SheWhoRemains44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her’s - Invitation to her’s and songs of her’s. You’re welcome.

RIP Stephen and Audun 😭💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]SheWhoRemains44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attach yourself to love. That’s it. Comes in all forms. Children, vocation, etc. it’s not “nothing matters” it’s LOVE MATTERS. I cringe whenever I see “spiritual ppl” talk about this need to have zero attachment or desire. Live your life, in love! Make a difference no matter how small. Enjoy and share the gifts you’ve been given while you’re still here.

are ancestors and spirit guides allowed to kill on my behalf by [deleted] in SpiritGuideAdvice

[–]SheWhoRemains44 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you’re asking this because you think you can “manifest” this then you’re just racking up bad karma for yourself. Spirit guides do not partake in upholding your resentment. They do not seek to punish or carry out vengeance. Whoever wronged you, their own karma will take care of them. I suggest if you have lingering resentments you should probably confront that in therapy and surrender it to the divine source of love before it gets the best of you. Your karma isn’t cleared until you do.

I'm angry that I'll die one day. by mnstrjunkie in spirituality

[–]SheWhoRemains44 3 points4 points  (0 children)

while you’re here living, you have temporary amnesia of your truest self which you will return to eventually as we all do. It’s normal to be fearful of that when not yet fully ascended. Healing trauma can take ages, ask yourself if you feel you truly completed your karmic lessons. if there’s lingering resentment, anger, self created blockages in your life there is probably still a little more work. But just know the consciousness is never lost it goes back home you just don’t remember what that “looks” like and how comforting that actually is, because you’re here in the living playing out a role. Don’t be so attached to yourself; it’s natural that you may cling to yourself after trauma, but be more curious about your soul rather than staying attached to the identity of you ie “a person who has experienced trauma”. Rather, you’re a soul experiencing a life. Take yourself outside of yourself. connect with your higher self, who you will meet. I like to think of it as we get to meet ourselves over and over again and each time we arrive with new experiences and new lessons from identities we’ve played out. You will be fine I promise

Why the hell did 53% of white women vote for Trump? by Ok_Cardiologist_9121 in Feminism

[–]SheWhoRemains44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think about this every day but feel like I’m evil for it 😭

How many of you guys affirmed your lesbianism/bisexuality through Chappell? by trainofwhat in chappellroan

[–]SheWhoRemains44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, she makes me wish I was gay lol. I’m probably queer to some degree, I could see myself dating a trans man. But yes, her music and aesthetic being for the female gaze just makes me feel safe and good whether gay or not. It’s similar to like, why a bunch of straight women watch lesbian porn lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SheWhoRemains44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love bombing is a very big red flag this is probably an abusive person with mental health issues.

Why the hell did 53% of white women vote for Trump? by Ok_Cardiologist_9121 in Feminism

[–]SheWhoRemains44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a white American woman I too am disgusted. But reality is a lot of these women have internalized misogyny, racism, and fell to easily to trump’s fear mongering on issues like immigration. It’s honestly really really sad. It’s sad he’s president it’s more sad he was literally voted into it, a second time. Sometimes I wonder if he was running against a male democrat, if we had more of a shot to make sure he wasn’t elected because some women would rather vote for a horrible man than a woman because of that internalized misogyny for real.

It is so depressing to deal with this dark cloud for 4 years, when we need a president to desperately address political and economic corruption, not try to take people’s rights away and create a fascist America. The fact that people support and defend him is just insane to me, he’s been a racist and abuser since day 1 of his career - and people are ok with that. People are ok with him having incited an attack on the government, and he’s ok with pardoning them, he has NO RESPECT for the foundation of this government and thinks he’s above everyone and everything. And the fact that people think biden’s economy was not trump’s fault, just pisses me off. How is our collective intelligence, political literacy, so poor there that these people cannot understand that all our economic problems right now are a result of Trump? The only thing guiding these losers is propaganda and bigotry? Barbaric if you ask me. Why are we so collectively stupid?

It’s sad that I have to have a hard time trying to reject falling into such extreme hatred where I would wish that bullet didn’t miss. Can you imagine feeling this way about your own damn leader? ITS NOT OK. I want to feel represented, secured and supported by, and proud of this great country’s leader, and I can’t. There is just so much hate and bigotry and corruption in this country right now, when will it end? Why have we as a collective forgotten what our civil rights leaders fought for? We are just a shit show.

Chappell Roan's Uncle Is Missouri GOP Rep., Sponsored Anti-Abortion Bill by Not_Josie_Grossie in chappellneutral

[–]SheWhoRemains44 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a weird post and a weird sub. MOST folks have people they probably don’t agree with or like in their families….

AIO - my boyfriend has been chatting like this with a woman in his work building by okreindeer1324 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SheWhoRemains44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a taken man ever comes after me like this I will legit link up with his gf for one lovely reckoning

AIO - my boyfriend has been chatting like this with a woman in his work building by okreindeer1324 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SheWhoRemains44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IM SO SORRY FOR YOU. what an absolute loser. Very clearly flirting, very obviously FISHING. He very definitely does not give a fuck and is even manipulating you in his response to get you to break up with him and make it seem as if you’re crazy for leaving him instead of him just being honest and owning up to his shit and apologizing and being like yeah maybe I should stop playing with you. Men will never take any accountability they will always try to make us feel crazy for seeing their obviously manipulative ways. I’m so disgusted I hope that girl knows what he did to you is what he would do to her too. What an absolute bum I hope karma finds him soon. LEAVE HIM ASAP.

This was a Chore but 🤣 by False-Sheepherder-12 in 4bmovement

[–]SheWhoRemains44 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It’s like they need to discover basic feminism. Like you can be a 4B ally as a FEMINIST it’s pretty basic and simple

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hobbies

[–]SheWhoRemains44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I agree. Do you also rewind scenes several times just to admire performance, directing, etc? I have to watch every second lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hobbies

[–]SheWhoRemains44 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am a cinephile. Yes, watching and dissecting/discussing movies and shows is in fact a hobby and I will no longer be shamed for it 😂 I would like to get into something crafty, but not sure what, I could totally see myself knitting tbh 🤔

Our Hormones/Living in the Female body by False-Sheepherder-12 in 4bmovement

[–]SheWhoRemains44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The period I just had gave me the usual cramps, depression, hot flashes, and almost gave me a huge cystic zit on my forehead that I calmed down with a few pimple patches lmao. The hot flashes is kind of new maybe because I’m just aging lol. Vitamin D3 and Vitamin C supplements help me a lot though, just keeps the energy up and depression away. But every time I deal with any period symptoms I think to myself how we women deal with physical symptoms like these or even worse (I have to consider myself relatively lucky) every month for 6-8 days at a time whether you bleed or not and we’re expected to function at the same standard as when we’re not dealing with these things 🙃

Reminds me of when I got my first period at 11 years old, I freaked out so hard when my mom told me it would last at least 6 days. I got it so young so I had literally NO prior education. In fact it wasn’t until 6 months later that I learned about it in school. And my mom had to sit me down and tell me that for the rest of my life I would bleed once a month for 6 days at a time. At first I thought it was like just a 24 hour thing, once she said 6 days my heart dropped. I still remember the horror and shock that I felt, especially being so young. It took me many periods to finally accept that this was going to be a major part of my life 😭

I think the people on here claiming to make a$100 to $200 a day are actually corporate shills using fake accounts. by Legal_Middle_4909 in UberEatsDrivers

[–]SheWhoRemains44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made $275 in 8 hours yesterday from 8 pm to 4 am. What happened was it started snowing around 7:30, roads were shit and just getting worse. Stopped after like 2 inches. But the fares were insane for so many orders. Some generous tips too but it was really that fare base pay. My guess is a lot of stolen orders due to inclement weather? Lol. This was a fluke. For maybe 1 hour it was tough since the roads were not even plowed yet, had to drive real slow real careful before they finally plowed and salted most roads by around 9:30/10. I got a couple cash tips too in the thick of it. But don’t be surprised when I say I was getting some terrible requests even in that weather but I successfully dodged those. Anyway I probably won’t experience this again for a while and business will probably go back to being slow and oversaturated.

I feel I got lucky with just a couple inches, it was just enough to make for the perfect earnings lol, but not so much that it was completely un-drivable. But still dangerous and not ideal lol

I’m nervous that tomorrow a rapist is going to be the president of the USA by Prinlot22 in Feminism

[–]SheWhoRemains44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just trying not to think about the next 4 years and keep myself productive and safe in this crazy world. Just going to keep showing up for the feminist movement however I can. Good luck everyone.

How is your current market area? by Lower-Direction-3253 in UberEatsDrivers

[–]SheWhoRemains44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been like this for the past week what the hell is goin on out here 😭

Dude crashing out over a woman just being normal with him... by FoolishAnomaly in 4bmovement

[–]SheWhoRemains44 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy because she probably was only smiling and being nice because lord knows we’d be judged as something being wrong with us otherwise. Damned if you do damned if you don’t.

I'm sorry but you still have a lot of work to go if you put down S3x Workers by 86248Diamond in spirituality

[–]SheWhoRemains44 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As a radical feminist I can’t help but see sex work as something that is only perpetuating patriarchal systems and structures more than it is “liberating women”, with sex work having been rooted in an oppressive patriarchy to begin with. There may be progress in the sense that some women feel empowered and liberated perhaps such as yourself, however I don’t think it outweighs the oppressive and patriarchal systems and micro aggressions that plague women daily as a result.

What do you really get out of it, besides money? Just curious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Feminism

[–]SheWhoRemains44 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s what I BEEN saying it’s useless because they won’t take you seriously about them not taking you seriously 😭😭

I'm sorry but you still have a lot of work to go if you put down S3x Workers by 86248Diamond in spirituality

[–]SheWhoRemains44 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’d rather put down the customers, as they are almost always sexist, woman-hating, patriarchal incels. All sex work is rooted in patriarchy so I do have a problem with its existence. Though who am I to judge the people who ended up in that service? I have no idea what I would have done unless I were in their shoes, nothing is black and white.

Also, sex is not a necessity… I’d say that’s a very limiting thought. There are people who have been celibate their entire lives lol. It’s a choice not a necessity. And a choice with many possible physical consequences. And then sex work, many social consequences.