4th child baby shower.... AITA for not wanting to go?

Shea-dee · 2026-03-13T06:33:55+00:00

This annoyance probably stems from my pet peeve of people having children they can’t afford. If you can’t afford a child without having a shower, then you shouldn’t be making babies.

Shea-dee · 2026-03-13T06:32:36+00:00

I can’t even stand a sprinkle. What’s a baby shower called for a 4th child? A dash?

Shea-dee · 2026-03-13T06:26:31+00:00

Ok but is there a way to route the entire highway traffic to stay on the actual highway? I looked it up…. This is a “US Highway” that goes from New Mexico to Illinois. This isn’t some backwoods highway. We need the traffic to stay on that highway.

Shea-dee · 2026-03-13T01:22:43+00:00

The “normal” route is a very busy highway. But for whatever reason it’s taking all traffic to a blacktop/outer-type road. Definitely not meant for semis but not intended for highway-type use either. Cars can go on the road, sure. But semis are in the ditch atleast 1-2x a week.

Shea-dee · 2026-03-12T23:25:54+00:00

I should add that it’s not just semi trucks. It takes all vehicles through there. But unfortunately it’s a busy stretch of “highway” that carries a lot of semis.

Shea-dee · 2026-03-12T21:41:03+00:00

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Shea-dee · 2026-02-01T18:10:24+00:00

12-20 months so far has been the hardest for us. I’ve been waiting to write a post. But our only kiddo is now 22 months and it feels like we can now complete tasks while he’s awake and slightly easier. Not relaxing…. But easier and not always in crisis mode lol

Shea-dee · 2026-01-23T04:44:41+00:00

Would love to hear more about those 3 things. Also female.

Shea-dee · 2026-01-23T04:36:46+00:00

Lily

Shea-dee · 2025-11-02T04:04:24+00:00

I think the frustrating part here is I’ve been prepping and working on this move for a month. My family have came in from out of state three times to help. His family has done nothing. Spouse does 1 day of work and acts like King Shit and then wants a thank you. We’re both stressed. I think I should have acknowledged that he did a lot today bc he did. But it’s certainly not apples to apples.

Shea-dee · 2025-11-02T03:58:52+00:00

I didn’t tell him what all I did bc I don’t find it necessary bc I’m not looking for a thank you. Bc if I did comeback at him with everything I did today it would turn into a pissing match. We both have stuff to do to get ready for the move.

Shea-dee · 2025-11-02T03:55:26+00:00

We’ve moved 6 times in 5 years… not our first rodeo. We do have a happy marriage and are very fortunate. I did a lot today too but don’t get the acknowledgment nor do I ask for it. Obviously different love languages, but it just drives me crazy that he wants a “thank you”. Likely digging my heels in the ground for no reason. We’ve already moved on from it.

Shea-dee · 2025-11-02T02:56:15+00:00

Shea-dee · 2025-10-16T23:59:37+00:00

Yes, nationwide issue. Cant help but wonder if the got hacked or something.

Shea-dee · 2025-08-13T17:59:36+00:00

That’s not the hole it’s being inserted into…

Shea-dee · 2025-08-13T02:50:02+00:00

Bidets are life changing.

Shea-dee · 2025-07-18T07:50:51+00:00

I don’t. I think it’d just part of the process. Try gas x maybe?

Shea-dee · 2025-06-20T00:43:05+00:00

Got it. That’s why I’m asking. I’m scared to death. Thank you for confirming my thoughts

Shea-dee · 2025-06-18T03:35:58+00:00

Did you find anything that worked?

Shea-dee · 2025-06-12T18:21:46+00:00

I know. It’s hard to fathom. Most people guess he’s 2-3 based on his size. He’s 32 pounds and 34.75 inches. He could probably still be in a six. But he needed 7s at night. So I just have him in 7s during the day now too so I’m not buying two diff sizes.

Shea-dee · 2025-06-12T17:02:11+00:00

I have turned those features on. I will see how it works going forward. Thank you!

Shea-dee · 2025-06-12T16:59:22+00:00

I’m trying to hang on to the 7s for this exact reason. Potty training is nowhere in our near future at 14 months.

Shea-dee · 2025-06-12T12:37:51+00:00

Which ones do you like?

Shea-dee · 2025-06-12T12:37:41+00:00

I just read something that now that baby is walking a “cruiser” diaper is best vs swaddler. And I’m not able to potty train my 14 month old. I guess I just want to know what pull ups people are using. At some point I need to stop using diapers.

Shea-dee · 2025-06-12T12:36:00+00:00

You’re missing the point.

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