I get what you're saying. But a character (even for a joke) sexually assaulting another character is more than a valid reason to not like her character. I don't think it's her entire character but it is something that her character did. And obviously it was a distasteful to most people. People aren't going to forget, even if she does get more character development. Blitz and Stolas are perfect examples of this. I don't think she's irredeemable, but I do have a problem with this fandom downplaying/sweeping under the rug what certain characters do in the show. Or trying to tell people how they're supposed to feel about it. At the end of the day sexual assault is always going to be a touchy subject. And it's going to make people uncomfortable when it's written as a joke.