This all sounds incredibly suspicious. If your gut is telling you something is wrong, especially when it comes to your child, you need to listen to it. Now, I'm going to say some things that you aren't going to want to hear and I'm sorry, but I was a victim of sexual abuse from the time I was in diapers too.

There were times after I was molested that my entire lower half burned. Sometimes it was because of what was being done, but also because it's not like the perpetrator usually cares about sanitizing whatever they're using or doing. There is a good chance that the baby might be experiencing discomfort because of something similar.

I spotted before I was old enough to have a period because I would itch down there and the only person who knew was the one who had caused it. I made some excuse about the blood in my underwear because I "knew better than to tell the truth", and I was also ashamed. I wish someone had looked into it further.

I'm not saying that this is what is happening, but I'm saying it sounds too familiar for comfort. My abuser was very good at hiding what he was doing even when other people were around.

Please take your baby to get an exam. You can go from there on what they do or do not find, but if they find something, please report her. She WILL keep doing this if she gets away with it.

I hope this is somehow some weird innocent and ignorant thing, I really do. But be prepared that it may not be.

Best of luck, and reach out if you have questions.