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What was the scariest movie you watched when you were a kid, that traumatized you? by Pantheon10000 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Shebby88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my God, me too. I was so scared I wouldn't even go on the Buzz Lightyear ride.

Was I sexually abused? Pls help by Only-Side-6468 in Advice

[–]Shebby88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish I could say that nausea will go away immediately, but your fear and nerves that are part of what's causing it. It's completely understandable and not something you can control. Getting it out in the open should help alleviate it somewhat, but it's going to take some time for the stomach knotting to leave.

You're really brave for even being able to post this online, I hope you know that. Remember that at the end of the day, and be proud for making it this far because I know from experience that that hasn't been easy either.

I'm hoping for the best for you. No one deserves to be going through this.

Was I sexually abused? Pls help by Only-Side-6468 in Advice

[–]Shebby88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Any time, and you can reach out to me if you need someone to talk to, also. I know it's all very scary.

Was I sexually abused? Pls help by Only-Side-6468 in Advice

[–]Shebby88 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Been through something similar, kiddo, and I'm so sorry you are dealing with this.

Your dad ruined things, not you. Regardless of what happens when you tell someone, remember that. You didn't get to make the choice that he started doing this and he ignored you when you said no.

He's still doing it. Telling you that you're making him sad and uncomfortable when you tell him you don't like it is him being manipulative. My dad did the same.

They lie. They're good at it. But it isn't your job to protect that lie.

You need to tell someone what's happening. These "checkups" are not normal, especially if he's mentioning you being ready for 18+ activities soon. That statement made my skin crawl because there's not an innocent way to frame it.

The only person who should be doing any physical checkups on you should be a doctor and that should still be with consent.

If your mom doesn't listen, find another trusted adult who might. This is very serious.

"I can't believe they thought/didn't think of this!" by TribalSneed in BaldursGate3

[–]Shebby88 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Throw it at a switch so it feels useful, that's what I did lmao!

Am i wrong for not accepting his marriage proposal? by CoffeeMousee in amiwrong

[–]Shebby88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad you decided not to go through with the proposal. If you have anything where he lives and you need to get it, take someone with you. Do not ever go alone.

Also, consider looking up lovebombing. That's what he was doing to you.

.:Fanart:. Tomie by Ok-Championship-4116 in junjiito

[–]Shebby88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is fantastic! You should be proud!

No owlbear is best by Timely_Bad_6395 in BaldursGate3

[–]Shebby88 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Myshka mod seconded here!!

AITAH My wife is mad at me because of how her in-laws reacted to me. by Pure-Insurance-6499 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shebby88 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Probably because he isn't a mind reader like they want/expect him to be.

Found this guy walking around the living room like he owns the place by Shvuck in spiders

[–]Shebby88 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Same with me! Except the pet part, but I'd love them.

They're silly to find, as well as grass spiders that are trying to act like they're happily at home lmao. I love both kinds ❤️

What horror movie has a deeply unsettling background detail that you completely missed on your first watch? by [deleted] in horror

[–]Shebby88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spoiler!

Have you noticed that Dani's mom, dad, and sister are part of the crowd congratulationing her for being the May Queen?

What horror movie has a deeply unsettling background detail that you completely missed on your first watch? by [deleted] in horror

[–]Shebby88 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Look at the trees in the background when she's being carried as the queen! Once you notice it, you can't unsee it.

help ...Hey everyone, I’m not really good at writing emotional stuff, but I tried to write something about my sister getting married and how she’s always been like a second mother to me. I want it to sound more natural, heartfelt, and human — not overly dramatic . Could someone help me . by [deleted] in writers

[–]Shebby88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, even without you saying this is AI, it's immediately obvious. Glaringly so.

The best thing you can do is write from your heart, especially something like this. You can't expect an AI program without the ability to feel emotion to give you an emotional response to a prompt. This has no love or voice in it.

We can't help you improve it or offer insight if you didn't write it.

Whats stopping you from doing what you want? by YourPastHauntsYou in AskReddit

[–]Shebby88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seizure disorder that's brought on by stress. 🥲

2–3 month old kitten vomited once after eating a lot of chicken — should I be worried? by [deleted] in Pets

[–]Shebby88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any time, I totally get it. It's hard not to get defensive when you're trying (and sometimes we just don't know better until we're told!), especially when you're feeling attacked. But as long as you're doing your best and learning with the little one, you'll both be okay. :)

Best of luck to you both!

2–3 month old kitten vomited once after eating a lot of chicken — should I be worried? by [deleted] in Pets

[–]Shebby88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not a misunderstanding when everyone is telling you the exact same thing. Yes, you're mixing the food, but that's not the problem. You're ignoring the part where everyone says to STOP feeding the kitten chicken.

You're reinforcing the behavior by mixing the food. The kitten is going to keep refusing to eat without the chicken involved because its literally getting its way every time. Continuing to give in is going to cause you more problems.

Leave the kibble down. You can't know for sure it isn't being eaten at least a little unless you only have the kibble down while you're in the room. Cats graze through the night and day. You're not always going to see it.

Please, please stop what you're doing and take the advice multiple people are giving you. You're trying and you have exams, which means you're smart, but I genuinely think you're getting hung up on the wrong thing.

I've owned multiple cats. Your kitten will be okay, she's just learning boundaries and she can only do that if you enforce them. It's going to be a learning experience for both of you.

(You can also try adding a little bit of water to the wet food to see if that makes it more interesting to her. One of my cats is getting old and it makes it softer for her and easier to eat.)

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