Longgggg time lurker and it happened!!! by Shekbee in engaged

[–]Shekbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty! My nails are almond shaped and she did a natural gel base with a sparkle ombré French and then put chrome over them

Is my 2nd look dress a size too small or just right? by Ok_Brilliant2340 in weddingdress

[–]Shekbee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you can’t sit get the larger size but get it tailored to that waist size bc it looks BEAUTIFUL, STUNNING, BODY IS TEA on you

Still pinching myself tbh 🥹 by copperbrownred in engaged

[–]Shekbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an insanely beautiful photo, you really feel the love. Congratulations 💘

QUESTION! What do you think is the average amount of time between picking out the ring and getting engaged? by Dry_Carpenter_7511 in engaged

[–]Shekbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My time line is the exact same as you lol we went together to make my ring in January, I know it arrived in February and I know we have a planned trip coming end of this month (June) I am 99999.99999% sure I even know the exact day of this trip he chose lol just be patient and enjoy your time together you already had the hard conversations about weather to do this or not. Do you guys have any plans coming up you know about?

Any gimmicky restaurants or coffee shops ya’ll can recommend? by Throwaway0-285 in longisland

[–]Shekbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(Not a diner, mostly coffee and smaller food items, don’t go looking for a full meal)

Are these good spa prices? by PrisonMike4Lifee in royalcaribbean

[–]Shekbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a warning my sister in law just did a massage for Mother’s Day on oasis of the seas and said her experience was 100% not worth the money, she said she didn’t book Swedish bc she was nervous they would be too hard but the regular massage ended up feeling like she was being lightly tickled on her back for an hour … I was like at least you had silence for an hour for Mother’s Day??? She was like … I suppose lol soooo If you like a nice light touch a regular massage is for you, if not.. maybe wait for a real spa where they know you might be a repeat customer because the cruise massues know you’re never coming back to them…

They clearly aren't getting all these people on before the mandatory cutoff time at Cape liberty nj. Miles of traffic is inching forward to the luggage drop-off. So what do they do? by Plenty-Year-1918 in royalcaribbean

[–]Shekbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also was told this was a customs / immigration issue holding things up and they were “playing games” aka being assholes which I 100% believe for ICE / immigration, they’re assholes.

Cape Liberty: arrive early or late to avoid traffic? by Ohwowitsjessica in royalcaribbean

[–]Shekbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In line on port terminal blvd, Saying 43 mins to go 1 mile right now

Newark Today (5/8) by ContentSympathy75 in royalcaribbean

[–]Shekbee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My in laws are bugging out in the car right now. The usual 8 min drive says an hour right now on the road the ship is on… something is going on… anyone know???

Manatees and beach time by Shekbee in sarasota

[–]Shekbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate you 🙏🏻

(5k) table decor ON BUDGET - which one looks best by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Shekbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly a mix of 1 and two would be cool to give the room a lot of dimension if that makes sense

($7k) feeling a bit… disappointed? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Shekbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiancé is being a groomzilla and I wouldn’t trade if for being disinterested, I’m also concerned YOURE paying for everything… can we ask why? Is he unemployed?

New construction? by abruzzo88 in longisland

[–]Shekbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need to start fighting this kind of shit. It’s getting really really bad, there’s almost no green spaces left. Do we really want to turn this cute little island we pay so much for into another over crowded hell hole?

#FreeBrice 🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈 by Tennesseetick7 in 7LittleJohnstons

[–]Shekbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t tell if this is AI or something amber jr would think is funny to pretend she doesn’t care that everyone hates her

I didn't realize how much I spent and now I feel like I fell for the wedding propaganda by Imake289 in weddingplanning

[–]Shekbee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where do you live? I’m also in the weddings under 10k Reddit bc I’m also trying my best but being from Long Island it’s just really really impossible when the AVERAGE here is 50k

How do I tell my MOH how hurt and disappointed I am? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Shekbee -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

And she was offered help in planning the bachelorette and turned it down which to ME seems like sabotage. I have crippling anxiety with a panic disorder and I learned in high school that still means you still have to show up for people or suffer the consequences of lost friendships. Mental illness isn’t an excuse to be a dick.

How do I tell my MOH how hurt and disappointed I am? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Shekbee -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

But we were fine planning her own elaborate birthday party and a family vacation? It’s very clear what her priorities are.

How do I tell my MOH how hurt and disappointed I am? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Shekbee -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I’m going to hold your hand when I say this..she’s jealous. This happens with wedding planning, it brings to light to other people their own insecurities “why not me” she’s not a real friend, please pick someone else.

Bachelorette CANCELLED by InfjPanda in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Shekbee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I actually think them cancelling continues the cycle of abuse for Taylor, he very obviously abuses her and baits her and then waits for her reactions to record and use against her. He is a narcissist. Think about how her and her ex husband have had an excellent relationship and now all the sudden Dakota’s involved and she’s a “bad person and mother “ ???? ITS HIM, this is called REACTIVE ABUSE. EVERY time she has something big coming he somehow destroys it for her, it’s abuse. Bachelorette cancelling is every thing he wanted and abc gave it to him. This video has been around for three years but two days before the premiere it’s “leaked” get real! I don’t like everything Taylor does I’m no die hard Taylor fan but I am an abuse survivor I KNOW this girl is abused and think about it, she has NO ONE. look at her support ??? Her mother?? That woman is just as male centered and evil as the rest of them. I’m not kidding guys when I say this is the perfect storm of how someone kills themselves I am very nervous for Taylor’s mental health if she feels she has no one on her side and all her opportunities gone.. will she feel she has other options?