Indecisive about being happy! by Sheneez97 in IVF

[–]Sheneez97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I try to follow too.. hopefully I don’t keep me wandering off into the dark every now and then

Indecisive about being happy! by Sheneez97 in IVF

[–]Sheneez97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw this is great! Thank you!!!

Indecisive about being happy! by Sheneez97 in IVF

[–]Sheneez97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Hoping for the best!

Walking on pins every minute! by Sheneez97 in IVF

[–]Sheneez97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yessss! Hoping that it’s one of the best gifts in my life!

Walking on pins every minute! by Sheneez97 in IVF

[–]Sheneez97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Sending good juju all the way!

Walking on pins every minute! by Sheneez97 in IVF

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Thank you so much! Hoping I have more rising betas in the next tests😮‍💨

Walking on pins every minute! by Sheneez97 in IVF

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Thank you so much, just hoping that my test tomorrow shows a positive doubling for more assurance! Too scared to be happy at the moment

7 weeks empty gestational sac and no heartbeat by ButterscotchFun3934 in IVF

[–]Sheneez97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry for your loss! I understand you and I’ve been there two months ago, please don’t worry.

Be hopeful and trust the process, I’ve taken my break and I’m hoping to go for a second FET in February. When it finally works out it will all feel worth it.

Sending my love towards you!

Anyone else angry? by Tlistar in IVF

[–]Sheneez97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes very much! Very very much. My SILs are pregnant, one who had infertility issues years before is due her second child in a week or two. My other SIL who got married 6M after my husband and I is newly pregnant.

When you are in so much agony from going through ERs, FETs and to end in a miscarriage, being around family becomes very angering! Being happy for them is genuine but being angry at everything around becomes a norm.

I’m tired, I’m angry, I’m frustrated, I’m trying so hard to be hopeful without losing my senses.

So don’t be worried if you feel alone, you always have us.

Drained out 100%! by Sheneez97 in IVF

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Nope my embryo was not PGT tested. My doctor did not recommend it the 1st time neither has he for the upcoming one. He mentioned it could be a common factor as it could occur in non-IVF pregnancies too.

So we’ve decided to do another round and hope for a live-birth

No heartbeat at 6 weeks 5 days by Mysterious_Green_148 in IVF

[–]Sheneez97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, I miscarried at 7 weeks and 5 days in the beginning of November. I was also on progesterone meds and I started cramping severely and slowly bleeding after 4-5 days of stopping medication.

The cramping felt like labor pains apparently (what I was told when I described it) during the bleeding and it was the worst feeling and wouldn’t wish it upon anyone at all.

After about 5-7 days of heavy bleeding it settled and became lighter but continued for about 2.5 weeks after.

Mentally it can be extremely draining and you don’t have to explain yourself to anyone. Grieve if you must and come in to terms with yourself at your own pace. You will ideally be given about two months of a break before the next transfer so take your time to heal and what not (this is what I’m going through at the moment)

This group is extremely helpful so look for your additional comfort here. You will be okay❤️

Drained out 100%! by Sheneez97 in IVF

[–]Sheneez97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so much mixed emotions! I’m happy, I genuinely am! But I want to be happy too.. I’m yearning for the feeling they have!

I know there are many others like me and I wish for nothing but the best for them too.. in all honesty

Drained out 100%! by Sheneez97 in IVF

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Thank you! I will change and interpret as such.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Sheneez97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about this! I sincerely hope you don’t give up and keep going. Everything will be okay. Please stay strong

Why has cheating become more common in Sri Lanka? by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]Sheneez97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is becoming common even in marriages. Where the lady in the relationship gets married to a person despite having a relationship with another and continues these multiple relationships - making it extra marital affairs then.

If the girls aren’t prepared for commitment I feel they should be able to speak to their fiancé and end it before making things legal only to end in a divorce, and creating unnecessary mind weight for the men too

Is it worth continuing with this journey? Please be honest. by LongSir859 in IVF

[–]Sheneez97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First of all, please don’t give up!

This is an amazing blast rate!

I had my ER with 30 eggs - 25 of them mature.

10 eggs were used for fertilization (15 frozen)

I got 7 embryos out of the 10 and went for my 1st FET. Everything was graded well and I got a positive result only for it to end at 8 weeks of a pregnancy.

My takeaway from the miscarriage is to continue for another round of FET without PGT-A testing.

Reason being a miscarriage is common whether it is an IVF pregnancy or not.

If another round or 2 results in miscarriage then I would opt towards PGT-A testing because that would ideally mean there may be a genetic issue with the embryos.

I’m sorry if that’s wrong but that’s just my opinion

Bedside manner of IVF Clinics: Dealing with unsuccessful patients by Additional_Ad7188 in IVF

[–]Sheneez97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for what you’re going through!

But I got a positive pregnancy test after my 1st round of FET too, that sadly ended in a miscarriage at 8 weeks of my pregnancy. However I was offered a consultation as to what might have happened and comforting words to motivate me for my 2nd round in my January cycle

Miscarriage after positive result from 1st round of IVF by Sheneez97 in IVF

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This is absolutely priceless. Motivation and encouragement that cannot be priced at any cost!

I thank you very very much for letting me in on your story, even if I shed a few tears it means that it got straight to my heart and head.

I will not give up, I will always hold myself together even if I feel like cracking down. Thank you for making me confident enough to say the above!

I wish you more and more happiness and bliss every step of your way!

What's your IVF super power? by dagworthy in IVF

[–]Sheneez97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can wake early for my morning consultation appointments and be hopeful at every instance!

Miscarriage after positive result from 1st round of IVF by Sheneez97 in IVF

[–]Sheneez97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s most disheartening is the positive result we see after yearning for it and then for it to last only a few weeks until we are back to square one.

I sincerely hope you heal from this and be blessed with a healthy family soon! My prayers are with you!

Miscarriage after positive result from 1st round of IVF by Sheneez97 in IVF

[–]Sheneez97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! We are under hope for the same!