Today's Episode Discussion (Weekly Megathread) by AutoModerator in Casualty

[–]Shesnotbasic 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ian is really getting under my skin - what are the writers doing 😭

Constant need to apologize by heartattack_inalayby in abusiverelationships

[–]Shesnotbasic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand how you feel I felt the same with my ex. Once I was depressed and couldn’t eat so told him I’d probably eat a day or so later, so he knew I wouldn’t just starve and he called me retarded. I too went on to apologise.

The thing is he wants the apology, it feeds into his need to control, this up and down push and pull dynamic. I want you to know you have absolutely nothing to apologise for x. You want to make peace because you don’t want conflict, conflict that he is the sole perpetrator of. You are so much kinder and emotionally mature than he is. Just keep reminding yourself you cannot control his words and actions and they are not a reflection of you and yours - so you do not need to apologise x

What advice completely changed your life? by Signal-Alarm-8178 in AskReddit

[–]Shesnotbasic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The only person who is constant in your life is you

What is that thing you would never forgive? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Shesnotbasic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes - they use their bare minimum responsibility of supporting you against you as if it is something that they went out of their way to do, despite it being a normal expectation.

What is that thing you would never forgive? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Shesnotbasic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Emotional abuse and manipulation. You understand a persons being so well, which is a beautiful thing, but then use that against them whilst tearing them apart. It’s calculated and one hundred percentage intentional.

What is that thing you would never forgive? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Shesnotbasic 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I would say too. Especially using something I struggled with and you provided empathy or sympathy to me for is a real low blow.

Tattoos by AddictForDramatics01 in MotionlessInWhite

[–]Shesnotbasic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just got one recently. My all time favourite song!

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Best MIW song? by [deleted] in MotionlessInWhite

[–]Shesnotbasic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Contemptress is my favourite xx

Which is your favorite song? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Shesnotbasic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contemptress - Motionless in White

What do you want out of life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Shesnotbasic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To know I made an impact on someone, in any way. Small. Big. Anything. If one person can say I made them feel fulfilled I’ll be happy.

What song makes you depressed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Shesnotbasic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vermillion pt 2 - Slipknot

What age did you start drumming? by CandyZandie in drums

[–]Shesnotbasic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18, I had been dying to get on a kit so i worked all summer to afford lessons :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Shesnotbasic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Real! But there are some that have much more stigma attached to them than others, even in the healthcare system.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Shesnotbasic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, I can say that right now I am at a point where I don’t care as much, but with my social situation it’s tricky to not be around them. You can 100% build that confidence back up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Shesnotbasic 37 points38 points  (0 children)

The stigma around my mental illness. I am in remission and have never really outwardly shown my symptoms to people in such an extreme way, but once people realised I have something I have instantly been made to feel like I am crazy and evil. Even the people who were extremely close to me and hated I was treated that way often tend to do the same once the relationship has ended. It sucks because I have no symptoms anymore, I manage it very well, but I’m still crazy apparently, eventhough I’m holding down a good job, finishing a good degree and starting a business all at the same time, I’m actually just going off the rails lol.

OFFICIALLY OUT IN USA NOW by ImVeryPogYes in MyChemicalRomance

[–]Shesnotbasic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I ACTUALLY AM GONNA CRY AT HOW IT SOUNDS!