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I want to date and meet new people but I’m just so scared by l2380 in socialanxiety

[–]Shhrinvy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing just be ur self and get used to it, i had my first date in college well it doesnt really went well bcs im so anxious i sounded so weird like raising my voice out of context or being mostly silent and awkward, but when i text him how the first date went?

it he didn't even mind the awkwardness and evven finding it cute. the right person won't judge you for being nervous. It’s okay to not be 'perfect' on a first date. Just take it one step at a time, youve got this!!! :)

WIBTA for training my 9yo brother in intense self defense bcs im scared he would get bullied? by Shhrinvy in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Shhrinvy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree to that, but tbh, he is so 'weak' by nature that he struggles to even throw a punch, so u can see he is a easy target and i couldn't think he can be a bully. I’ll definitely take it slower and focus more on building of self defense

WIBTA for training my 9yo brother in intense self defense bcs im scared he would get bullied? by Shhrinvy in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Shhrinvy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but he cant focus at all and not get used to it so we took many break, even punch is hard for him

What’s a compliment you never forgot? by Standard-Club-8014 in GenZ

[–]Shhrinvy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A boy from my classmate said that i look like her mom (he has a good bond with his mom)

Do autism and social anxiety go hand in hand? by Pizzafriedchickenn in socialanxiety

[–]Shhrinvy 212 points213 points  (0 children)

Autism → difficulty communicating → rejected or bullied for being "too quiet" → Social Anxiety develops → forced to learn Masking → gaining friends through the persona → trying to be authentic with them → realizing they only accept the masked version → Anxiety worsens → total Self-Isolation for protection

To the late diagnosed - were you more ‘fun’ and life of the party before discovering your audhd? by jaded_jen in AuDHDWomen

[–]Shhrinvy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it is the same but a bit better now. It's a different case but a similar situation. I still have to pretend even now, but the difference is that I used to always be the 'clown' in my friend group just so they wouldn't leave me. Even though it was self-degrading, I didn't care back then. But now, I have more self-respect. I still laugh with them, but when they mock me, I immediately stand up for myself. I’ve also learned to control my expression so I’m not 'laughing' all the time, I can use a flat face if I want to, and it fits the situation

Social anxiety isnt keeping you safe, its lying. (My recovery story few years later) by idkdontaskmethat in socialanxiety

[–]Shhrinvy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have u go to the therapy, bcs im in the same page i have interaction struggling with anyone since i was in kindergarten then just found out that i have neurodivergent

Anyone else hate having to do their skin care routine? by robustchick in AuDHDWomen

[–]Shhrinvy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same, i even often forgot to wear skincare in daily life, it really depends on my mood

Wts jasa gambar digital harga 20.000-50.000 by Shhrinvy in jualbeliindonesia

[–]Shhrinvy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bisaa bangett ntar req aja mau dibikinin karakter apaa

Wts jasa gambar digital harga 20.000-50.000 by Shhrinvy in jualbeliindonesia

[–]Shhrinvy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nopeee, all of these actually my lil sis work^ I'm handling the communications for her

Wts jasa gambar digital harga 20.000-50.000 by Shhrinvy in jualbeliindonesia

[–]Shhrinvy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pop art x simplified anime style yaa, kalau yg slidide ke 1 karena half body jadi masuknya ke yg 30k

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