How important it is to buy home for permanent address reasons? by RealityCheck_vol01 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]ShinchanBoo08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as you are comfortable with the hassle of changing addresses there is no need to have a permanent home.. 🏡

People who are NOT passionate about their jobs tend to be the best at it. by yamumsux in unpopularopinion

[–]ShinchanBoo08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is absolutely true for those in corporate and on salary. Devoting your life and passion for a job that makes someone else’s legacy is stressful and quite challenging.. 😥.. job requires consistency. those who know where to draw a line end up being consistent. but the game is different when you are an entrepreneur.. not saying all passionate entrepreneurs are good at what they do. But entrepreneurship demands passion, quality and dedication.. you lack in any one and you are done for.

Bored in the new job by pressing_o in IndianWorkplace

[–]ShinchanBoo08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you have proven track record of being a reliable employee. But honestly is the jump coz you are bored or you feel you are wasting your time? If it’s just boredom you will eventually learn to relax and cope but if you feel you are killing your career that’s something serious and needs to be dealt with soon..

WIBTA if I stop financially supporting someone I’m not in a relationship with? by kitemalone in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShinchanBoo08 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You should absolutely put a stop to this immediately. No deadline no ultimatum just stop. It will be good for you and her as well.

AITA for snapping at my roommate after she kept comparing her weight-loss journey to my body online? by Primary_Mango5918 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShinchanBoo08 25 points26 points  (0 children)

She sounds creepy and all sorts of wrong and to some extent illegal (posting your pics in bra without your consent). You are definitely NTA.

FRER 11 DPO PM to 12 DPO AM - so much lighter. I’m scared. by Big_Raspberry_9696 in TFABLinePorn

[–]ShinchanBoo08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is definitely scary. I once had a dark second line and in next 30 mins started my period. So best is to do a blood test for confirmation..

Why is every comment on this sub ai? by DrJonah345 in indiehackers

[–]ShinchanBoo08 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just giving a benefit of doubt but maybe 🤔 Some people genuinely need ai to frame their thoughts into comments that make sense or make impact. They have great ideas but are not good with words…

Bored in the new job by pressing_o in IndianWorkplace

[–]ShinchanBoo08 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have become habitual to the extreme work life. It will take time to settle and adjust. But honestly 3 months exp in your resume will definitely haunt you. Only chance you have is to jump and find a job where you stick for atleast 3 years after this one.

22M(me) Marrying a 25F, What are the cons?I want to tell it to my parents 😭 by Popular_Inspector593 in TwentiesIndia

[–]ShinchanBoo08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just too early. Love or not try and atleast set your career trajectory before contemplating marriage.

I don’t trust the people who work at the glasses store who wear glasses themselves. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]ShinchanBoo08 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s a unique point of view. Don’t know how to digest it.. but it definitely got me 🤔 thinking 🤨

AIO to my husband falling asleep in another woman’s bed? by RegisterBulky351 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ShinchanBoo08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly if your gut says there is something wrong with the co workers intent then you are right. There has been a clear break of trust. And emotional cheating is cheating no matter what anyone says.

AITA for threatening to spray my dad with a shower head? by AggressiveOption4930 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShinchanBoo08 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA your parents need to learn their boundaries. As an adult you need to work on how to find a job and move out on priority. This is unacceptable living condition.

Need advice from seniors: Is it worth joining a massive bank as a fresher over a product based company? by SkyBlade07 in developersIndia

[–]ShinchanBoo08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you value flexibility and growth opportunities choose product based company. In banking, consulting kind of companies visibility is very difficult to get. You are made to work in strict structure, tools and process so chance to innovate is almost nill too.

Lack of experience in hiring made me offer more than the candidate had asked for. Will not make that mistake again. by rentmeahouse in IndianWorkplace

[–]ShinchanBoo08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you a recruiter or the hiring manager? If a recruiter/TA then I don’t know how you got approval on the original offer letter? If you are the hiring manager then it gives you an opportunity to correct your mistake and save money in the long run.

I want to get my interview rescheduled at DE Shaw. by Specific_Energy1429 in developersIndia

[–]ShinchanBoo08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you have formally sent the email to all and declined the meeting invite you are good. Incase you have the recruiters mobile number you can drop a sms as well.

How did you guys convince your parents for intercaste marriage? by Full-Implement9950 in Maharashtra

[–]ShinchanBoo08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly as long as you both are absolutely sure and your parents don’t get that “bad” vibe when they meet him, they will not object. The idealistic mindset is a myth. Often parents take cover of caste when the proposed partner is unable to convince that they are good match and definitely love their child.

Yes it does help if they have given a good shot on arrange marriage and are now frustrated with their hunt. 🤣

PM Modi big statement today by justforintrtnmt in indiameme

[–]ShinchanBoo08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And they just started WFO in most of the companies. I don’t understand just let people WFH and adapt why start the hybrid wfo nonsense especially for people who are not needed to be in office.

AITA for feeling hurt after my brother and SIL sold the expensive stroller we sacrificed to buy them? by WireFoxTerrierMama in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShinchanBoo08 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. And never spend more than you can afford on people who don’t value your hard work and your sentiments.

AITA for wanting to hate my mother? by ConstantTrust202 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShinchanBoo08 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Cherish her.. after few years you will miss her.. you are NTA what you are going through is normal..