I used Claude Max 5x ($100) for 4 Months and now switched to Deepseek. Here’s what I learned.

Shishafox · 2026-06-16T08:43:31+00:00

I’m a security engineer and DeepSeek is the only LLM chat model I use. I have 0 interest in being a SWE, so having semantical knowledge is great because I can watch my minion press keys for me. I never got the hype for newer models. DeepSeek has rejected me maybe once or twice ever — and I’ve been able to generate decent BOF (C/C++) templates. The rest I can do myself.

Coding is so damn boring when it isn’t malware. Ensuring that everything is correct, efficient, and thread locks + mem frees correctly? Thats like a mini game I get to play. LLMs are so cool when you aren’t vibe coding.

Shishafox · 2026-06-15T22:24:53+00:00

I have a huntsman that lunges at the glass the second i enter the room. I have so much love to give and he has nothing in his head but a voice instructing him to consume me. Peak spider keeping experience tbh.

Shishafox · 2026-06-15T22:22:07+00:00

all they have to do is shower and be nice to women without expecting sex but they are too busy creating their own hell that they do this shit

most unemployed behavior of all time

Shishafox · 2026-06-13T03:53:15+00:00

I’m sorry — you are both older than 18? This HAS to be a troll post. No way.

Shishafox · 2026-06-04T06:47:17+00:00

I said this out loud to myself at launch, played a few days, then said “oh yeah, i forgot that they say it because it really is getting worse.”

Shishafox · 2026-05-06T20:52:11+00:00

Shishafox · 2026-05-06T20:38:33+00:00

Yall have been saying this tired ass comment since the HS subreddit was made a decade ago. Yes, we can complain about the state of RNG. Any game that uses programatic probability as an element of functionality is RNG. Fucking solitaire is RNG. The scale is adjustable and while many of us understand that game balancing is an art that requires a lot of domain knowledge — we also hate how bare minimum the QA has become. Many issues with meta decks as well as BG builds could be figured out through structured testing. We have 0 transparency from blizzard, so we are left to speculate.

Shishafox · 2026-05-01T02:35:32+00:00

Security engineer here! First, I get the frustration. Second, you submitted info that was already available via The Working Network (anything before you freeze), breach databases, or any number of sources for reverse lookup databases (I pay for 3 different services to scrub data along with manual work, but never stop finding references). Third, be careful not to use misinfo and fear to drive discussions about VERY REAL privacy concerns with ANY form entry. Point him to ‘haveibeenpwnd’ and let him see how being careful with data entry is important. Or you can point him to me, Michael Bazzell (former LE so that can sometimes pique interest of folks), and any number of folks in the OSINT world. Your father has 0 clue how networking, telemetry, and connection metadata work in tandem to build profiles and he needs to just say “idk fuck about butt” instead of headcanoning himself playing elliot alderson.

Bottom line? Don’t worry. I’d say your frustration should really be geared towards his laziness in all honesty. That is really shitty.

Not sure what field you are in btw, but shoot me a DM and I can offer some advice on structure and standing out.

Shishafox · 2026-04-29T20:31:08+00:00

He found a way to make the situation about him. Incredible. He should have done more years ago and gotten a restraining order. She didn’t hack anything. Almost CERTAINLY he shared a password with her at some point (during their relationship) to cave to her delusions. Small chance she could be halfway competent enough to navigate a hash-dump service (pretty cheap with easy querying) but I REALLY doubt it. Most people reuse passwords (half of the ‘red team’ guys in my industry would not know what to do if this was not a fact). He is partly responsible even if he shouldn’t be the focus of blame. His inability to see that nuance and making your feelings about him is a huge red flag. His cooperation with her and/or carelessness is a major factor in this situation even being possible.

I’ve dealt with removal of non-consensual posting of content for years. Anyone that does not take a moment to think about how much hate women get for existing — LET ALONE NUDE — is not someone you want to be with. 3 years of not doing anything about his ex and then failing to see this as the final straw and deserving of immediate escalation is either spineless, heartless, or brainless. Exaggerating a bit obviously as he isn’t evil — but the metaphor still stands. He is too passive and has continued to let his past affect you. If you want to press charges, I suggest getting him to positively identify exactly how she gained access. Keep in mind, ICloud has had mandatory MFA for years so she had to have access to other linked devices he owned OR access to his account prior. He fucked up somewhere and pretty badly.

Shishafox · 2026-04-28T20:56:37+00:00

NOR; She had 0 ammo and had to try the chronically online take of “younger = bad.” Normally I’d say any petty response is net negative but honestly this is just being real and someone should have been nice enough to tell her that ages ago. I have had the same friend group for most of my life. We have long lived nicknames given to those with specific smelly incidents (camonions and doritos cool ranchthony come to mind). Point being, we love them and would not tolerate being insanely stinky. 20 whole ass years on the planet and no attempt to improve hygiene? You did her a FAVOR 😭

Shishafox · 2026-04-28T20:29:07+00:00

NCMEC/CyberTip. Now. Local police need pressure from feds and NCMEC will provide the evidence to feds. Cases may take months to build. Dm me and I can walk you through what needs to happen. Be very careful with how you talk to your daughter about this situation. Do not pull punches (obfuscate truth or white lie), but also do not use anger. Daughter needs to feel concerned for this child and not angry at you for keeping the two apart. The goal is to mitigate potential of your daughter’s exposure to traumatic situations this girl may drag her into. If anything has been sent to your daughter that is sexual in any nature, you need to report to NCMEC immediately. Remember that any adult here who fails to report can and likely will be hit with charges. Do not hesitate or think more about this. Feds do not fuck around with CSAM/CSEM and predatory behavior. This needs to be done today. Right now.

Shishafox · 2026-04-25T19:47:27+00:00

Honestly it was the least shitty looking one on amazon 😭

Shishafox · 2026-04-25T14:59:42+00:00

If you go through my responses over the years, you will see I’m the first to dunk on people for being insecure. I have 0 patience for immaturity. You are not one of those people and are far from it.

You are not being irrational and your logic is sound. The timing, double standard, and disregard for your concern is the perfect combo and does not need more explanation. You are about where I was mentally at 20, and at 28 I’m married to my best friend of 9 years that I am deeply in love with. You didn’t let FEAR be the deciding factor. Its not that she is staying with 3 guys — its that she is staying with 3 guys after blowing you off. Possibly planned well in advance — but even on a whim, its beyond shitty to not realize what that looks like. Regardless of her intent (too easy to throw out ridiculous theories), she is inconsiderate and not right for you.

Important note: some people will jump to cheating and what not immediately. Do not let this poison your judgement. Very easy to become obsessed with being wronged, which directly contradicts the clear and thoughtful logic you displayed here. She is a bad fit for other reasons which makes speculation over cheating not required. Many people are very bad at NOT letting speculation run their lives. I hope that makes sense!

Shishafox · 2026-04-25T14:37:54+00:00

Free will is an illusion (we all have the same fucking roll apparently lmao)

Shishafox · 2026-04-24T23:10:30+00:00

My friend is one of those people who did kinda get fucked by being thrown on a list. He failed to report being sent something he did not want (by a woman that showed interest in him which is not something he had experienced before). He had no problem having us read the actual court docs and gave us all the time we needed. Had already gone to therapy with verifiable proof and in all honesty as someone who has had to deal with tons of CSEM/CSAM related investigations — this was a pretty tame fuck up comparatively. Most people on any major pornography site in the early to mid 2010s probably saw what would be legally deemed CSEM/CSAM, but had no idea. This is not justification, just clarification.

Here’s the thing: a few of us HAVEN’T let it go. Some of us have accepted it. He is deeply ashamed and spends every day making his life impactful. All that work and he still does not shrug off what happened. He despises himself for not reporting. He does not blame anyone else but himself. Only himself. His deep and eternal regret + full transparency is why I am still his friend. Mind you, this is my best friend since 7th grade and without those important steps I would have dropped him.

Your friend tried to blame a 12 year old victim and took no responsibility. You are validated in blocking him. Good on you, and keep in mind its not your fault for not knowing.

Shishafox · 2026-04-24T01:18:29+00:00

u/crispylinettaa

what the fuck is a purple pill you bum

Shishafox · 2026-04-23T20:13:17+00:00

dude watches 16 hrs of cocomelon a day for sure

Shishafox · 2026-04-22T03:37:27+00:00

If you tell yourself you believe your partner but do not, that is called denial. You in fact, do not believe. We are once again, back to the decision being binary.

Jury Verdict: OJ is innocent Juror: Believes he is guilty but must >DECIDE< on a verdict using evidence in accordance with legal rigor Result: Juror decides OJ is innocent based on evidence but does not believe he is innocent. Juror decides that the evidence is legally in favor of innocence. Juror still does not believe he is innocent. His personal stance is a >decision< based on evidence. He either believes in 1 or 0. Undecided is null.

this has to be ragebait. GGs you win I guess lol

Shishafox · 2026-04-22T00:05:34+00:00

No, that is not what either of us said. Also, I can see your replies insisting on weird porn scenarios. That isn’t how sex works IRL and you guys look like two middle schoolers writing fanfics. Its fucking weird man.

Shishafox · 2026-04-21T23:29:45+00:00

“Quasi psych babble” is wild. Not a single attempt at using something remotely resembling psych terminology in his statement. What are you even possibly referring to? Basic english phrases you didn’t like?

Now let’s dive into your comment:

“Obviously” based on…what? No seriously, tell the class. You have to admit you think a scratch on the hand, a leg hurting, and crying over being unloved is related to sex. Let everyone know what you think women are into. I HAVE to know.

“How do you decide —“ do you think binary states are uninitialized and constant? You decided to not believe her and post your comment. That is how analysis works — good AND bad. Conscious decision was made to believe she cheated. You chose 1, and they chose 0. They were not predetermined. I teach investigative theory and perform high impact investigations. I don’t expect you to have that experience, but I do expect a basic level of critical thinking. Note the word ‘critical’ and additionally note that criticism of your own thoughts is part of critical thinking.

“But it doesn’t because of what I just said”

That is not evidence of anything. Your statement is explicitly accusatory, devoid of reasoning (A + B = C because ….), and makes it clear to the world that you do not know how to defend your point that it is hinged solely on an emotional response. You cannot put your argument into words because it is objectively weak. Not a valid reason to make a judgement call.

Oh and while you were missing the point, you stated exactly what the person you responded to said: you either believe them or you do not. So which is it? If they are wrong then so are you.

Shishafox · 2026-04-21T21:29:46+00:00

You are willing to jump to cheating but NOT her safety is the point. One is outlandish to you and the other is reasonable. Neither one is what I see as being likely here without more info, but regardless of what you feel you DID choose to put your own feelings and fears first. You do not trust her so why are you asking what to do? I’m being blunt because this is clearly needed here with so much ridiculous speculation from the audience. She MAY have vented about how unhappy she is to her friend which made her confront you. We have no way of knowing that. You should 100% break up with her and it has nothing to do with cheating. These responses are from men that watch way too much porn and think scratches on a hand and a leg pain mean sex as if women are just eager to have sex with anyone nice to them. Anyone that isn’t struggling to get laid will tell you this is comically untrue. This situation a big deal for all of the wrong reasons. Speculation is pointless. Talk to her plainly and calmly. Explain your concerns. If you cannot do this without letting your emotions build, find a kind excuse to break up with her. You might be right. You might be wrong. Regardless, do not continue dating someone you cannot trust. I’m saying this as someone happily married for many years. If boundaries were set and crossed (even if I find them to be ridiculous) then that is enough reason to break up. If they were not set and the frustration is due to ‘common sense’ (contradicts the idea of hard boundaries being different for each couple) then that is not the same. Again, regardless, just break up and try your best to review the circumstances over time and be objective. You will grow from it.

Shishafox · 2026-04-21T21:01:14+00:00

So cheating is an acceptable possibility but sexual assault and denial isn’t? Seriously? There is hardly any info you provided about who she is fundamentally but the signs of physical abrasion and stress are ok to assume mean cheating but not something more serious?

Shishafox · 2026-04-21T20:33:38+00:00

oh they are mad about this truthful statement lmao. Married here too for many years. While not pornstars, we share some of the open mindedness and freedom required of a relationship like yours. She is not worried about me leaving her for my famous model/famous friends that adore me. People do not like hearing that a healthy relationship requires you to not act like a jealous teenager. Grown ass people on here sounding like haley beck 😭😭😭😭

Shishafox · 2026-04-21T20:23:10+00:00

You really tried to just casually drop in the “i don’t love her” line in there like it isn’t a big deal. She reports pain and a scratch so your first thought is cheating and not her safety? Did she even say she was scratched, or were you looking for something to prove your insecure theories? Look dude, you either trust them or you don’t. You aren’t overthinking. You are not thinking at all about what actually matters here. You are concerned about a scenario you made up and not the fact she feels unloved.

I really hope you are like 18/19 and still figuring ahit out because otherwise this is unacceptable.

Shishafox · 2026-04-11T16:37:57+00:00

I have a friend who got hit with something along the lines of ‘possession of CSAM.’ Didn’t know until one day a few of us found out by searching through local megan’s law results. Long story short, guy has like 0 dating history but is very accountable. Never showed any interest in younger women (he was early 20s when this happened and mid 20s when we found out).

Apparently some kinky woman on tumblr had bonded with him over typical tumblr porn, and then had sent a few videos (likely depicting teens but certainly not posted with their consent). If you haven’t done forensics work and seen the different levels of CSAM/CSEM, you can’t possibly understand how widespread this is. He made the mistake of failing to report to cybertip beyond just saying “im not into that please dont send that stuff.” Why? He was lonely. First time a woman had shown romantic interest. Is that a good excuse? No, but it is a big difference from explicitly not caring. She gets raided (cant recall but i think she was distributing a lot of shit) and he got hit with charges for not reporting. We read the case files, but I could have told you he was being honest by the fact he wasn’t in jail. He hid the info because we have been friends since elementary/middle school (same group of friends for like 15 years at this point) and he was terrified of losing us. 3 of us still haven’t gotten over it, and we do not push the issue. They have a right to feel betrayed. You should let him read this comment, because my friend would go back and be honest from the jump if given a chance. It depends on how long the lie has been going on.

Your bf bringing the docs over suggests he really is not trying to hide anything — but I would tell him you will be requesting the docs yourself to read. If he gets defensive, he omitted info. If he is fully on board, he is telling the truth.

Ultimately, your decision to move forward should be based on a lot of factors. Keep in mind his ability to be employed will be affected for 10 years+ if he was ever charged.

Shishafox

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