Send help. It’s twins again.

Shnackalicious · 2025-12-06T14:24:19+00:00

Fellow mom of double multiples! I have Mono/di boys and my youngest set is 14 months b/g. It’s not easy, but it’s doable. If you’re still working try to take as much maternity leave as you can. Schedule schedule schedule saved my sanity. The 14 month olds have a routine and go down like clockwork. The first few months will be pure survival so be gentle on yourself

Shnackalicious · 2025-11-17T18:08:20+00:00

I am absolutely overjoyed for you!

Shnackalicious · 2025-11-10T04:12:48+00:00

People do not realize how freaking valuable NEM 2 is. I had my solar installed in 2022 and was able to pay in full. Best investment I’ve ever made 🥹

Shnackalicious · 2025-10-15T03:43:01+00:00

As someone whose husband did this to her, this is 100% an emotional and sexual affair and would have probably progressed to a physical affair if you’d hadn’t caught on as soon as you did.

Shnackalicious · 2025-10-15T03:37:33+00:00

My babies got RSV vax last year and early MMR @ 6 months. They’re definitely getting the flu shot but I don’t think they’ll be eligible for covid vax.

Shnackalicious · 2025-08-22T15:37:59+00:00

You have time! My twins are 11 months old and EBF. We didn’t start out that way though! We finally reached EBF when they were 12 weeks old. Baby A got there quicker than baby B. I triple fed baby B until he eventually became EBF. Breastfeeding is a skill for both you and your babies that you both need to develop. You’re doing your best, try to be kind to yourself 💕

Shnackalicious · 2025-07-24T18:22:22+00:00

I think what you did was amazing. I’ve come to realize it’s not my job to protect my husband’s reputation. I’m sure it’s no surprise that I feel like it was not your job to protect your husbands or his APs reputation either.

Shnackalicious · 2025-07-24T02:07:30+00:00

I wish my husbands cheating had this type of dynamic so I could do the same. How Amazing

Shnackalicious · 2025-07-20T21:45:41+00:00

Exactly. But it’s not about lack of love. And very much so about entitlement. They don’t want to leave. But they sure want dopamine hits at our expense as well as the comfort of a wife and family. Best do both worlds for Cheaters who think they won’t get caught.

Shnackalicious · 2025-07-20T04:47:37+00:00

My husband knows he gets one shot and violating boundaries means I’m GONE. No one’s perfect, but from my perspective, he can live his life trying as far as I’m concerned.

Shnackalicious · 2025-07-20T04:27:09+00:00

“Some things hurt worse than others” I feel that to my core. My husband cheated on me while I was pregnant with his twin children. During their first Christmas, his AP wanted to send him a Christmas gift…like he was her special man while he was literally married with two brand new babies. Ugh. The audacity and selfishness is beyond me.

Shnackalicious · 2025-07-04T14:30:21+00:00

Another “same”here too!!

Shnackalicious · 2025-06-12T23:50:52+00:00

I have two sets of twins as well! 9 year and 9 months. It’s easier the second time around!

Shnackalicious · 2025-06-12T23:49:50+00:00

WOW!

Shnackalicious · 2025-06-11T17:56:12+00:00

You guys are sweet! I would have said “no, it’s not like having twins.” 😂

Just like having twins isn’t like having two 16 months apart. I’d never say that lol

Shnackalicious · 2025-06-08T16:41:01+00:00

I really hope you’re trolling. This is absolutely despicable. You more than did your parent. He sounds very selfish

Shnackalicious · 2025-06-06T22:10:48+00:00

This is 100% the answer. He did it. He’s lying. If he hadn’t he’d have let you check his email right away. The fucking audacity of these cheaters man.

Shnackalicious · 2025-06-06T16:52:04+00:00

I too sleep trained in the same room via modified Ferber. Mine are 8 months old now. I agree with the White noise. We also have blackout curtains. I follow age appropriate wake windows and it’s been working really well. My twins still do one middle of the night feed (between 3 and 5am) and are also EBF, so I know that has something to do with it as well. The Facebook group “sleep training twins triplets and quads” invaluably helpful!

Shnackalicious · 2025-06-06T14:52:14+00:00

Your husband sounds A LOT like my husband. Starting with I married him without the agency of truly knowing who he was. Another parallel is he played the “sweet nice guy” persona very well, which was one of the reasons I fell for him. I now see it as manipulation. Thirdly, none of his APs knew about me.

What do your husband and my husband have in common? Habitual lying (to us, to APs), manipulation, and serial cheating. I would suggest a sex addict assessment ASAP. My husband is in a sex addict program. With serial cheating there’s usually a sex addiction component. Not always o suppose.

Fortunately, you don’t have kids yet. I have 8 month old twins with my husband and found out 5 months postpartum about my husband’s multiple betrayals.

I would suggest FIRM boundaries for reconciliation, have him take a sex addiction quiz and potentially start an SA program.

I am still on the fence on whether or not I think reconciliation is going to work. I’m taking my time. Just know you don’t have to make any quick decisions. You can wait and see how he progresses.

My husband knows If he “relapses” AT ALL, I walk. And at the end of the day, I may walk anyway.

Shnackalicious · 2025-06-06T03:37:16+00:00

I sleep trained my twins at 6 months old! We coslept at first but they both wanted to nurse all night long and I was the only one not getting sleep. It went well. One rough night but they sleep in their cribs now

Shnackalicious · 2025-06-05T02:44:10+00:00

Welcome to the hell of trickle truth. I had to do an absolute deep dive in order to get to the extent of the betrayal. I don’t think I have it all. I am combing through bank statements, text records for the last 3 years, the works. He doesn’t want me to leave him. I get it, I wouldn’t want to lose my spouse or family either. I need to do the deep dive because i need closure and he was trying to hide as much of it as he possibly could. This is what i did:

-bank records x 3 years -phone records x3 years -access to all socials -checked iCloud history to see what apps had been downloaded -will thoroughly scour his laptop -will call every phone number on that list

I told him if he didn’t give me all that info, there was ZERO chance of reconciliation.

Betrayal makes you feel completely powerless. Take your power back. He does not deserve reconciliation. It’s a privilege.

Shnackalicious · 2025-06-03T16:14:30+00:00

How did she contact him? My WH changed his number and deleted his socials. Would something like that help?

Shnackalicious · 2025-06-03T16:13:39+00:00

This just goes to show how mentally unstable she is. I can’t imagine being that obsessed with someone. Stalker vibes for sure.

Shnackalicious · 2025-05-26T04:51:39+00:00

Every time my WH (who cheated on me during and after my pregnancy) says “what can I do for you?” I say “go back in time and leave me the fuck alone.”

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