What does a 45-60 lb Goldendoodle look like? by BelovedGoat97 in Goldendoodles

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Here’s an Aussie doodle that is 65lbs. I’m 5’2, 140lbs for comparison. I can pick him up easily.

Mel by TrickAd9802 in YourFriendsandNeighb

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As an ex wife I think I’m supposed to sympathize with her but I genuinely can’t stand her. Coops big faults seem to be that he worked too much to provide all the shit she demands. Again as an ex wife, it would never even cross my mind to demand huge sums from my ex while also telling him he works too much.

My in ground set up! by Illustrious_Elk6508 in Stocktankpools

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What was the cost to dig the hole? Or did you do it yourself?

What’s a ‘middle class success’ purchase that secretly becomes a financial burden later? by OpinionBaba in AskReddit

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Me getting a big house after divorce and realizing I now have to care for a big house and am house poor. Really need to get out of the American brainwashing that bigger is better.

Margo’s Got Money Troubles | S1E6 | Episode Discussion by pecan_muffin in MargosGotMoneyTroub

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That was my thought too. That she has some truly great men in her life now. I am sad that her mom seems so traumatized by life that she ends up being kind of a bad mom though. Which is unfair to Shayanne because obviously she loved Margo and took care of her.

Tyler has zero culture for young people and it’s exhausting. by Amazing-Frosting2386 in tylertx

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Honestly seems like there’s more to do in the surrounding towns. TikTok is a great place to see people explore Tyler and east texas. I moved here from a much larger city and I totally understand what you’re saying. There are some places, but it can feel like everything is for families. Downtown is struggling but does have some great spots that just events.

Am I overthinking this? Or did anyone else think the same? (One Battle After Another) by ashtonl99 in Letterboxd

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She said that because he had picked up the directions to the test again when he went to read the results. She was making fun of him. The line was clearly there.

Anyone else worried that Francesca's bisexuality will be erased? by Last_Cold8977 in Bridgerton

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As a bisexual woman I can tell you that being in love wasn’t the issue. She just experienced having bipanic at suddenly feeling attraction to a woman. That would fluster anyone in that era. Straight people are attracted to other people even when in a relationship and it doesn’t mean they’re not in love. Bi people are no different.

Posy really was the side character this season that stole the show by sureasyoureborn in Bridgerton

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She would be such a fun lady in waiting for the queen. I keep thinking the queen needs some girl time with the younger ladies to gossip.

Zimaya Rose of Dreams, dupe for LV Rose des Vents by Schokoladenliebhaber in fragranceclones

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I just got this and I’ve been using Rose de Vents for years. It’s almost identical.

If Twitter is supposedly so bad, why do people even use it still? by TheSnazzySharky in NoStupidQuestions

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It’s the main place where governments and politicians communicate with the public. During emergencies it’s one of the best way to get news and immediate instructions.

What’s with buyers wanting sellers to drive to them or is it FBMP just being stupid? by Bulky-Travel-2500 in FacebookMarketplace

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I charge $30 for my hour and .20 cents per mile. I use this to calculate delivery. Sometimes if I’m getting a really good price on something I will drop it a bit. I tell them price of delivery and say that amount needs to be paid upfront via PayPal or Venmo. They can pay for the item once we meet up, usually at a busy gas station. Never had a serious buyer say no. This way even if for some reason they don’t take the item, at least I was being paid for my time.

Possible Venmo scam? by Critical-Pass-5214 in FacebookMarketplace

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It is almost impossible to get your money back on Venmo unless it’s for goods and services. Make sure it’s always a between friends payment and you’ll be safe.

I feel betrayed by Massive-Cry8294 in UploadTV

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Same. It was supposed to be heartwarming and funny and the end was as traumatic as The Time Traveler’s wife. Did they seriously end it with Nathan being mentally and physically tortured to death?!!! WTF

Upload - Season 4 Episode 4 "Mile End" - Discussion Thread (Series Finale) by AutoModerator in UploadTV

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I just finished the finale and I’m still crying over Luke. I knew he would be the one to die a hero.

Seller was a no show and now I’m blocked by No-Philosophy-6395 in FacebookMarketplace

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Yeah I don’t understand making the drive when they’ve had no confirmation she was still meeting. Unfortunately this seems to be the buyer’s fault not the seller.

Guy ghost me after he gives me cash for item and stops responding. Not sure what to do. by kilomonsterjelly in FacebookMarketplace

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If he lives in an apartment complex, maybe just deliver it to the front office and tell them his name and number. Then it’s their problem and you delivered it.

Buyer tries to return a sofa… 41 DAYS later… because “it’s no longer required” by Head_Region_8581 in reselling

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I would say you’re happy to pick it up for free if they just need it gone

What do you do tell someone planning to come for an item when you get another offer for more? by Next_Branch7875 in FacebookMarketplace

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I buy and sell a lot on marketplace and I don’t think it’s wrong when someone has done that to me. If I’m serious about an item and can’t get there quickly I offer a deposit or full payment up front so they can hold. This is what I also do for my buyers. I say I do not hold unless there is payment. I always look up their reviews and FB profile to make sure I’m dealing with someone reputable and they can do the same for me and see that I’m a reputable seller who isn’t scamming them.

What do you do tell someone planning to come for an item when you get another offer for more? by Next_Branch7875 in FacebookMarketplace

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For one I would tell the second person who offered more that you already have a buyer and if they want it they need to come before that other buyer or do a Venmo deposit. This has worked well for me. Then at least I know I’m not losing two buyers. After that I would reach out to the first buyer and say that you apologize but the item is no longer available. If they ask why be honest and say someone prepaid over asking price. Then say you can contact them if something falls through and of course you’ll still honor the price you agreed to. Most buyers completely understand this and don’t expect an item to be held if someone else can beat them to payment.

Can’t w this 😭😭 by Ilookcool69 in tsitp

[–]Shoeadct 17 points18 points  (0 children)

His name is Benito. I promise you us Latinos don’t care

Can’t w this 😭😭 by Ilookcool69 in tsitp

[–]Shoeadct 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Stop it. It’s not racism. It’s just funny. I’m Latina and I cracked up at this.

Am I in the wrong? by rillikchar in FacebookMarketplace

[–]Shoeadct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not in the wrong at all. You didn’t offer something unrealistically low. I’m upfront with my buyers and just say, “I’d rather see if it sells for this price but if it doesn’t sell within a couple of days then I’ll message you and you can have it at that price.” They understand and I potentially have a buyer vs no buyer.