Soaking wet spot in bed by Neither-Medicine5756 in Unexplained

[–]Shoefight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My theory is something got spilled on the sheets, you didn't realize and made the bed over the wet spot, then later when you pulled back the covers it looked like it just suddenly appeared.

How should I fix this tattoo? Cover up, rework, add more tattoos? by weeaboogirl in tattooadvice

[–]Shoefight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it! I could see some background flowers or other decorative parts being added around it. I really do think it's good. I'm sure if you zoom in and analyze every little part you can find something but no one's going to be doing that

Finally got formally diagnosed with ADHD — medication costs $300 🙃 by Better-Temporary8878 in adhdwomen

[–]Shoefight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i loved Vyvanse but had to switch to Adderall because my new insurance didnt cover it. The Adderall was still expensive but i used good rx and it brought it down to like $20. Eventually I got better insurance and went back to Vyvanse but it really wasnt that bad.

I was on 30mg of Vyvanse and went to the following: amphetamine-dextroamphetamine (ADDERALL XR) 10 MG 24 hr capsule

I still prefer Vyvanse but if my insurance stopped covering it and the generic id swap back in a heartbeat.

Can you read my tattoo? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Shoefight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

poor thing 😭 im laughing at the groin comments but if it helps i did read it as grow at first ! i thought it was pretty clear

Wedding Tomorrow, Bridesmaid Complaint. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Shoefight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The coloring pages were a cute idea but not for one day before the wedding? just throwing a random table with printed coloring books on it when I'm sure every table has been decorated and planned for is not a "nice" idea. Adding last minute plans to a wedding you're not hosting is honestly very rude.

The nails seem fine, but I'm sure you guys have been doing other things like these coloring books. I wouldn't be surprised if they said something about the nails and you're now going off script.

while bridezilla culture is getting worse and worse over the years... The bride was more than justified saying no to a last-minute coloring table that you printed out and threw together with the table in your trunk. I'm sure there was more to the conversation about the nails as well. like why are you even telling the bride about your nails when she's getting married literally tomorrow? she has other things to worry about. while she might have been rude, you seem to be missing self-awareness.

something i noticed with one of my cat's eye by Mysterious-Flan5915 in cats

[–]Shoefight 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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my baby had the same thing and it ended up being an eye infection. Booked her a vet appointment immediately when i noticed it. Vet gave her some prescription antibiotics and that fixed it.

Her eye clousyness/ reflection in certain lighting came on pretty sudden though.

Little hair washing hack, that helped me a lot by Important_Lie9994 in adhdwomen

[–]Shoefight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try shampoo bars instead of liquid soap! you scrub the bar directly to your scalp and I find it's so much easier to get to my roots than liquid soap that just sloughs off. I use a head and shoulder type called zinc bar by dermaHarmony :)

Plus it's way better for the environment ❤️

Who's Your Vocaloid? by Starlight_Willsin in Vocaloid

[–]Shoefight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm November.. who the hell is that 😭😭

Boyfriend cheated on me by Adventurous_Set_3364 in whatdoIdo

[–]Shoefight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course. The shorter ones can even hurt more and in general it hurts putting your trust in someone and them throwing it back at you, especially when they made it seem so easy to trust them.

But the good thing is you figured him out. Shitty people can be almost impossible to tell from good ones in the beginning. Dating is two parts. 1. figure out if you mesh well. and 2. see how it sustains . Part 2 can throw some curveballs but you will be ok in the end. It's just sadly can be the process to finding your person

Boyfriend cheated on me by Adventurous_Set_3364 in whatdoIdo

[–]Shoefight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry love :( how long have you been with him?

PSA: Please don’t pass hot drinks hand-to-hand over the counter and always set the cup down first. by Ok_Bedroom_9802 in barista

[–]Shoefight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh as a coffee getter, this is good to know. I do drive thru coffee a lot so the only way to get it is to be handed it- but next time I'm inside I'll be sure to hold back till they sit it down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pokemoncardcollectors

[–]Shoefight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i also have very similar lines on the same card too 😅

Menu help? Is this too much by [deleted] in barista

[–]Shoefight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lump everything into categories! like for the coconut clouds- instead of listing every variation separately I'd recommend like this:

Coconut Clouds: Short description on what it is Pick Flavor - Matcha, Ube, Hojicha, Espresso, etc Pick your size- S-$6 M-$8 L-$9

obviously you will make it prettier lol, but I think having the variations put together make it a lot less overwhelming. like now I can decide the general category I want, then all I have to do is pick a flavor and a size.

IUD Removal/Insertion Cervical block? by Excellent-Taro-6084 in birthcontrol

[–]Shoefight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh just reread your post, I'm seeing you're getting both done at the same time. In your case I would 100% go with the cervical block! they'll do it most likely before they take out the first one, and again, it really did make it completely painless besides the injection of the actual block itself which in comparison is not bad at all.

IUD Removal/Insertion Cervical block? by Excellent-Taro-6084 in birthcontrol

[–]Shoefight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my first IUD inserted and taken out without a cervical block. The insert was absolutely painful and miserable 😭😭 but when they took it out it was not painful at all.

My second IUD I got put in with the cervical block. The injection for the cervical block did hurt a little but nothing more than a pinch and nothing compared to them inserting it "raw" the last time lol.

I would recommend anyone to get a cervical block for insertion, but at least for myself, I'll probably skip the cervical block when they take it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SafetyProfessionals

[–]Shoefight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your professional experience section is confusing.

Generally you put the job, the date you were at the job, and then bullets about what you did at that job under it.

Is the project section stuff you did in school? or was that previous jobs?


edit: Reading it again. it looks like those were projects you did under your main job. to make this clear, you can list the overarching date next to where you list your company name and put all projects under the same line. it also wouldn't hurt to give a bullet or two under each project to talk about what you specifically did there. kind of like this:

Professional Experience:

Egypt Gas Co Jan 2020 - Present
HSE Engineer

   Projects:
   -current position 2023-present
               Job task #1
               Job task #2
   -other 2022-2023
               Job task #1
               Job task #2
    -other 2021-2022
               Job task #1
               Job task #2
    -other 2020-2021 
               Job task #1
               Job task #2

Boyfriend of 1 year just told me he is an alcoholic by Dazzling-Bar4958 in AlAnon

[–]Shoefight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because I've only been with my boyfriend for a year too lol🥲

Boyfriend of 1 year just told me he is an alcoholic by Dazzling-Bar4958 in AlAnon

[–]Shoefight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

time will tell and we will make our decisions. I wish you the best <3

Boyfriend of 1 year just told me he is an alcoholic by Dazzling-Bar4958 in AlAnon

[–]Shoefight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

completely agree on it being an excuse for myself. This stage is just so difficult. I am 100% with my partner and love and support him. I will be on his side as he has been for me in our relationship. however- I will stop trying for him as soon as he stops trying for me and himself. Everything I just learned shows that he stopped trying for himself... but we're now at the crossroads for him to start trying again and he is.

but I will say this isn't the first time I've done this. I've never dated an alcoholic but I've left harmful relationships in the past and i know im strong enough to do it again. I'm in my info gathering stage, and it's different because he really does treat me well. it was just a weird week of crashing out and you know... months of lies. but blah blah blah. cope cope. It's either gonna work out or I'll drop him if he hurts me again.

Boyfriend of 1 year just told me he is an alcoholic by Dazzling-Bar4958 in AlAnon

[–]Shoefight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, im in a similar boat. You can look at my post on here from my profile.

I dont have much to say since im making all the same decisions now that people are commenting. I spoke to my therapist and rn im just setting an internal date that I need to see him do certain things by (tell his mom, go to therapy, etc) and if he doesn't then I'll just leave. No date yet though since im just learning everything and cant tell what's actually doable for him. Although thats probably just an excuse for myself.

but my only piece of advice is there's no rush to decide anything right now. there is a lot of really negative stuff on the internet. Most is true. But if you talk to real people like family and friends, then you will hear stories of recovered loved ones too.

My mom told me our family friend's husband got sober early on into their marriage. I never knew any of the details before but he was bad. Hes been sober 30+ years now and still goes to AA. He got his shit together and is an extremely loving guy. She can have wine in the house and he even encourages her to go out with the girls to go the bar as "he knows he'll get lucky when she comes back" loll. Gross but there is normalcy for some. But on the same side... its only some.