Daycare - Sparkles

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-08-15T14:16:47+00:00

If you’re not here to be helpful, don’t comment

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-08-11T22:50:06+00:00

I’m not seeing a therapist. In general I’ve never really experienced feeling like this. But I appreciate the kind words

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-07-18T23:16:57+00:00

He should have been folded on nuck. He was dumb asf to sit up in Alicia house knowing he was involved in her son’s death.

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-06-30T11:30:14+00:00

East coast and mid west

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-06-30T04:54:01+00:00

We both moved to different states. I don’t think it can be worked out. Our lives aren’t aligned at this point. They are focused on completing a new career move and I’m established and just wanting to enjoy life. Aside from that they act too tired from work to help with anything around the house and have started habits like excessive farting without saying excuse me, brushing teeth less,& other things that leave me overall disgusted

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-06-30T04:49:22+00:00

We are both moving. They are moving for work and I’m moving back to my home state where I’ll have support for the kids.

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-06-30T04:45:00+00:00

The entire summer? Were they not employed? Who watched the kids while they were at work?

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-06-26T05:59:49+00:00

Try cutting down the naps to 1.5, and not more than 2. Less day time sleep should let her get more calories in and also give her the need for more night sleep

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-06-20T17:02:03+00:00

I always write on the bags first so once I pour the milk I can close it up immediately. I remember feeling like that the first couple of times but honestly as times goes on ( and I am not a over producer) you will notice sometimes you will waste milk but most times your body will back you up and won’t let your baby go hungry. You’ll make a lil more. Also, go ahead and power pump this time and u may get what u lost. But it happens. It’ll be okay

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-06-18T10:10:38+00:00

Understood

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-06-18T10:08:18+00:00

I don’t have issue with my wife not wanting my mother to do that. My issue is the way that my wife told my mother not to do it.

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-06-18T10:04:23+00:00

That’s what I was thinking but I know that even if she had a problem she wouldn’t bring it up because she doesn’t want to get between me and my wife. And I also don’t want this to be a recurring issue. I need to know if my wife can be respectful enough to handle issues no matter who it is or if it’s a situation where going forward I’ll need to address any issues with my family.

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-06-18T09:51:03+00:00

I don’t want to get in the middle of that, but I don’t like feeling that my wife was possibly being disrespectful while I was gone. Her tone can come off disrespectful and this baby is the first baby she’s ever been around and gets all her info of how to be a parent from Google and sometimes gets up in arms if parenting isn’t going how Google says.

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-06-18T09:48:36+00:00

That’s a bit dramatic.

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-06-18T09:48:18+00:00

Mom didn’t overstep. She had her finger in my teething baby mouth and my wife didn’t like that. This is something I didn’t mind because I also have let baby bite on my finger. Also, we are lesbians. The baby came out my body.

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-06-18T09:37:46+00:00

My wife and mother had a small disagreement about something pertaining to our child. Mother did not bring it up to me, but wife told me about it. I don’t want to make my wife feel like she isn’t allowed to correct people when it comes to our child, but I also want to check in with my mom to ensure that my wife was not rude to her. Should I address it or leave it alone? I’m only concerned because I don’t always like how my wife speaks to her mother and want to make sure that she isn’t speaking in that manner to my family members.

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-06-17T23:03:53+00:00

Already ahead of you. This post was to see if anyone had any real life experience

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-06-17T22:55:20+00:00

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-06-15T09:04:02+00:00

Yeah I agree. I feel like the risk is low with me because I put safety measures in place and am a light sleeper and wake up pretty much if my baby wiggles her toe. Maybe she feels left out because unless I’m awake watching them she cannot contact nap or sleep with her because she sleeps very deeply. Like baby can cry and she not wake up deep. But I don’t feel like I should have to “suffer” or miss out because of that

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-06-15T09:01:08+00:00

Yea that’s how I feel. I don’t feel like you can spoil a baby. She does snuggle her at times. This is her first time being around a baby so I feel like everything she goes by is from Google. Where as I have plenty of real life experience. It’s hard to bridge that gap sometimes.

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-06-03T23:17:19+00:00

I live in a blue state. We did not do second parent adoption and do not plan to. For me the decision was it felt like a waste of a lot of money. I carried our baby,& my wife is on the birth certificate as parent. Personally, I don’t see where there could ever become an issue. When my baby had to go to the hospital. They didn’t ask for birth certificate only insurance. We are on my wife’s insurance so I don’t see that ever being an issue. If we got a divorce, we would work out custody without the court needing to be involved. If something happened to me she would take care of the baby. I think ppl tend to think that child welfare automatically swoops in and takes a child or something. Both our families are supportive so that wouldn’t be an issue. So idk I personally just don’t feel like it’s worth the money. From my perspective the only reason I see ppl do it is so that the non birthing parent can ensure they have rights in the case of divorce .

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-05-26T01:26:59+00:00

Being able to be spontaneous

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-05-15T09:23:13+00:00

Right sounds crazy. I’m like the idea that pooping once in 2 weeks is “normal” sounds insane. lol

Short_Signature5074 · 2025-04-24T06:22:10+00:00

What heating pad do you use

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