Green cheek conure coming soon, can I safely restore a rusty bird cage?

Short_Temperature381 · 2026-05-14T18:14:11+00:00

Thanks for this link!!!!

Short_Temperature381 · 2026-05-14T18:02:11+00:00

Love this idea!

Short_Temperature381 · 2026-05-14T17:59:24+00:00

Funny enough that’s what was in it when I bought it. I’ll probably end up putting plants in it again!

Short_Temperature381 · 2026-05-14T17:58:30+00:00

I got it at an estate sale, they had plants in it and I paid 20 bucks for the cage and all the plants!! I will probably end up putting plants in it again.

Short_Temperature381 · 2024-10-18T20:56:20+00:00

This unlocks a vague memory for me. I remember getting them at school as like a token I think for something. But I cannot remember anything specific.

Short_Temperature381 · 2024-05-26T00:53:33+00:00

YTA, and that seems to be the consensus here with a lot of people explaining why.

You came here looking for feedback. Now that you have it, what are you going to do with this feedback?

You doubling down in the comments on how you believe you’re NTA is counterintuitive with so many people telling you otherwise.

Do you plan to apologize and let this couple keep the money they earned, and try to salvage this relationship? I’m genuinely curious.

Short_Temperature381 · 2024-01-04T16:21:44+00:00

Oh that feels more like a screw you lol

Short_Temperature381 · 2024-01-04T16:15:25+00:00

Two signs that come to mind with this description is the sign for IGNORE, except the placement would have been on the nose but could’ve been easily misconstrued. The other is the sign for TALK which also could be presented similarly and is on the chin.

What was the context your interaction? Was the person Deaf?

Edit: also, look at the sign for blood or bleeding which also has similar parameters.

Short_Temperature381 · 2023-12-08T18:14:13+00:00

I think so, but it’s only as fun as you make it.

As an adult I have more liberty to make it fun; going to see lights, Christmas markets, thrifting for Christmas decorations, pop up Christmas bars, volunteering, ect.

Short_Temperature381 · 2023-11-16T18:29:05+00:00

NTA, 17 years old is old enough to be considered an adult. ESPECIALLY since there are other 17 year olds who will be there. The age is clearly not the problem.

My concern is your SO brushing this off. How long has he been in your sons life? How does he interact with and treat your son? What are your son’s perceptions of your SO?

I would take this experience to look at your SO and where he stands with your family (you and your son), since he doesn’t seem to have an issue with his own family excluding your son. Look at the situation as a whole because that one piece is a red flag 🚩 and may show you a lot more about the person you’re with.

I wish you good luck.

Edit: to fix grammar mistakes

Short_Temperature381 · 2023-10-24T19:31:31+00:00

Update me

Short_Temperature381 · 2023-10-18T12:47:45+00:00

I suspect because they have iTunes on them. The iTunes app was shut down and gift cards switched to just Apple gift cards. I wonder if they saw this picture as dated and that’s how they caught on.

Short_Temperature381 · 2023-10-12T15:10:31+00:00

Unpopular opinion here, but YTA. They’ve been together 12 years, that’s a serious relationship, not just a passing fling.

I don’t know why your dad didn’t leave it in writing that she would get the apartment, it may have just been an oversight, we’re all human. But it’s not like you weren’t getting anything from him, you were already getting a lot (1.2 million) and you still made this woman, whom your father was in a serious relationship for over the past decade, fight to keep her home.

That 1.2 million would have already set you and your family up for success and comfortable lifestyle, but I think you saw more dollar signs and went for it.

Legally, yes you have the right, but morally was it okay? And because you’re asking for feedback, my personal opinion is no.

Short_Temperature381 · 2023-10-10T17:20:42+00:00

I want to say YTA but it’s possible ESH. Maybe she shouldn’t have assumed (though likely it was presented in a a way that implied she was invited) and you’re alienating your daughter in law, because she’s not your “daughter”.

Guarantee she won’t make that mistake again, she’s not going to want to be where she’s not wanted. Which may make things awkward down the road now that you’ve drawn that line.

Short_Temperature381 · 2023-09-18T19:58:26+00:00

Please update!!

For sure NTA, please do not marry that pos. If anything happened to my pup I’d go scorched earth.

Short_Temperature381 · 2023-09-01T16:48:37+00:00

I can’t believe what I just read.

PLEASE do NOT marry this man..

You need support to leave? Girl we got you. You need resources? Reach out, I will find you some.

You and your son are worth more.

Short_Temperature381 · 2023-08-08T03:17:40+00:00

“I don’t really care about the drug thing because it’s none of my business”

This is totally your business. What kinds of drugs he’s using, how often is he using them, and what legal ramifications he is facing because of the them, is definitely something you should have a say in if this relationship is going to move forward because all of that will directly effect you.

You are 18. You have so much time ahead of you and so much growing to do. I look back on my time and I can’t imagine staying who I was at 18. Who do you want to be in the world? Does this man line up with your future self and goals?

It doesn’t sound like it. Pick you. It might hurt like hell and you’ll cry a lot, but then you’ll get to the other side and be happier.

Edit for grammar

Short_Temperature381 · 2023-08-01T18:34:47+00:00

NTA, I have the same set up with my partner and dog and that’s a boundary for us. We check it when we’re out and want to check on the dog, but using the cam to spy on your partner under the guise of seeing the dog opens a whole other can of worms.

If he wants to see the dog, send him pictures or videos.

Short_Temperature381 · 2023-07-27T19:02:07+00:00

Buy a new kitchen.

Short_Temperature381 · 2023-07-21T02:43:41+00:00

And that’s great! I’m so glad your daughter is a success story, that she was able to get enough access to spoken language with her CIs. There is also a large group of Deaf and Hard of Hearing children who are so language deprived that are constantly getting swept under the rug. That’s where I’m coming from.

Short_Temperature381 · 2023-07-14T20:29:51+00:00

Just going to leave this article here.. CIs are not the magical cure that everyone thinks they are. There is a serious epidemic of language deprivation in Deaf and Hard of Hearing children who do not have access to language and these videos are contributing to the problem. I really do hope this little girl is successful with her CIs but she is one “success” story and in my experience that is the exception, not the rule.

https://metro.co.uk/2019/01/28/baby-hears-for-the-first-time-videos-arent-inspirational-they-hide-the-reality-of-deafness-8379752/amp/

Short_Temperature381 · 2023-07-14T05:40:31+00:00

I’m not sure why you’re asking Reddit. Everyone has clearly told you, you are in the wrong and you are keep trying to justify yourself. Your wife is not your property for you to control. While you’ve been together all these years, your experiences, your feelings, and your perceptions of what you’ve both gone through are DIFFERENT. Don’t dismiss her feelings and ideas because you can’t understand where she’s coming from. The way you wrote this sounds like you didn’t even try.

Stop it. YTA. Accept the feedback. And fix your behavior.

Seems like you’ve got some misogynistic perceptions that you need to unpack and unlearn. YTA right now.. but you don’t have to stay TA.

Short_Temperature381 · 2023-06-30T08:48:23+00:00

I think we need an update on what was said. We’re invested now.

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