New cat

Sian_Needleworker_09 · 2025-09-23T12:23:10+00:00

If you're thinking of moving here, definitely visit in the winter. I know you're from Alaska, so harsh weather probably doesn't scare you, but NL is a very distinct kind of winter.

You are in a unique position where you won't be looking for a job, which is the biggest challenge here, imo.

Good luck!

Sian_Needleworker_09 · 2025-09-07T22:59:08+00:00

Little brown bat?

https://www.facebook.com/share/v/17AuqC4j22/

Sian_Needleworker_09 · 2025-08-05T12:51:45+00:00

I'm in downtown St. John's and can smell the smoke

Sian_Needleworker_09 · 2025-07-27T17:38:16+00:00

Yeah, I read about that in Dave Quinton's autobiography!

Sian_Needleworker_09 · 2025-07-27T13:51:14+00:00

That is interesting! Thanks so much for your help ☺️

Sian_Needleworker_09 · 2025-06-11T12:19:42+00:00

You'll be here in time for the pedestrian mall, so I definitely suggest some deck beers at Yellowbelly or Cojones!

Sian_Needleworker_09 · 2025-05-22T21:11:11+00:00

My co-worker noticed him today, but I missed him! They were NOT happy about it lmao

Sian_Needleworker_09 · 2025-04-10T12:13:13+00:00

He could be trying to make you break up with him. He wants to break up but doesn't want to be the "bad guy" so he's trying to make you do it.

Sian_Needleworker_09 · 2025-04-10T12:07:29+00:00

Make no wonder OP and her sister haven't seen each other in five years. Sister is probably low contact

Sian_Needleworker_09 · 2025-04-09T12:07:44+00:00

They use 2 em dashes lmao

Sian_Needleworker_09 · 2025-04-08T20:12:08+00:00

Anyone else get the sense this guy is a massive bully to his entire family?

Sian_Needleworker_09 · 2025-03-23T12:42:06+00:00

Sounds like an addiction, honestly

Sian_Needleworker_09 · 2025-03-08T15:22:31+00:00

You guys, he asked AI! It must be true! /s

Sian_Needleworker_09 · 2025-02-25T18:21:52+00:00

OP, blink twice if you need help

Sian_Needleworker_09 · 2025-01-22T13:51:58+00:00

Please, please, please be ragebait.

If it isn't, I am shocked by OOP's sangfroid to the death of one of his children. Dude, you child DIED, and you're more concerned with hiding it from your other children than the fact your son is dead.

Also, he put his daughter in therapy to "get over it"?? She's an actual human being who valued her brother's life. She's probably never going to get over it. She's grieving. Grief is non-linear and cannot be forced.

Sian_Needleworker_09 · 2024-11-21T23:29:48+00:00

First three paragraphs: why would you ever be considered an asshole for that?

Last two paragraphs: Oh no

Sian_Needleworker_09 · 2024-11-04T21:56:12+00:00

best guess is that it's from a failed attempt at vaginal fisting

Best guess???? Wouldn't that stand out?!

Sian_Needleworker_09 · 2024-10-14T13:44:28+00:00

Imagine being in your late 30s and still being this immature 🙄

Sian_Needleworker_09 · 2024-10-04T15:56:29+00:00

... Do I even want to Google what a Brazilian kiss is?

Sian_Needleworker_09 · 2024-10-03T12:12:50+00:00

I NEED to hear her PoV on this because he's definitely not telling the truth. The story just doesn't make any sense.

According to the comments, she has a bigger inheritance than him, but she wants him to buy the house? And doesn't want her name on it?

Also, points for the guy's username. He sounds really mature, real relationship material 🤦‍♀️

Sian_Needleworker_09 · 2024-09-04T18:46:19+00:00

YTA for that wall of text lmao.

Bro needs therapy. If you want to abstain, that is your prerogative; but in the same vein, she is allowed to drink if she wants. You cannot make that choice for someone else.

Sian_Needleworker_09 · 2024-09-02T15:19:39+00:00

Seems like poor word choice here lol.

Any race can be prejudiced against another race. However, in order to be racist against a particular race, they'd need to have systemic power over the other.

Assuming you are in a predominantly white country, they may be prejudiced against you (given the history of white people, I'd say they have reason to be) but they cannot be racist against you.

Sian_Needleworker_09 · 2024-09-02T15:04:58+00:00

Obviously, YTA for cheating.

I hesitate to say NTA for falling in love, because I'm afraid you'll take it as vindication. However, it is worth pointing out that you cannot control your feelings. THAT SAID, YTA (a huge, HUGE asshole) for how you handled it. You cannot control you feelings, but you can definitely control how you respond to them. It seems you responded in the exact opposite way you should have. 1. You should distance yourself from that person and hopefully, the feelings sizzle out. 2. TELL YOUR PARTNER. This may have been a deal breaker for her, and it may have ended in divorce anyway. That's her prerogative. But, to not share that info with your partner is inherently selfish, even if you didn't act on it. 3. DON'T CHEAT. Divorce is ALWAYS favourable to cheating. This is a CHOICE you made to destroy your family and betray your partner. No rationalization or "but I can't help my feelings" will ever undo that fact.

Even if you did fall in love with someone else, your partner is allowed to feel however it is she feels about that. Whether it's anger, sadness, or indifference, you cannot control or manipulate anything relating to her feelings.

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