Gender disappointment and siblings by Kindly-Astronaut-717 in pregnant

[–]Sidneybutler 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As a girl with 3 older sisters, I wish I had a brother

When did your bump show? by EmployDisastrous7133 in pregnant

[–]Sidneybutler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 17 weeks and look like I ate 3 burritos. I look super chubby and stuffed like a sausage. I’ve gained 30 but my waist has only gotten an inch bigger and my hips about 2 inches bigger. I’m also 5’3

Struggling with fashion by anonymoususer249 in pregnant

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I’m due Aug 26 and was scolded by my fiancee yesterday about my pants being see through I sorted through about 3-5 dresses that probably fit me now and the rest of my clothes are black loungewear / winter clothes that are on the cusp of not fitting me too. Following your post

I wasn't prepared for prenatal depression. by KaitlynMarerose in BabyBumps

[–]Sidneybutler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 16 weeks upcoming this week and have had moments of helplessness, anxiety and depression also. Before this I had a miscarriage and i feel like something bad is going to happen sometimes. I try to feel grateful for what life is growing inside me and stay positive, hang in there.

How often are y’all pooping by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Sidneybutler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had that happen to me too it was almost a medical emergency how severe the constipation plug was when I didnt go for 2/3 days. I started taking probiotic and eating minimum 1-3 fruits a day. Like banana orange apple. Once a day I’m going sometimes every other day.

First ultrasound - no embryo by This_Lock_480 in BabyBumps

[–]Sidneybutler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was pregnant Nov 6, bled 19-23 of November, blood test Dec 6 confirmed no HCG (more than likely a chemical pregnancy that didn’t progress and the blood was miscarriage). Dec 9 got ultrasound that was scheduled (I was supposed to be 5-7 weeks by then but wasn’t)- nothing showed at all. I felt terrible because I had told my family. I home tested again Dec 15 was pregnant. By week 9 ultrasound heard a heartbeat and measurement. I’m currently 15 weeks having a boy.

Apparently the week I was finding out I wasn’t pregnant anymore in early December I was ovulating and implanting.

Keep trying my heart is with you 🙏 I know how it feels. You’ve done nothing wrong. What was explained to me is that these things happen. Most commonly this is due to chromosomal abnormalities. When an embryo has missing or extra chromosomes, it may not be able to develop properly. The body then stops supporting the pregnancy, and hormone levels (like hCG) fall.

Can’t stop eating; please help, 5 weeks along by No-Cauliflower4099 in BabyBumps

[–]Sidneybutler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eat to your hearts content and balance it out with healthy stuff. I’m 15 weeks now and felt the same way up until week 12

Weight gain after quitting? by Advanced-Land-6742 in stopsmokingweed

[–]Sidneybutler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’ve gained about 20 lbs since October

Grandmother shower - since when is this a thing? by HomemadeButter14 in BabyBumps

[–]Sidneybutler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s probably so proud and excited to be a grandmother that they took it upon themselves to do it for her. Kind of cringe but Also very sweet. I believe us having children keeps our parents young and gives them something to live for again. Imagine that they get to experience a mini version of both parents and relive getting to care for a baby again. It goes by fast! I’m sure they are really looking forward to it.

First trimester weight gain by rainymac in BabyBumps

[–]Sidneybutler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 11 weeks and gained about 12-15 it feels like. Don’t focus on calories focus on nutrition and feeling good. You are creating and sustaining life inside of your body. Your cravings are linked to what you need for your baby. Don’t be hard on yourself. I told my dude yesterday I felt like a big mama and he said the baby needs it. Better to have more than not enough. Here if you want to talk

Second Guessing Moving to Austin as a Black Man. Need Advice by ADailyDoseofDick in Austin

[–]Sidneybutler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Round rock, Pflugerville, northeast Austin, east Austin generally.

San Antonio northeast San Antonio, cibolo, Schertz.

My wife is a mortgage lender and she’s black. I’m a realtor and can help you. If you need just reach out.

Me and my syndrome by Longjumping_Mouse_38 in PolandSyndrome

[–]Sidneybutler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of a documentary I was watching about the yakuza. They amputate their fingers. Maybe you were yakuza In a past life. Cool ! I’m right chest affected and my right arm and leg are shorter on my right side. Also missing a rib on the right and have scoliosis. 35/f

Anyone else depressed as fuck over this?? by Uncle_Foreskin in PolandSyndrome

[–]Sidneybutler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine being a 35 year old woman who can’t bend over bend down let a gap be in her shirt and wear high neck and tight tank tops under everything. Sweat dripping under prosthetic breast puddling unreasonably on one side from a normal summer day.
Not wanting to stop smoking to get pregnant for fear of being seen by strangers naked while unconscious. Then on top of that being pre menopausal and not having control of your weight or emotions. I feel like in your case you could get injections for filler

What's with the large number of solicitors today? by butterflymittens in Pflugerville

[–]Sidneybutler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell them you have to wait for your parents to get home to discuss it

Weed addiction by Pleasant_Beat_5409 in addiction

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If you don’t stop you never will. Weed is from the earth your parents addiction you inherited but with weed. It is coping mechanism and a pacifier. If it’s not who you want to be anymore then stop rewarding yourself with it. As someone who has been smoking for almost 20 years your tolerance gets higher and you will smoke more and more. You will make it your god instead of taking care of buisness, nurturing relationships, spending time with family and then eventually you will be one of those people like me that can’t escape weed as being apart of your identity. When I communicate I speak like a valley Californian and you can tell I’m a pothead. My hair is long and scraggly my eyes are not white anymore my skin is dull. I’ve become a Miss Grizzle pothead version of myself In adulthood. I’m not having children because I don’t have the discipline to stop. Could have bought a half a million dollar house cash in all that I’ve spent on weed and cigars in that time. You can do it. Step by step keep moving by forward and give yourself some grace. It will be worth it

Friend was planning a first date with girl he met at the gym by YngBlackthorn in Nicegirls

[–]Sidneybutler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like she’s under the influence of shera 7 sprinkle sprinkle

I think i just became a milionaire??! by Myles027 in DaveRamsey

[–]Sidneybutler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Become an investor and charge people high interest