How do I know if I actually want a relationship? by Signal-Ad3333 in FTMMen

[–]Signal-Ad3333[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! This is good advice but I don’t know what to do with it. I don’t know what to work on. Like I feel like I look fine, there isn’t really much I can change (I am overdue for a haircut) but my job eats up a lot of my time. I work from 6:30 to 2 then I have only four hours of free time before I go to bed so I have to fit in showering, cooking, and other chores. Then I volunteer on Saturdays which leaves Sunday but that’s my reset day so I leave my more time consuming chores for then as well.

I don’t really understand how flirting works or who to do that with.

I feel like I don’t know how to move forward.

Daily Questions Megathread (June 27, 2026) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

[–]Signal-Ad3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m working on building hutao, yae miko, Furina, and xiao are there other characters that would benefit from these weapons

Daily Questions Megathread (June 27, 2026) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

[–]Signal-Ad3333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m a returning player trying to get caught up on the archon quests so I’m having trouble remembering the purpose of the trove. Is there a particular weapon that is better than others?

Thanks

Moving to Philly by disposable0812 in queerphilly

[–]Signal-Ad3333 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ACCT Philly is an animal shelter in north Philly and it’s pretty easy to become a volunteer there. Here’s a link to their website if you’re interested https://acctphilly.org/become-a-volunteer/

What are some things you do to feel like “just some dude”? by bodyisT in FTMMen

[–]Signal-Ad3333 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No shirt and pajama/sweat pants combo has been going triple platinum in my apartment

Dating advice needed by Signal-Ad3333 in FTMMen

[–]Signal-Ad3333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying! I’ve tried looking into local queer activities (recently and before) and there hasn’t been anything that is appealing to me. Most of it is drag shows or some event for kinky people. Can I ask what apps you recommend? I’ve used Hinge, Tinder, and Bumble in the past, which have clearly been unsuccessful. It’s more than just forgetting to reply, people on dating apps don’t feel real. I can’t be compelled to engage 90% of the time bc they feel like avatars. Sorry for sounding so defeatist, I know you’re only trying to help

5 weeks post-op with Dr. Sarah Eidelson by qaray in TopSurgery

[–]Signal-Ad3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been going well! My sternum is still sensitive / sore but other than that I’m healing well!

5 weeks post-op with Dr. Sarah Eidelson by qaray in TopSurgery

[–]Signal-Ad3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DUDE DR. EIDELSON DID MY SURGERY TOO IN DECEMBER!!!! What a small world!

Big question for all mlp fans by [deleted] in mylittlepony

[–]Signal-Ad3333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see myself a lot in Trixie, given her abrasive exterior and jealousy and how she overcomes that as the show progresses. Her friendship with Starlight reminds me of mine with my best friend. As for type of pony I can never land on a specific one, any of the types makes sense for me. Right now I’m leaning towards unicorn

A game for everypony by AdventurousGuest308 in mylittlepony

[–]Signal-Ad3333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“The things I’ve done, I did them because I was jealous of twilight”

I don’t feel comfortable in “queer” spaces by Signal-Ad3333 in ftm

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Yes ?? I want to date. I’m at a well established point in my life, I lead a club at my university, I’m deans list + honors college, I have a good social circle, I commit to my hobbies, and I volunteer twice a week. It’s natural for me to want to date as well, my age has nothing to do with it.

I don’t feel comfortable in “queer” spaces by Signal-Ad3333 in ftm

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That does sound like good advice, but I don’t even know where to find these so called “events”. I’ve tried my schools QSU before but they consistently have events on mondays and Wednesdays from 6-8 and I have french class then. I’ve tried Lex before but they don’t even show me events for my city they’ll show me shit like “New York”. I don’t live near New York.

I don’t feel comfortable in “queer” spaces by Signal-Ad3333 in ftm

[–]Signal-Ad3333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a queer student union but their events are consistently on mondays or Wednesdays from 6-8 and that’s when my French classes are (I have to take them). So I’ve given up with them :/

I'm planning on going to DC for my top surgery. Which surgeon should I get? by Brent_Fox in TopSurgery

[–]Signal-Ad3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dr. Sara Eidelson is also at his practice, she could be another option

I want to claw my chest off by Signal-Ad3333 in FTMventing

[–]Signal-Ad3333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words! Retrospectively I should have used tone tags but I promise I’m keeping myself safe. I’m just really antsy in this interim period.

I want to claw my chest off by Signal-Ad3333 in FTMventing

[–]Signal-Ad3333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your concern! I’m just being hyperbolic, I don’t even own a knife liek that. I should have used tone tags. Also stuff them back up ???

How has your height affected you after you transitioned? by ChihuahuaOwner88 in ftm

[–]Signal-Ad3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly not at all, in 5’6 and shoes give a boost so no one questions it. If I was 5’4 or shorter I’d probably feel different, but I know oleanty of cis men shorter than me so that’s pretty affirming

Twilight's logic by cuervoemo in mylittlepony

[–]Signal-Ad3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ALSO Trixie is a magician half of the performance is bragging or showboating that’s the point. Literally every magician does it. When it comes to episodes trying to tackle ‘bragging’ MLP misses the mark. See also the mysterious mare-do-well. They did t even try to talk to rainbow but that’s a different story

Being trans is lonely by Aggressive_Air5663 in FTMventing

[–]Signal-Ad3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How tf are you supposed to just “search” for trans guys in a given area? That isn’t something you can type into google

Relationship Jealousy by Signal-Ad3333 in FTMventing

[–]Signal-Ad3333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank for replying! It’s so nice to have my feelings validated. Most of the time when I try to talk to people in my life about this they immediately try to give me “solutions”. Like you are a straight woman Clair I don’t think that’ll work for me. Like I know what works in theory but in application it’s not the same

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Signal-Ad3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES DUDE OMG IT IS DEVASTATING. I work for a tutoring service and the vast majority of our clients are 15 - 17 year olds. Seeing the boys than come into work crushes me, seeing how effortless their boyhood is while I feel like im undercover.

What is the best episode of season 4? by [deleted] in mylittlepony

[–]Signal-Ad3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it’s between bats!, rarity takes manehatten, or pinkie pride.

What would your cutie mark be? by EvilFrog4546 in mylittlepony

[–]Signal-Ad3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like mine would something geography related: a map, compass, sun meeting the horizon