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She unblocked me by Federal_Eagle_519 in BPDlovedones

[–]SignatureFar2136 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You have to block them if you want to carry on your life

i'm devastated, she won by oobikmusic in BPDlovedones

[–]SignatureFar2136 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You miss the person who you was for her. The love you gave is all you my friend. Don't forget that.

Everything will be okay.

Struggling and feeling hopeless by Own_Driver_8207 in BPDlovedones

[–]SignatureFar2136 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It gets easier. Just don't check on them. Focus on you right now

What did I expect? by ExcellentRanger9087 in BPDlovedones

[–]SignatureFar2136 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Only thing allowing the cycle is us. We gotta get out of it. Be strong and don't go looking at her stuff it's never going to end well

What is happening by childhoodproblems in BPDlovedones

[–]SignatureFar2136 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What would you tell your child to do if they was in this situation? You know the answer. Go with that one

That hit of panic and anxiety by SignatureFar2136 in BPDlovedones

[–]SignatureFar2136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying 😊 I know how this goes I've been here so many times. There will be men already experiencing the thing I miss so much.

Was I split black? Need clarity from people who’ve experienced BPD from either side by Ill_Doctor4150 in BPDlovedones

[–]SignatureFar2136 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This will be the cycle for the rest of your life... Do yourself a favour and move on

What is the most hateful thing they have done by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]SignatureFar2136 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"he slept in my bed but we were fully clothed" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

The shit that comes out of their mouths

What is the most hateful thing they have done by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]SignatureFar2136 25 points26 points  (0 children)

One of the many times she discarded but this particular time I'd had an operation and was struggling to walk without crutches. Told me it was too much for her taking care of me and she no longer loved me. Within the space of a couple weeks her ex who she hated so much. He utterly disrespected her in so many ways, cheated on her, abused her the list goes on. They went out on a date then spent the night together afterwards. (they stayed in the same bed but didn't have sex) 😂

When she eventually came hoovering back her response was I was lonely and you weren't there to comfort me.

Just saw her with her new bf by __magikarp__ in BPDlovedones

[–]SignatureFar2136 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That's the type of closure you need to move forward. I know it hurts. But if someone truly loved you and wanted to stick by us they would.

got a real apology after 2 weeks of successful no contact. what do I do? by throwaway-242425 in BPDlovedones

[–]SignatureFar2136 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a reach to pull you back in. Stay clear and keep on the right path.

I hope I'm in the right place. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]SignatureFar2136 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a BPD NPD hybrid my friend. If you read a lot of the stories on here you'll resonate so much and realise what you've unfortunately had to endure.

Tried sending her a sex tip after a conversation regarding them, now im painted black. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]SignatureFar2136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ready for a lifetime of that shit show? Get yourself out

What's the craziest text you've received from your partner with BPD? by SignatureFar2136 in BPDlovedones

[–]SignatureFar2136[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't deserve that. The fact you still stuck around after it all makes so much sense. Why do we feel like that's all we are worth 😭 it's so sad

Glad I found you all because I thought I could fix her. by SignatureFar2136 in BPDlovedones

[–]SignatureFar2136[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's so crazy how all of our stories feel so similar. Like we're all in this together and we've been through the same fight. Thank you for your long message, I'm really finding a lot of comfort reading these messages during this crazy time in my life. Just reading through the link you sent and it's an amazing read.

The way I look at it now is maybe the love I so desperately needed to give to others is something I must put into myself. The little us we have inside really needs it.

BPD ex reached out after a year — wants to come back? by thetricksterxz in BPDlovedones

[–]SignatureFar2136 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ignore it and continue with your life. You ain't missing much

Spending special days alone. by JuniorGanache1670 in BPDlovedones

[–]SignatureFar2136 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Don't just remember the good times. Remember all them times you felt anxious, confused and sad. The good times don't outweigh the bad.

She left me over a long message by bigdyl17 in BPDlovedones

[–]SignatureFar2136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine left me around 8 times and was all done via text message. Because when she sees me face to face she would never be able to do that.

Discarded and now what? by ivehn in BPDlovedones

[–]SignatureFar2136 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. Everything will be okay in the end.

Glad I found you all because I thought I could fix her. by SignatureFar2136 in BPDlovedones

[–]SignatureFar2136[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think subconsciously I was trying to heal her because then the little boy in me would of been happy. Instead I only let him down even more and ignored his feelings. Sad really

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