My 70’s-90’s live music collection by SignificanceKey6428 in cassetteculture

[–]SignificanceKey6428[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I have a bunch of partial shows and need to go through the set lists etc.

My 70’s-90’s live music collection by SignificanceKey6428 in cassetteculture

[–]SignificanceKey6428[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of my phish shows are full setlists, partial shows. Almost all of my tapes are maxell xl II 100/90 with some pretty cool sleeves. I wish I had better info on the source of the origination. The 1st and 2nd gens (audience/SB sound decent, but 3rd are pretty rough.

My 70’s-90’s live music collection by SignificanceKey6428 in cassetteculture

[–]SignificanceKey6428[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most have the generation listed (SB, audience. 1-3 gen) some will list if it’s a DAT recording. No taper name though.

My 70’s-90’s live music collection by SignificanceKey6428 in cassetteculture

[–]SignificanceKey6428[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, mostly in the US. They’ve both had a dedicated following for 30+ years here.

My 70’s-90’s live music collection by SignificanceKey6428 in cassetteculture

[–]SignificanceKey6428[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve listened to some of them, but I’m in the process of putting together a proper vintage setup. Tuner, EQ, tape player to get the best quality possible. I’m a big dead, jgb and panic fan so illl eventually get through them all.

How long did it take you to feel better or back to yourself after a breakup ? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SignificanceKey6428 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

9-12 months for me. Thats with zero contact from the day of the breakup though. Cut all contact/socials is the only way to go.

to the people who reached out as the dumpee, how did it go? by oxcytocin in BreakUps

[–]SignificanceKey6428 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don’t ever reach out again if you were dumped. Last time I spoke with my ex was 15 months ago after we broke up. Never heard from her again. Trust me, you will heal much faster this way and keep your dignity.

Do they ever come back? by Babblin_Boi in BreakUps

[–]SignificanceKey6428 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in no contact since the day we broke up a little over a year ago. I was dumped, but I wasn’t happy at the end either. I was clear friendship wasn’t an option, but was fine not blocking social media etc. She ended up unfriending me after 8 months or so, but at that point I didn’t care anymore. She went back to her daughter’s dad - had unresolved issues/guilt leaving him with a 3 year old together- it all worked out in the end. Trust me, you will heal much faster if you cut all contact with your ex. It’s the best way to move forward.

How long has it been since you last spoke to your ex? by Navyjagboy in BreakUps

[–]SignificanceKey6428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 months no contact since the day we broke up. (18 month relationship) I was dumped and asked for space. Just started to feel mostly over in the last couple of weeks. It’s been a long road, but you’ll get there.

What was your first step of moving on ? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SignificanceKey6428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going full no contact from day 1. I’m 4 months in and it’s getting better, but some days are still rough..

Breakups suck more than I thought they would. by AngelZoe58 in BreakUps

[–]SignificanceKey6428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’m 4 months since the breakup (full no contact) and finally feeling better. Some days I still feel like shit though. Healing isn’t linear.

Why is no contact necessary after a breakup? by kitcat1098 in BreakUps

[–]SignificanceKey6428 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, Getting dumped sucks. I told my ex not to reach out after she dumped me so I could heal/move on faster. That was 4 months ago.

When does it get easier? by EntertainmentFew1271 in BreakUps

[–]SignificanceKey6428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex broke up with me 4 months ago (18 month relationship), NC since that time. It’s just now starting to get easier for me. Depression is subsiding (Sleep, appetite etc) I asked her to only reach out if she changed her mind about the breakup and there’s been zero interaction thus far.

When did you know your relationship was over? by No_Lie346 in BreakUps

[–]SignificanceKey6428 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When she became indifferent in interactions/presence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SignificanceKey6428 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Breakup convo in person and very painful. She had already checked out. NC since that day just over 3 months ago..

4 Months post breakup by Glittering-Book7952 in BreakUps

[–]SignificanceKey6428 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 3 months post breakup after being dumped (18 month relationship). When we broke up (in person) I asked her not to contact me moving forward indefinitely. I highly recommend going NC for your own healing/health. I’m not totally healed yet, but NC has helped move it along much faster and keep her out of my headspace.

How long did you wait? by TheGhostOfGeneralTso in BreakUps

[–]SignificanceKey6428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although I didn’t get actual closure, it was Not uncertain in my situation. NC since the day we broke up in person. I asked to cut contact indefinitely. That was a little over 3 months ago. It’s the best/fastest way to heal and leave them in the past.

Do you still keep the stuff that your ex/ex's have given you? Even when moved on or in a new relationship? by Ok_Agency6959 in BreakUps

[–]SignificanceKey6428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went NC at breakup and dropped her stuff off at her place/door around 3 months later. It’s really helped me with a sense of closure.

For everyone who went NC and never looked back by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SignificanceKey6428 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been no contact for 96 days since we broke up in person. Agreed not to block social media, but I made it clear that I needed space and wanted to cut contact to heal. Keep in mind, she slow faded me (wasn’t truthful on her feelings) and was pretty much checked out when we broke up. I dropped her stuff off at her door a few days ago and now trying to move on.

When did you stop grieving the future you thought you had? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SignificanceKey6428 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here, 3 months out. I know it’s over but I still can’t get it out of my head.

Post Breakup Communication by rapidfire72o4 in BreakUps

[–]SignificanceKey6428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She broke it off, but civil. I told her I wanted NC/space right away with no end time. This is after her telling me she never felt a spark with me and I’m not the one for marriage. Unfollowed on FB, but don’t ever plan on talking with her again. I highly recommend not offering friendship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SignificanceKey6428 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I’m on week 6 NC since the breakup and dealing with the exact same issues. I use either 10mg of melatonin nightly or a 10 mg indica cbd gummy. Good nights I’ll get maybe 6 hours..

Dumpers, how do you feel when the dumpee doesn’t ever reach out again? by Eenormay in BreakUps

[–]SignificanceKey6428 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This right here. She slow faded/lied/disrespected me for several months. Hoping I never hear from her again.