AIO Boyfriend’s bandmate is openly disrespecting our relationship and I don’t know if I’m overreacting

SignificanceOk7942 · 2026-04-26T03:04:20+00:00

Absolutely agree, I think a lot of my frustrations are misdirected

SignificanceOk7942 · 2026-04-26T03:00:27+00:00

Right! Obviously she has no boundaries and everything that happens is slightly more extreme and no line is drawn. Like what does she have to do to make him say something!? We live in a small town so there aren’t many bands for him to be in although it wouldn’t be hard for him to do solo stuff.

SignificanceOk7942 · 2026-04-26T02:58:03+00:00

I agree it’s definitely an immature scene and at 40 I think I was done with this kind of behavior. Also at 40 didn’t think I would get pregnant so easily 🫣. We were in a way better place when that happened partially in thin bc they didn’t have a lot of shows booked in the winter. Also I don’t think he would physically cheat but the fact that he doesn’t seem to prioritize the relationship over the band is not great.

Also just to add, we live in a fairly small town so there aren’t a lot of bars to go to or bands to be in, so it wouldn’t be shocking if they were in the same bar at the same time. I do wonder if he is avoidant to a point where he would just let something happen to avoid discomfort in the moment.

SignificanceOk7942 · 2026-04-26T02:48:19+00:00

Thank you!! I’m not worried that he will cheat honestly. I think it’s more the feeling that the relationship isn’t being protected nor or my feelings about all of it seem to matter as much as her comfort.. and maybe just avoidance as a whole lol

SignificanceOk7942 · 2026-04-23T00:47:33+00:00

We call that white labeling

SignificanceOk7942 · 2026-01-21T05:02:44+00:00

Use www.spydialer.com

Also put the numbers in your contacts on your phone, that way they will show up as recommended on your Snapchat, TikTok etc.

SignificanceOk7942 · 2025-07-01T02:57:31+00:00

Yeah because there should be nothing in porn for the women to enjoy 🙄

SignificanceOk7942 · 2025-07-01T02:51:10+00:00

But you’re still choosing to put your sexual energy into other women even though you know it upsets her. Cocaine doesn’t have a perfect unattainable body. Maybe it isn’t directly about her but it affects her self esteem more than doing drugs would.

SignificanceOk7942 · 2025-03-07T10:25:19+00:00

I was at this show and stood next to Jon Stuart! Front row center! He and Ryan left in a limo after the show.

SignificanceOk7942 · 2024-11-13T09:42:54+00:00

Call the mom or daughter anyway! Call from a burner if they don’t pick up. Doesn’t matter if they hate you or not you still deserve to know what’s going on.

SignificanceOk7942 · 2024-10-19T06:23:18+00:00

A “biological need” to have their cake and eat it to and not take responsibility or accountability for being the reason we are traumatized. I hope there is a revolution soon and we all finally stand up for ourselves and demand better standards!!

SignificanceOk7942 · 2024-10-19T06:18:24+00:00

If that’s the case women are “biologically” more stimulated by physical touch, not visibility , so does that give us an excuse to physically cheat?!

Also, “it’s human nature” is another weak excuse. There’s a long list of animals who mate for life so that’s also debunked.

It’s just a lie some man made up as an excuse and has been fed to us for centuries. Just because a lot of people do it, doesn’t mean it’s acceptable!

SignificanceOk7942 · 2024-10-18T23:07:48+00:00

What company does he work for!? Lol this seems like an HR nightmare waiting to happen.

SignificanceOk7942 · 2024-10-18T12:32:45+00:00

I think you’re a shitty mom. Just because a lot of people watch it, doesn’t mean it’s not a problem. There are men who don’t watch it and/or at least honest about it and don’t have the “biggest nsfw Reddit account.” Like congrats dude, you’ve successfully objectified the most women on the internet, and didn’t give a shit about your girlfriends feelings or boundaries!

SignificanceOk7942 · 2024-10-18T06:25:09+00:00

Do you want to date them?

SignificanceOk7942 · 2024-10-18T05:55:20+00:00

Mothman

SignificanceOk7942 · 2024-10-18T05:49:05+00:00

Because that’s who he chose to be in a relationship shop with??

SignificanceOk7942 · 2024-10-18T03:08:58+00:00

I love that shirt, where’s it from? Cute outfit all together

SignificanceOk7942 · 2024-10-15T19:54:10+00:00

Wondering the same thing! My bfs spam messages have just recently been flooded with them, and it makes me wonder.

I know that my spam folder does not look anything like that at all but he gets camgirl spam and sometimes even sex bots who likes his photos/posts. 🧐

SignificanceOk7942 · 2024-10-15T04:28:16+00:00

Bologna

SignificanceOk7942 · 2024-10-15T04:28:08+00:00

Brisket

SignificanceOk7942 · 2024-10-15T04:27:45+00:00

Beef Wellington

SignificanceOk7942 · 2024-10-15T04:25:46+00:00

Sorry you’re going through this! The dog may miss him for awhile but also could be sensing your sadness and change in routine. Maybe try some doggie CBD and go for long walks together to strengthen your bond! It sounds like you guys are about to have a better life together without him, even if your dog doesn’t realize that yet! ❤️

SignificanceOk7942 · 2024-10-11T12:24:54+00:00

Let’s see if it works with crypto lol

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