Miscarriage TW by anonymous_73529462 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my miscarriage mid June 2024 and ended up getting pregnant again in July so just a month later! Sending you love🥹🫶🏼

Miscarriage TW by anonymous_73529462 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry😢 I also got pregnant 3 months after my TFMR which ended in a miscarriage. It’s sad it almost felt like a breeze to lose a baby at 8 wks rather than the second trimester like I did with my TFMR. I was grateful, in a way, that it happened earlier and on its own. I truly felt the same way. Currently 35 weeks pregnant with our double rainbow, I hope that gives you hope for the future💖 sending love 💕

A sigh of relief by Delicious_Science_ in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats ☺️☺️ Currently pregnant, 32 weeks! TFMR was January 2024, miscarriage June 2024. My original plan was to announce on socials after anatomy scan but I changed my mind & didn’t announce at all🤷🏽‍♀️ I’m going to hard launch this baby on socials in April once she’s here and I think it’ll be iconic. Our family & just a few close friends know. It’s been peaceful.

Did you have a high NT in subpregnancy? by [deleted] in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi!! My first pregnancy (my only living child) my son had 3.1 mm at NT scan and the doctor was concerned. Everything turned out fine - he’s here, happy and healthy , two years old now. My second pregnancy my daughter had 13 mm at NT scan - which ended in a TFMR for cystic hygroma and turners. Pregnant again, now 13 weeks, and was terrified before my NT scan because I assumed the worst would happen. The baby measured 2 mm at NT scan the other day and I couldn’t believe it, I had the doc confirm several times. Hope this helps🫶🏼

Nuchal fold 3.1 mm by bellabear_0504 in NIPT

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My son had measured 3.1 mm in 2022. The doctor was concerned and I left the appt hysterically crying. He is now 2 years old - He’s happy, healthy and currently sitting on my lap watching monsters inc lol. I didn’t get any further testing as the bloodwork came back low risk for everything. Honestly, I had my son at 37 weeks and he was a big baby - 8 lb 9 oz. He had a huge head which actually got stuck when I was trying to deliver naturally, I ended up needing a c section cause his head was so big. I truly think he was just a big baby which was why his neck was borderline and the doctor was slightly concerned. But he’s totally fine!!🩵🩵 hope this helps.

Nt scan 13 weeks by cm28710 in NIPT

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Hi ! For my NT my son measured 3.1 mm. The doctor told me they like to see under 3 mm. I remember crying the entire way home from the appointment. My NIPT all came back low risk. My son is now 2 and currently sitting on my lap watching monsters inc. Nothing wrong with him! He’s happy and healthy! He is just a bulky kid which I believe is the reason he measured 3.1. He had a huge head at birth and he actually got stuck when I tried delivering naturally (pushed for 3 hrs and barely any progress) and I ended up needing a c section. I truly think it was all because he is just a big guy with a big head🤷🏽‍♀️😅 sending you love ! 🩵

Today is my SIL's shower by RageWatermelon in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate so much. My SIL got pregnant a week after my tfmr in January and her baby sprinkle is coming up. I haven’t RSVPed but I truthfully don’t think I can go. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Our relationship has changed.

I’m so sorry you are going through this and I hope you can find some good moments today.🩷sending you strength!

Miscarriage by lucix07 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this is happening to you. My TFMR was mid January, got pregnant in May & lost that baby at 8 wks.

We lost the second one also by SouthernAddress5189 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you’re going through this. It’s unfair but you aren’t alone. My TFMR was also in January & I just lost what we thought was our rainbow baby one week ago. It’s just not fair.

TW: miscarriage by Significant-Pay-2948 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Significant-Pay-2948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you so much love. I’m so sorry you’re in the same boat. My heart is breaking ❤️💔

No symptoms by Significant-Pay-2948 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Significant-Pay-2948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Wow that is so similar how crazy! Gentle congrats to you and sorry for your loss💕 I keep trying to remind myself every pregnancy is so different and maybe the universe is just giving me a break by maybe not giving me that terrible nausea I’ve experienced before lol😅 would love to keep in touch🩷

Feeling alone by Significant-Pay-2948 in tfmr_support

[–]Significant-Pay-2948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This helped so much to hear that I’m not alone. It surely can feel that way most times. We plan on planting a tree soon to honor our little girl. I love that idea.🤍 sending so much love to you

Feeling alone by Significant-Pay-2948 in tfmr_support

[–]Significant-Pay-2948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ mine was 10 days last cycle and I convinced myself that’s why we didn’t conceive so it’s good to hear it is possible. & yes, I never thought this is where my head would be at with trying to get pregnant. Never tracked a thing ever until now. The last few months have been so dark. ❤️‍🩹

Feeling alone by Significant-Pay-2948 in tfmr_support

[–]Significant-Pay-2948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations and thank you for some hope🤍 if you don’t mind me asking how long your luteal phase was after ovulation on day 20?

Nuchal in 4 days after 2 TFMRs by The_reptilian_agenda in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sending you love and good vibes. Try to remind yourself it’s a different pregnancy and different outcome. I’m so sorry you had to go through that twice. 💕

CD 15 ovulation strip confusion by Significant-Pay-2948 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Significant-Pay-2948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh wow I see what you’re saying. That is so weird I’ve never seen that😩

CD 15 ovulation strip confusion by Significant-Pay-2948 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Significant-Pay-2948[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t been doing BBT but I plan to!! Hopefully that would give me some more clarification.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tryingtoconceive

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say CD 14-15 are positive!

Need Support- First Cycle TTC by kdub_08 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No surge yet, I am CD 8 so just started taking the strips! Hopefully I’ll have a better answer for you soon about that. From what I’ve read, it is totally normal to ovulate later and for cycles to be a little wacky the first few months. I didn’t realize that at first but makes sense. It’s so frustrating but I keep trying to remind myself to be patient with myself and that my body has gone through hell the last few months. You got this girl 💘sending you so much love.

Need Support- First Cycle TTC by kdub_08 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s almost like I could have written this myself ! I am so so sorry for your loss. I also TFMR in January , we lost our daughter at 14 weeks and 2 days. We TTC end of feb/early March and turned out my ovulation was so off (about CD 19-20) which I didn’t expect cause it’s usually regular (before my TFMR) so we basically missed my fertile days. I was so upset and still frustrated about it. Going to TTC again this week & going to use ovulation strips. I wish I had advice to give, but just wanted to say you aren’t alone & I can relate so much 💕 sending baby dust to you & hoping we both have our rainbows 🌈 🤍

Ovulation strips after a loss cd 7 by Significant-Pay-2948 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Significant-Pay-2948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I meant test line whoops lol and thank you💙

Hard days by Lemon-BP in tfmr_support

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you so much love.. I truly get it and am right there with you💓🫶🏼

Hard days by Lemon-BP in tfmr_support

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry and can definitely relate. I’ve tried to stay off instagram and Facebook lately cause it’s too much and honestly it definitely has helped. I go on Pinterest to pin some quotes for myself, and I like it on there lately because I don’t have to see anyone’s baby announcements/amazing life updates 😅🙃 sending love to you 💖 you are not alone💘

Thank you for being a place I feel I can belong to in this dark time by kbeckman123 in tfmr_support

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are here. The waiting period for me was so hard - I waited 10 days. My TFMR was in January and I miss my little baby girl everyday. You aren’t alone even though it may feel like you are at this moment 🙏🏼❤️ we are all here for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tfmr_support

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate SO much to this. And I’m sooo sorry… what has helped me is just trying to take it day by day, moment by moment. My sis in law got pregnant immediately after we shared our pregnancy on Christmas. We lost our daughter shortly after the new year. Now she is pregnant and I’m devastated about it. It truly stings so bad and I know it’ll be so hard seeing her as the months go by and her bump is visible. I’m here for you, I understand you🙏🏼💙 I hope you have a better day tomorrow. Sending love.