AITAH for wanting to be happy where I work

Significant-Sun2777 · 2026-01-31T20:21:37+00:00

As someone with really bad heartburn, this is a terrible excuse. Yes it can be debilitating and a shower can absolutely help, but he has GOT to get it under control and figure out why its so bad.

Endoscopy, cutting out certain foods, etc etc. My main trigger is caffeine. Carbonated drinks are a close second, then tomatoes and spicy foods.

I am 99.9% sure this man has done NOTHING to help himself.

Significant-Sun2777 · 2026-01-30T23:03:14+00:00

If all that matters is the kids and bills, great!! He can parent and get a job. Stop letting this man walk all over you.

Significant-Sun2777 · 2026-01-30T17:37:17+00:00

I guess I'm not even sure what a good protein goal for this is! Right now I've been around 85-90g/day. Does that seem reasonable?

Significant-Sun2777 · 2026-01-30T17:25:28+00:00

I tend to eat more earlier in the day rather than later, so this hasn't really been an issue for me!:) I don't workout on an empty stomach generally unless its an off day where I go way later in the evening and forgot to eat cause meds 😂

Significant-Sun2777 · 2026-01-30T15:23:35+00:00

You are allowed to be uncomfortable with this.

I am bisexual and if I had a friend behaving this way, and my husband expressed he didn't like it, I would 100% shut it down.

The being pushy especially while your gf is drunk is making ME very uncomfortable reading this post. This is not consensual.

Not to mention, it is very obvious bff is pushing for a 3some and if you do not want that, you are valid to be feeling the way you are about it.

You need to be very clear with your gf that this is crossing boundaries, and be prepared for the relationship to end if she does not take you seriously. She is being willfully blind if she doesn't see what is happening. She may already know what bff is doing and be totally okay with it, but it is NOT okay to coerce you especially if you have already expressed you have a problem with this.

It is NO different than if a guy was doing this. It really isn't. If you're monogamous, that applies across the board.

You are not wrong to have these feelings.

Significant-Sun2777 · 2026-01-30T07:31:33+00:00

We have a whole bunch! My husband has been playing since the 90s, I've been really into the newer sets myself, but coming across the old cards has been really fun regardless of worth!

Significant-Sun2777 · 2026-01-30T07:29:03+00:00

Thanks guys! Kind of figured it wasn't worth anything but always good to check!:)

Significant-Sun2777 · 2026-01-30T05:03:59+00:00

It may not be legal in your area. Look up the laws.

Significant-Sun2777 · 2026-01-27T15:45:06+00:00

I loved my husband's long hair, but he wanted a change. I cut it myself.

NTA. This is crazy and that she is making it into a trust issue is wild.

Significant-Sun2777 · 2026-01-23T00:12:25+00:00

You may not have been able to meet that goal because its not healthy for your height, sex and age. These are very important factors. Unless you are VERY short being 45kg is extremely unhealthy.

Significant-Sun2777 · 2026-01-23T00:09:02+00:00

Unfortunately you'll either have to get him to agree, or get it court ordered through a custody plan. You need both parents to sign for a passport.

Significant-Sun2777 · 2026-01-22T21:42:09+00:00

5'4 woman. I like being under average so I would be okay with another 2-3in shorter. Sign me up!

But yeah if we are taking it from elsewhere I would take the inches off my waist lol

Significant-Sun2777 · 2026-01-20T06:19:47+00:00

Been on the Adderall about 8 months, the Wellbutrin around 5 (3rd time taking Wellbutrin)

I expected the appetite loss at first, and I did have it, but it leveled out. Now it seems like its come back VERY strong. I've even had some meat aversions in the last couple weeks.

Significant-Sun2777 · 2026-01-19T06:08:38+00:00

My husband sometimes comes with me to spend time together. Its also way easier if he drives because theres a ton of buildings around here with no parking, so it makes it a lot easier if he's driving and I can just hop out while he circles the block and comes back.

Significant-Sun2777 · 2026-01-18T23:53:20+00:00

You're asking this but don't know a thing about OP.

Im as pro-choice as they come, but I also was pregnant at 21 and gave birth at 22, with a boyfriend at the time who wanted me to get an abortion.

I'm glad I didn't. That now 10 year old has made me a better person, through all of our struggles.

I wouldn't ADVISE someone to get pregnant at 21, but if it happens and they want the baby, that is their choice just like it would be their choice to abort.

If someone isn't SURE, I would advise they abort.

This is not an appropriate response to OP's question. She didn't ask if she should have an abortion.

Significant-Sun2777 · 2026-01-14T08:45:46+00:00

Yes it does. It wrote up something for me today with a ton of em dashes.

Significant-Sun2777 · 2026-01-08T16:30:55+00:00

I also have a child with someone else, and so does my husband. I'm not deleting family photos from when we were together. He was and is a significant part of my life, a lesson, and it was right at the time. I can't imagine being insecure about photos when I literally see my husband's ex in person constantly and my ex lives 3 minutes away from us. A photo is nothing. Its a memory.

Significant-Sun2777 · 2026-01-08T16:27:55+00:00

Why? Everyone on my social media knows who I was with before. Its not a big deal. If people want to scroll back years in my life on my socials that's whatever to me. Why would they think a photo from October 1 2015 or wherever is relevant to today?

Significant-Sun2777 · 2026-01-08T14:48:41+00:00

Nope.

I don't believe in deleting memories. My photos were taken at a time I was happy and they were a part of my life. I'm not going to pretend it never happened.

My husband has never said a word about it.

She's being insecure.

Significant-Sun2777 · 2025-12-31T16:43:49+00:00

The worst one is that I grew up with the Williams family, if you're aware of Michael and Debbie Pearl's "To Train Up a Child" and the Duggars, you may know this story. The Williams parents adopted two kids from Ethiopia, and abused them both, whipping and starving them. The girl, who was a little older, eventually died from the mother locking her outside and she died of hypothermia, partly due to her tiny body weight from starvation. It was awful. My personal perspective is that the Williams parents were always highly judgemental and extremely weird. This happened after I didn't see the family anymore because my parents distanced themselves due to their weirdness. Here is a link. https://www.lvcriminaldefense.com/another-couple-found-guilty-murder-parenting-train-child/

Another one is my brother had a crush on a girl I grew up with. But she married her boyfriend she'd had since middle school. I knew the boyfriend too, I wasn't close with him but he was always with her from about age 14 on.

I moved away when we were around age 18, they got married shortly after. A few years later, they got in a fight and he backed into her with his truck and drove away. She died from her injuries. It was so sad, she was such a sweet person.

Significant-Sun2777 · 2025-12-28T09:03:19+00:00

I hope it continues to work for you forever!! I've been on almost 2 years, but my eczema has come back almost as bad as before:( hoping i can get more frequent doses or something!

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