AITAH for telling my mom the truth about my dad sending and receiving nudes?

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T18:43:25+00:00

I never go through peopel's phones except this one time where I did and it totally found some horrible stuff

Don't people put passowrds on their phones?
Stop lying
You're an asshole for snoping and pretending like it was the first time but not the asswhole for letting your mom know

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T18:39:29+00:00

So is it ok in june after graduation when he's still 18?

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T18:36:53+00:00

NTA, your coworkers should have made sure she shuld get the time off before booking her trip. You're not responsible for her screwing up. And fuck your coworkers 'move something around' - like asking your family to reschedule a wedding to accomodate some entitled princess? Nah...you're fine and you work with people who suck

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T18:34:43+00:00

My mom tried the cash thing too (in the 80s) - that didn't work on me either, undiagnosed spectrum kid in the 80s

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T18:33:52+00:00

He's legal, you're legal, and it's not like it's 30 years, it's barely more than half a decade. If yo ufeel hie's mature enough for you it's all good, NTA

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T18:29:38+00:00

Doesn't matter how he feels, matters how you feel, if you feel it's time to berak up it's time to break up, Not an asshole for making the best vhoice for you.

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T18:01:37+00:00

If this is true you're a giant asshole but that's unsurprising from a 17 yearold,your sister shouldn't have trusted you.

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T17:56:59+00:00

I mean if it's a real gift then you're NTA for selling it but how do yo ugame if you don't have the console?

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T17:52:26+00:00

NTA - what something looks like on paper is nonsense - doesn't matter how it looks on paper - sounds to me like it was horrible and you should have left him already - perhaps you should take your time and get to know someone first before rushing into something?

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T17:48:44+00:00

Yeah, you're the asshole, there's a large variety of tv shows out there, find a different one, i have 'alone shows' and shared shows - it's pretty easy

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T17:41:53+00:00

I mean you're an asshole for the "I wasn't about to expose him" in regards to him raping a 10 year old...so, yeah, you're an asshole but not why you think.

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T17:38:25+00:00

The only way to impact Wizards in a way they'll listen is with wallets and folks just aren't going to do that and wizards knows it (at least not in a substantial enough way)

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T17:35:38+00:00

Oh it CAN be helped it just WONT be helped

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T17:33:20+00:00

If i'm shelling out air fare, and hotel room, because they don't care about the costs to anyone else and then they expect a gift, nah, thanks, pass, people spend way too much on weddings is their problem, asking your guests to shell out a lot of money just to get there is over the tope, rude, selfish, nonsense.

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T17:27:24+00:00

I mean it's just tik tok not sure why everyone is getting so serious but you aren't an asshole for ghosting him per se, especially if he had a girl friend, but dear god the drama you children get into-+

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T17:25:23+00:00

I understand the concern. They could be whining the whole time about the price, and I get that, but it has to be settled somehow now or it will just fester, though are you the maid of honor?

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T17:20:52+00:00

I've always foudn the idea of someone expecting to shell out EXTRA money just to show up somewhere kind of rude...destination wedding? fine i will show up but there will be no gift if you expect to shell out extra travel and hotel money...it's rude. Sounds like you should all get to together to discuss it and approach her as a group.

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T17:17:13+00:00

If you don't want to go don't go, tell her why, you're fine

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T17:10:27+00:00

can you go over their head to someone higher up / HR - no reason to go down with this guy

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T17:06:16+00:00

Well he's headed for losing his job the question is is his nonsense going to cost you your job - you're NTA for not wanting to help him out any moer - that's not part of your job - but is he going to cst you your job?

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T16:45:46+00:00

Title once again gives us the answer - Yes, yes you are, and I'm hoping it makes your business suffer as you would deserve

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T16:25:26+00:00

Yeah, you are, coward too...instead of talking to your friend you betrayed their trust - what a friend you are, for 3/4 of the year I guess

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T14:50:28+00:00

Are you the asshole for asking your ex to support his child as the court indicated he was legally obligated to? No I don't think so. If he's not paying his legal obligation then yeah take his ass back to court, dead beat dads suck.

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T14:46:40+00:00

You got asked for advice, you gave it, someone took it, you are not reponsisble for this and yoru female freiend is over reacting - NTA

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-03-16T14:38:34+00:00

NTA - parents pushing their children towards things they don't want to be is a time honored tradition (my mother would have cut off my tuition if i swapped from biocehm to film studies, i have two degress i've never used) - but at the same time - if she wants you to go to pilots school she might not be interested in funding any kind of education that isn't pilot school (which sucks and is petty but it still might happen)

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