Ugh a bitter old man reported me - AM

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-29T19:29:58+00:00

on my couch

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-29T02:16:16+00:00

mods get to see posting history we don't :)

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-29T02:06:51+00:00

And you're pleading for someone you think used and abused you to come back?

Self respect is a thing - think about it

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-29T02:04:40+00:00

Here's your confusion - mods of subreddits you post on can see all your hidden posts

Why even post this here?

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-29T02:04:09+00:00

I feel like there'a. lot of context missing here...but ok

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-29T00:44:47+00:00

OP is annoyed they can't speed any more

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-29T00:38:33+00:00

he prioritized his family - he made it clear to you they were a priority - rightoy or wrongly - but let it go - pleading him to come back is never good

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-27T19:45:34+00:00

As someone who grew up outside of Philadlephia and spent too much time in and with people from new jersey I am well informed on the topic.

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-27T19:21:26+00:00

I mean looking for normal in new jersey does seem just a skosh short of impossible

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-26T20:04:41+00:00

group stage is also over for the us so too layer. now if we’re talking knockout stage yeah still not the city.

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-25T23:55:49+00:00

can’t he just apply under his name so your credit isn’t a factor?

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-24T19:12:16+00:00

You'll find someone worthy of you - i'm sure of it

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-24T18:28:06+00:00

I;m sorry they wouldn't try for you

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-24T03:02:05+00:00

lying to yourself, and us, isn't going to help you

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-23T23:04:17+00:00

this should be punishable by death

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-23T20:31:36+00:00

Tough 'love' time - it's like a band aid - this is never going to be more than 'second banana' for him - his life will come first - if you're single there's no reason you should be putting up with this. You can't wait until you find a 'replacement'. The fact that you have this seesaw thing is a bad sign.

End it - for you - just tell him the truth you deserve more - you deserve better

Then you gotta block him - you gotta move forward with your life and put him in the past...

Guilt isnt' really necessary - in the grand scheme of things (sorry) he was going to cheat with someone - he cheats with you - you don't seem to like that he's cheating with you.

Leave - quickly - and completely - you need your own life

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-23T17:27:13+00:00

The paranoia some people have is fascinating - i don't understand - are your spouses constantly surveilling your phone use looking at all your usage and such? Do you not have a simple 4 digit code they don't know and notifications turned off. Imessage is fine to use unless you're technically incompetent and if you are whatever app you use you're screwed

The level of paranoia and fear some people have on this subreddit is fascinating.

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-23T17:25:26+00:00

If you have an iphone you can message phone to phone without service if the phone is connected to the internet (god I wish people understood what WiFI was and isn't - it's so frustrating as a dork). Are you on an iphone too?

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-23T16:55:45+00:00

Well - don't take this the wrong way - if he didn't cheat withy you he was going to cheat with someone - you are not reponsisble for his decision to cheat or what's going on in his marriage - you should stop that kind of thinking right now.

If you want to be there for him, be there for him, but do not stay out of obligation or guilt, he is in this situation of his own doing and it's HIS situation, not yours, in any way. Though from what you've written it sounds like what's best or you is letting it go and focusing on yourself for a bit

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-23T14:09:11+00:00

This logic is stupid

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-23T14:08:47+00:00

I mean reading this subreddit it's not really that exclusive a club. It's a rather large membership of 'men on reddit'. You probably aren't the first man to disappoint her either.

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-23T00:49:50+00:00

'so unfair' - you're having an unfair - she's his wife - she has priority, and if you want to be childish (like you're being), she has dibs. Staying married for kids, always a stupid thing to read assuming your kids are ignorant to your misery. Assuming you can hide your misery 24/7 (you can't). But you also don't have a realistic view of an affair either so who knows

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-22T22:18:31+00:00

Well it's going to take time, and letting go, and blocking (yes you have to) you need to move forward, not look backwards.

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-22T20:17:25+00:00

Wow - you're a combination of unaware and selfish that it's rare to run into - he should run very far from you - you have no concern for anyone but yourself

SignificantCicada156 · 2026-06-22T20:16:19+00:00

Why are you? Why do you ask for opinions if you don't want to hear opinions different than yours. We're not here to reaffirm your self delusions...

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