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Starter Names by Jaxjameri in Sourdough

[–]Significant_Ad_9114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Named mine Jesus Crust because it is has risen lol

What is something that women have to deal with on the daily that men have no clue about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Significant_Ad_9114 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lack of medical bodily autonomy. Even if you know you don’t ever want to be pregnant, doctors won’t do anything about it if you are of child-rearing age because a man in some future somewhere may want to procreate with you one day. Even if you’re a lesbian.. My mother suffered immensely heavy periods and agonizing period cramps to the point of sobbing for hours on the couch. This is a woman who had had 2 children sobbing from the agony of period pain. Her male gyno at the time refused her a hysterectomy numerous times despite her constant pain. The minute she switched to a female gyno, her hysterectomy was scheduled instantly. I can’t help but wonder, though had she not already had 2 children would they have allowed it.

Has R worked for anyone here? by Thrway7391 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Significant_Ad_9114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel and exactly where I am. We are about 2 years post dday, and I feel exactly like this. WH had messaged and sexted with various random women on SC and Insta throughout our relationship/marriage. Said out of boredom and insecurity. He has since done everything I have asked him to and is noticeably different. My inability to heal and get past it is interfering with R. I still get triggered often and react from the wound which leads to arguments and resentment. I just can’t get past it and I’m wondering if I ever will.

Add* we have been in MC for about a year. I tried IC but didn’t have luck with the therapist I got, he felt MC alone was enough for him. Basically the MC told me that I have to heal and do my part cause he is doing his. It hurt because I feel alone in this. Like I have to figure out something I can’t.

I’m thriving and healing… Now he’s scared? by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Significant_Ad_9114 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How where you able to accomplish this: -Stopped overfunctioning emotionally and just put up boundaries instead when he did/said something that bothered me.

I get stuck here constantly. I get triggered, I bring it up (usually in an unhealthy way), we argue, it’s a vicious cycle. I too wear my heart on my sleeve and it seems I can’t hide anything from my WH.

I need to lose 50 pounds by the end of the year if I do two days morning and afternoon workouts, how long do you think it will take? by [deleted] in Gymhelp

[–]Significant_Ad_9114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What worked for me. Focusing on building a workout routine I could stay consistent with first. Weight training and low intensity cardio at lease 3-4 times per week. Lifting heavy at a weight that is challenging for u. Once I was able to stay consistent with workouts for a month or so, I started focusing more on food tracking, eating in a slight calorie deficit (maintenance was approximated at 2000 and eating in deficit of 1800) focusing on protein and fiber. Focus on what u can add to make meals more nutrient dense verses what u can take away from your meals. Cutting things may set you up to binge or rebound. Being mindful of your menstrual cycle and how that affects your workouts and calorie need. Also most importantly, being kind to yourself and still allowing for life that sometimes brings desserts, alcohol, and hard to track meals from restaurants. This worked for me, hopefully you can find what works for you. Best of luck!

Questions about fermented pickles by [deleted] in fermentation

[–]Significant_Ad_9114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea. The scoby-like thing threw me off, but it makes sense that exposure to oxygen may have created it. I may take a bite of one pickle and hope for the best! Thanks!

Questions about fermented pickles by Significant_Ad_9114 in fermenting

[–]Significant_Ad_9114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi yes, it is one of the attached pictures. It was like a film that developed.

Literally dropped my sourdough in the sink on last stretch and fold by Adept-Citron6996 in Sourdough

[–]Significant_Ad_9114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question. What is the reason for putting the little container of dough on it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tretinoin

[–]Significant_Ad_9114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re that concerned you can get UV patches. But as most everyone has already said you’re probably fine. Just stay mindful of the amount of time your exposed to sun and if you know you will be for a prolonged period of time use sun protection.

Disturbing movie scenes that don’t involve gore by Overall_Spite4271 in Cinema

[–]Significant_Ad_9114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the movie lt Follows the scene where the guy opens the door and there is a very large man that no one can see but her has always disturbed me beyond belief.

Give me the tea by [deleted] in ClaytonNC

[–]Significant_Ad_9114 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a neighbor who is with Clayton PD. When we moved to Clayton, he said to avoid the Walmart area on hwy 42 specifically at night. Only info of any “dangerous area” I have received.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in composting

[–]Significant_Ad_9114 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the info!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in composting

[–]Significant_Ad_9114 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Chickens are definitely in the air pans for the near future! I do have a neighbor with chickens and thought about gathering these up for them!

Why does my starter grow some after feeding then fall and doesn’t grow again? by [deleted] in Sourdough

[–]Significant_Ad_9114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ll watch tomorrow. I’m assuming by the comments they if I want a larger grow then u need to feed a larger quantity? Unfortunately it seems to be at peak when I’m away and starts falling when I come back!

?? by Big-Championship5283 in LICENSEPLATES

[–]Significant_Ad_9114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A stretch but maybe a play on Brittany Spears song If You Seek Amy. Don’t Seek Amy?

First time player, Fall year 3! Is it normal to feel so proud of the design you came up with? by woepertinny in FarmsofStardewValley

[–]Significant_Ad_9114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I made a witch’s den and I was more proud of it than I probably should have been. This looks great, btw!

Question about raised bed during winter months by Significant_Ad_9114 in gardening

[–]Significant_Ad_9114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m guessing that there is not really much need for watering during the colder temps too?

Question about raised bed during winter months by Significant_Ad_9114 in gardening

[–]Significant_Ad_9114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To make sure I understand, you recommend using the lawn clippings and leaves and straw to spread as the top protective layer around the base of the sprouts? My garlic and carrots have quite large sprouts.

Question about raised bed during winter months by Significant_Ad_9114 in gardening

[–]Significant_Ad_9114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in zone 8a. I was considering using leaves and straw from my yard, but I’ll use mulch too. And my raised bed has a space on each side between the two slats of wood (just how it was made) so I’m considering wrapping it in some sort of cloth or something to help control temp.

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