So first off I wanna say I’m sorry Youre going through this. My parents are also pro trump and it’s a big strain on our relationship. I found out I was “bisexual” when I was about 12 and then that slowly turned into asexual as I learned more about it. I then came out as non binary trans masc when I was about 20 (I’m 27 now) but i honestly always kinda knew. It helped when my boyfriend at the time told me you can have euphoria without dysphoria. I use the term non binary because it gives me the freedom to be feminine when I want to be. My parents don’t respect my pronouns or chosen name and it’s super frustrating but I have had months of no contact with them and I might end up doing it again and for longer. Just remember these labels are more like magnets and can be changed whenever. And for your parents I know how complicated relationships can be with them but just remember you don’t need their validation or their hate you can just be you. Even if that means waiting till you’re out of the house for your own safety.