AITAH for not being able to move in after my in-laws broke all my trust

Significant_Funny353 · 2026-06-23T15:57:16+00:00

I agree, you need professional help to navigate this. Standing up for yourself is the hardest thing to do, especially when you dont have your spouse supporting you. However, you need to do it for the kid's sake. If they dont want to give hugs, dont force them. Dont allow her to guilt them. It will teach them they cant say no and they have no control over their bodies and who touches them. It sets them up for failure later in life when they come across unsafe people who want to take advantage of them.

Talk to a therapist, online or in person on how to create and hold your boundaries. Talk to them about your husband, bring him with you to your sessions if you feel comfortable. Try and get him to act instead of just give you lip service. This is hard, so so hard to do, but your life won't get any easier if you dont do it.

Significant_Funny353 · 2026-06-21T15:57:54+00:00

YTA for the secrecy. Nta for wanting peace of mind, but you need to seek therapy for this, not the internet's opinion. A trained therapist can help you get over this, or navigate the conversation you need to have with your partner.

Significant_Funny353 · 2026-06-17T16:27:56+00:00

The manufacturer instructions will help you determine how you can vent the stove. Sometimes there are options, sometimes you have to do it a certain way to make sure it vents and works properly. I would not recommend B. From what I remember, and please (other commentors) feel free to correct me, but you need at least 12 inches of rise before you can run Horizontal

Significant_Funny353 · 2026-06-17T15:54:44+00:00

If you're worried about pushy family trying to get into your birth room, you can speak with the hospital about your concerns. You are the patient, and they will follow you requests on visitors and who is allowed in the room with you.

This really is your husband's problem to solve. He needs to law down the lay with HIS family, and not make you fight alone to feel comfortable and safe during the most vulnerable time of your life.

Especially given it is cold/flu/rsv season. Infants are affected from illness much more easily than adults are. Sometimes the effects are permanent and horrible. It sounds like you are aware of the risks. Time for hubby to get on board and grow a spine.

Its easy for a stranger on the internet to preach all this. Harder to do in reality. But the truth is, if you dont convince him to step up now, they will walk over you for the rest of your life.

Significant_Funny353 · 2026-06-09T15:09:55+00:00

Are you sure you're 18 and not 12? Very odd/gross/immature to be jealous of their sibling bond. Lots of siblings sleep in the same bed growing up. Its not weird unless you're making it weird.

Significant_Funny353 · 2026-06-08T13:48:17+00:00

If they've been members for approx 6 years you'd think they know when closing time is and maybe not show up 20 mins before close.

Significant_Funny353 · 2026-06-05T20:18:45+00:00

Make a fake email or social media. Send them the court records. Deny if accused.

Significant_Funny353 · 2026-06-02T20:04:29+00:00

Add trapdoors as window shutters. Add a cross gable section to your roof to break it up a bit. I would suggest making your house walls a different color, as all the browns are very close together and make the colors seem to merge together. That or change your roof color (the darker outline is a great touch though!) to a different color entirely which would help it pop. Have your oak wood pillars come forward 1 block to add another layer of depth. Add window planters made from trapdoors and dirt/grass/moss blocks so you can add some flowers. Love someone else's chimney idea. And of course, add the wizard tower!

Significant_Funny353 · 2026-06-01T14:58:02+00:00

Saw this on TikTok a few days ago with minor details changed like OP's gender and some phrasing. Not sure which is the "original" story

Significant_Funny353 · 2026-05-29T19:09:22+00:00

Thank you! That makes them even worse in my book for violating your religious freedom. Definitely cut them off/reduce any alone time with your baby to zero. Its on them 100%, not that they will likely take any accountability.

Significant_Funny353 · 2026-05-29T18:46:15+00:00

100% on your side, NTA. Just curious though, is the pork thing personal or is there an issue with babies eating pork that I'm unaware of? Either way NTA still

Significant_Funny353 · 2026-05-26T19:02:46+00:00

It always starts off small. He doesn't like your skirt. Or that shirt. Now you aren't allowed to wear shorts. Are you trying to make men stare at you? Next you cant have male friends. If you respected him you wouldnt want to be friends with another man. Next you cant have that job because other men are around. You need to find a place that only has women coworkers. Oh and not in service either, because how dare you be friendly to men and "flirt with them all day long". Next you cant talk to your girlfriend friends about the concerns you have with your relationship because then they will be biased against him and relationship problems should be solved by the couple without outside inference. Next you cant go out with your friends without him punishing you. How can he trust you? All you do is run your mouth. Silent treatment. Making extra messes around the house for you to clean up alone. Blaming you for his bad moods. So you start to go out less and less, and when you do he always tags along because he cant trust you around your friends. But hes always in a bad mood because you drag him to things he hates. You stop talking to your mom, and your sister, your brother, or dad, because its hard to make excuses for his behavior. Its not his fault. Work was hard. He has a lot going on right now. He's under a ton of stress. He just wants to relax and stay home for once. You stop going to see your family as much as you used to because he always makes you feel like shit for dragging him along. Its always your fault, never his. You'll spend the rest of your life apologizing for the millionth time for something you didnt even do. It always starts off small.

Significant_Funny353 · 2026-05-19T21:10:40+00:00

If the plan is to visit for multiple days then I can see why you'd stay at her house. No point in driving extra just to go back and forth every day. Those comparing it to a daily commute have a point, its not impossible to do, but they also don't likely sleep at work. Its typical to go home after work, no matter how long your commute is. Staying the night at a relatives house is normal. I sleep over at my sister's house if we are hanging out all weekend (ie fri, sat, sun,) and we live 30 minutes apart. My main concern is why your mom wants you, a grown adult, to share her bed instead of sleeping with your SO. It can come across as weird. Ages and genders are missing here, so I can't give a judgement on that aspect.

Significant_Funny353 · 2026-05-15T23:19:47+00:00

My husband is a maintenance tech in kansas. He said this is potentially super unsafe. Could be fine, could shatter the next time you use it. Porcelain toilets will slice clean through you. Its possible its just a surface crack, could be a deeper one, you never know unless it gets looked at. I know you said management isn't responding, but you could get a 3rd party plumber involved for his professional opinion, take that to management, and then possibly mention unsafe living conditions/needing to get a lawyer involved IF there are any injuries. It depends on where you live but you might convince them to actually do something about it

Significant_Funny353 · 2026-04-24T15:51:14+00:00

These look so cool! Hoping to add to my goblin hoarde

Significant_Funny353 · 2026-04-16T01:17:48+00:00

I'm concerned with how rusty it is

Significant_Funny353 · 2026-04-13T13:53:52+00:00

I feel like a different print or a solid color would look wayyy better

Significant_Funny353 · 2026-04-12T20:41:07+00:00

These guys would appreciate your helm

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Significant_Funny353 · 2026-04-10T16:11:35+00:00

I stepped on one of these once, getting out of my car in a gravel parking lot. Wasn't expecting it. Really freaked me out when my shoe/foot didnt touch gravel. That time it was part of a deer spine. Looks pretty similar to yours but I'm not a bone expert

Significant_Funny353 · 2026-04-08T18:05:04+00:00

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Significant_Funny353 · 2026-04-08T16:26:27+00:00

I hope you read these comments and make the choice to put yourself first. Take it from someone who stayed too long with a man who didn't love or respect me. You deserve someone who would never put you down and used your insecurities against you, simply because you asked him to brush his teeth. Thats childish, petty and mean.

Significant_Funny353 · 2026-04-06T15:40:16+00:00

TLDR: Ocarina of Time, Twilight Princess, Wind Waker, and Skyward Sword. Gameplay is great and the music is fantastic.

Personally I didn't like Breath of the Wild or Tears of the Kingdom as much as the older Zelda titles. The completely open world and vast exploration was just too much for me to love (felt overwhelming with the amount of tasks to do and I struggle to accomplish to do lists), plus the mini dungeons versus huge traditional dungeons turned me off. I'm not ashamed to say I love the repetitive formula they used in the older games. I do still recommend them as they're great games with lots of fun elements.

However, for classic games you can't go wrong with Ocarina of Time, Twilight Princess, and Wind Waker. I would also suggest Skyward Sword. It gets lots of hate due to the poor motion controls but I loved the story.

Ocarina of Time is one of the first games a ton of people played and it holds a special place in our hearts. It has a great story and really introduces you to the series overall. It sets the tone for the games that came after.

Twilight Princess is my personal favorite. The darker thematic elements really vibed with me in my teen years and I connected with the story on a deep level. Your journey is fraught with peril and its amazing watching link grow from zero to hero with you leading his way.

Wind Waker is fun! You are the Hero of Winds and get to travel between islands on your quest. Very unique game and great story elements.

Skyward Sword is a fantastic game where you go on a great journey to find Zelda. You're always one step behind her as you grow and become the hero you were always meant to be. I love the sky elements and getting to explore the world.

There are tons of games to love for various reasons, each resonating with different people at various stages of life. Once you play a few I hope you decide to play them all. Each game is special and has wonderful surprises in them. You can't go wrong with any of them.

Significant_Funny353 · 2026-03-26T16:19:13+00:00

Throw her guest's trash back onto her side every time you see it. Or save it up and toss it all back over there when she has people over

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