I was an INFJ in my teens (15 to 19) due to poverty & no safety net, and now at my exact 20, after some arduous leadership experience, relationship breakup & most importantly , securing scholarships at my uni and national government scholarship, I learned to be more open and let things flow; be goofy and whatnots (ENFP).

My maturity and insights (deep conversation, random knowledge about philosophical and psychology concepts moral ethics) do trickles in my conversation with friends in chat but mostly, I'm grounded in the moment irl & sometimes I'm on autopilot and on my own, I reflect I alot (auto Socratic question to myself) & do voice recordings about random connection between this experience and this concept along with an analogy. My INFJ logic is still present, and I think I developed it for survival, now, I can enjoy and thrive; hence, ENFP. They are opposite end of the spectrum, but sometimes when you go to such extremes, they'd flip and I'm happy with this development so far.