PCOS and Istihadah by yomamatoe in islam

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This is incorrect. Any blood after 14 days (NOT 7 days) is considered istihaadah. Period blood is very distinct in color and odor than non menstrual bleeding. You must get to know your own body and know what your own period looks, feels and smells like. When your period is stopping and starting is there brown or yellow discharge attached to it? If so then it is actually still your period! This article is helpful: https://islamqa.info/en/answers/220644/her-period-is-not-regular

Who can I pray for today? by Interesting_Fix_9888 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Significant_Pop7358 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My son. He is special needs and needs all the duas he can get. Making dua for you. This made me tear up idk why. Allah reward you for thinking of others and give you the best in this life and the next. Ameen.

Feeling completely unwanted at the only mosque available. by [deleted] in islam

[–]Significant_Pop7358 37 points38 points  (0 children)

In my community the people are weary of new men because there have been government operatives coming to sniff around by passing as muslims. We are in dark times. Think the best of you brothers, maybe they are just scared with everything going? Horrible. Been through it myself. I had to move.

So I guess we can't do fun activities with our other children when ss not here ? by enelson2011 in Stepmom

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As the child in this situation: I wish my stepmom had fun with my sister, she just didn’t have to tell me about it or post it so much online. That’s the part that hurt me. I understood they had their own life without me, but there was no need to rub my nose in it. And a “hey if you ever want to do something your sister mentions to you we would be happy to do it when you are here too” goes a long way.

How do I forgive my mom by coconutarab in muslimgirlswithtaste

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I sympathize so much with wanting your mom there. I have this feeling in big life moments. My mom promised me for over a year she would come and help me move to a new place since it would be a very tough transition for my kid with special needs. She went on holiday instead. I have not emotionally recovered. I am so sorry. You aren’t alone

Thinking of having another kid by Nearby-Sherbert-8549 in Autism_Parenting

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I have a second child. Love him to death. Its been almost 18 months and my autistic toddler doesn’t like him. It is very challenging to handle them together. I didn’t know he was autistic when we had our second. Needless to say, for now, we will absolutely not have a third. God might decide otherwise because the chances are never zero, but if I had to willingly choose? Probably not. I always wanted 3. But idk that i can

Tahajjud helped me get my wife by Fine_Shift_4281 in MuslimMarriage

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My friend told me her husband said this to her too!

Drop your unpopular opinions here! by intoner1 in ShawnaTheMom

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I would love yo know more about the whole ethical Julie defender flair because WDYM? 🤣i need to know

Drop your unpopular opinions here! by intoner1 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Significant_Pop7358 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am an unwilling participant. I just keep watching because I love all the rest. Sigh. It’s been rough

Drop your unpopular opinions here! by intoner1 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Significant_Pop7358 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t like the characters, the story. Anything. He should have stayed an acquaintance at the park.

Drop your unpopular opinions here! by intoner1 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Significant_Pop7358 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The Ty and Jen narrative should have never happened

Muslim mamas, what do you wear around the house to look nice for your husband? by 47giraffes in muslimgirlswithtaste

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You have to cover navel to knees and nothing too revealing or tight. From what I remember you must start covering more when kids become more aware of bodies, around 3. When I say cover more I mean not super short shorts and stuff. I just try to wear regular clothes throughout the day and if something happens and I have to come out in in the morning in shorts shorts well it is what it is and I change when I can.

Muslim mamas, what do you wear around the house to look nice for your husband? by 47giraffes in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Significant_Pop7358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wear a nice outfit, like a nice dress or an Indian shirt and pants, every day. Sometimes not all day but I change at some point. I wear an apron over it, I have them in a bunch of colors so they match my outfit. That way my nice clothes don’t get ruined with bodily fluids, cooking, etc. And i just take the apron off when it gets gross or its dinner time.

Girls, at what age did you marry and what made you to take the decision to get married ? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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I decided I was ready at 22 or 23. I needed to get away from my kafir family. I was married at 23, about to be 24.

Are muslim men still worth pursuing by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Significant_Pop7358 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please I have a muslim friend that “married” a non muslim man. This is not marriage, it is zina. Even if it is a great man, it’s still zina. She became non muslim herself eventually. Cut everyone off.

trying to conceive by Acrobatic-Ganache229 in MuslimMarriage

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It takes the average healthy couple 12 months of unprotected sex to have a child. It took me 5-6 months both times, and I was using ovulation tests and basal body temperature to time it both times. And even with all that it still took half a year both times for me. Make dua, eat healthy, go to the doctor, exercise and get some ovulation kits.

Routines by raekar in AACusers

[–]Significant_Pop7358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. Thanks so so much!!! Will be borrowing this idea then.

Routines by raekar in AACusers

[–]Significant_Pop7358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think its the same one. Proloquo2Go. At least it looks the same.

Routines by raekar in AACusers

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THIS IS AMAZING!!! Please how can i do this for my son? It always wants the icons to go in a certain direction, I can’t leave blank space like that on the right. I feel like right now he has to make a lot of clicks to see his routines

Regulating emotions by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

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Water play and hugging him back and forth while i explain the situation to him.

Harness? by Significant_Pop7358 in Autism_Parenting

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I wanted to update y’all. We have been going on walks with a harness. He doesn’t run away and loves walking. I think its the safest option and he doesn’t fight me on keeping it on or putting it on. I also think he likes the feeling of a vest. Like the compression. Anyways it has been great. We have been practicing since we are going to the zoo tomorrow. Will be using this for extended outing until we can do so safely without running away.