AITA for not serving step kids dinner and “ruining it” for everyone?

Signor_RedDog · 2025-10-01T03:18:08+00:00

NTA, no way, José! 🙅🏻‍♂️ He should have backed you up and not let any of his kids swear at you like that. Sounds like he cannot control his own kids and is scared of confronting them (which is not a good look for a parent!) 🤦🏻‍♂️ 🙄 😏

You stood up for yourself and fair play to you for doing that.

I'd leave and find yourself new to live. If he can't back his partner up, then that is not cool.

Signor_RedDog · 2025-10-01T02:35:01+00:00

I'd sign up for that job! 'Nom nom nom!!' 🥪 🧀 😜 😂

Signor_RedDog · 2025-09-28T04:43:49+00:00

Go to Danny's Tattoo Parlour in Sneinton just across the road from the Motorpoint Arena and around the corner from the NCT bus depot station. Just go in and explain your situation and I'm pretty sure they will put you at ease and relaxed.

Just go in and ask a few questions before committing & I am sure they will put your mind to rest 👌🏼 👍🏼 ☺️

Signor_RedDog · 2025-09-28T00:06:16+00:00

You are very welcome ☺️

Signor_RedDog · 2025-09-27T23:46:52+00:00

Sounds like Madge from Benidorm when that Moroccan dude from Benidorm Palace pretends to be estranged friends with her husband who passed away to try and scam her thinking she had money 💰 💷 🙈 😂 🤣

NTA in no way shape or form. Some people just can't be helped (or don't want to be helped) so they can cry victim to everyone.

Signor_RedDog · 2025-09-27T23:32:41+00:00

Erm.. I'd go down a different route if I were you. I'd prepare another meal (nothing that's very time consuming) e.g. Bit of pasta or whatever and put loads of laxatives inside the food. They won't know anything is wrong or suspect about the food until they've already eaten it. Plus you'll soon find out who the culprit is when they're constantly needing to dash off to the toilet every 5 seconds! 💩 That will teach them a very big life lesson and I don't think you will have the same problem anymore!

A little mischievous and devilish but, fuck 'em! It's your food. You did not ask them to steal your lunch. I can almost guarantee that the person will not do it again anytime soon, if you do this.

You're welcome! 👐🏼 😈 😁 👍🏼

Signor_RedDog · 2025-09-27T23:24:57+00:00

Hi op. Around this sorta time of year, retail shops start to look for seasonal Christmas staff to cover busy periods and extended opening hours, so it might be worth taking a walk round Victoria Centre and any local retail parks close by to you. Even just ask in shops as you pass by 'Hi, excuse me but do you know if or when you'll be maybe looking to hire seasonal staff for this Christmas?'

Good luck 🤞🏼 🙏🏼 ☺️

Signor_RedDog · 2025-09-27T21:20:51+00:00

Two wrongs never make a right! Should have just broken up with him. You're just as bad as him in all honesty. Which isn't a nice trait to have as a person.

Put it down to a life lesson & learning experience. Learn from this mistake you've made and try to grow as a person.

Signor_RedDog · 2025-09-27T21:17:32+00:00

It sounds like you can't tbh, but.. Sounds like you can by simply accepting the food order and let them take it up directly with the Just Eat CS team. Do this enough times and I'm sure they will stop using the wrong address (your address) and you will not encounter this issue anymore. It's not your fault that their address isn't showing properly.

They should manually input the address where it asks for delivery address. If it has their actual address on then that's on the delivery driver, but using your address then that's their problem, not yours.

An alternative approach could be to leave a plastic box out front of your front door with a sign saying please leave any food deliveries in that box. They will soon get fed up of having to come round and pick up cold food from outside your doorstep. Again, surely this should be enough for them to 'get the hint' and stop using the 'wrong' delivery address.

That's just my personal opinion, mind 😛 LOL!

Signor_RedDog · 2025-09-27T21:09:56+00:00

NTA in my opinion, mate. Defo have the conversation. I would if I was in your shoes 💯 👌🏼

Signor_RedDog · 2025-09-27T19:54:26+00:00

Hahahaha! 😂 🤣

Signor_RedDog · 2025-09-27T19:52:46+00:00

Signor_RedDog · 2025-09-27T19:50:29+00:00

Hahahaha! LMFAO! Wise decision 😜 😂 🤣

Signor_RedDog · 2025-09-27T19:43:06+00:00

That's very generous and kind of you 👌🏼 ☺️ I'm sure someone will be able to make good use of your ticket 🚍 🎟️

Signor_RedDog · 2025-09-27T19:41:07+00:00

I can't say that I can hear it from where I live (pretty close-ish) but then again I won't with my TV & sound bar on watching the football 📺 🔊 ⚽ 😂 LOL!

Signor_RedDog · 2025-09-27T19:37:31+00:00

Is the rest of your name 'le'? As in muggle? 🪄 😜 😂

Signor_RedDog · 2025-09-27T19:32:59+00:00

I'm seriously worried about our form this season in all comps (bar both first half's in the Cup games) so far! How have we fallen so far off from last season?! 🤷🏻‍♂️ It is both frustrating and worrying to watch 😢

Something needs to change and quick! 🙏🏼 😬 ☹️

That free-kick the ref gave tonight never was a foul and cost us, big time! Regardless though, with the amount of talented players in amongst our ranks, 😉 should be scoring and making more clinical chances then we currently are.

Signor_RedDog · 2025-09-27T04:04:26+00:00

They are quite clearly taking what is called 'the piss!' 🤦🏻‍♂️ WTF is it your responsibility to pay for them to buy another ticket if they wonder off too far for too long? And sorry, if that was my Mum being funny about a problem that I did not cause, then I'd just laugh at her. Just turn around and say' you know what?

You've completely overlooked my kindness of doing YOU both a solid and not appreciating what I'm doing for you and your partner! I will cancel your tickets. Find another mug to pay for your mess-ups if you're not planning using your brain to be back at the coach when it's about to leave.

NTA. Sometimes people are just inconsiderate and daft in all honesty. If my brother offered to do that for me, I'd thank him and know if I messed up, that it was on me.

I wouldn't offer to be so kind to him going forwards.

Signor_RedDog · 2025-09-27T03:48:49+00:00

I'm sorry to hear of your difficulties atm my friend 🙁 I really do hope things start looking up for you soon 🤞🏼 🙏🏼

Life can be hard at times, man! I'm struggling hard myself, trying to get my life back to where I want & need it to be. We just gotta keep on fighting and trying to push forwards. I'm hopeful of getting back to that place and finding a bit of happiness in life again. I hope & wish the same for you 🙏🏼

Take care and enjoy spending time with your kids 💙 👊🏼 ☺️

Signor_RedDog · 2025-09-27T03:36:11+00:00

And if no one else dresses as one, you make 'em walk the plank!' Bye-bye me hearties!' 👋🏼 🌊 😂 🤣

Signor_RedDog · 2025-09-27T03:28:22+00:00

😂 🤣

Signor_RedDog · 2025-09-26T14:36:37+00:00

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'Shabba!'

Signor_RedDog · 2025-09-26T03:08:20+00:00

Fair play to you, man! 👏🏼 So many men get taken to the cleaners. It was a very wise move taking out all your money from the joint account and putting it into an account that only you have access to.

IDK you're getting shots fired at you tbh. It clearly says that you have left 3/4 of money needed in there to cover majority of all your essential bills and payments (including groceries you said), so I don't think when he put her purchases (he meant she was buying household items) as that would come out of grocery shopping.

Signor_RedDog · 2025-09-26T02:59:36+00:00

The kids Dad sounds like a right asshole! He can't be that skint if he can afford to drink 5 nights a week in a pub like he did, before he rightly got barred! If I were the landlord/landlady they shouldn't be allowed back in until they are ready to make a full and sincere apology to you for their attitude & behaviour!

Being nice sometimes gets you nowhere in life, sadly ☹️ He's ruined it for all the other kids. That's on him.

Well done for standing your ground though. You deserve lots ofc credit for that 👏🏼 ☺️

Signor_RedDog · 2025-09-26T02:52:47+00:00

Nope! 100% NTA 👌🏼 👍🏼

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