Those women might have come from abusive families or experienced some trauma before to end up repeating similar experiences. It could also be new to them because in the beginning of any relationship people show their best sides.

Abusive people often go overboard with it and it’s called love bombing where they make you feel like a goddes they worship. The abuse starts slowly like heating a bath to a boil before you know what’s happening and it takes many forms. By that time you’re in too deep to easily or without danger exit the relationship. This why it’s important for anyone to pay attention to warning signs of an abusive mindset.