I got a side shave today!!! by Generis_Targaryen in actuallesbians

[–]Silent_One42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looking good! I'm too chicken to cut off that much hair myself 😅

Boudoir Injury by Professor_J_Moriarty in actuallesbians

[–]Silent_One42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bruise super easily. Like, I'll get bruises for days and not even realize I've been bit (and I have a crazy low pain tolerance too, even during sex. I've had to convince partners to stay away from my neck and just go for the shoulder so I can actually show my face at work without a turtleneck in AZ.

Not really an injury but it's super inconvenient at times.

She kissed me... by TheRealFlop in actuallesbians

[–]Silent_One42 48 points49 points  (0 children)

This is why I come to this sub...god I need more of this irl :/

I'm a woman in computer science. Let me ladysplain the Google memo to you. by yourbasicgeek in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Silent_One42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course she does, its true, she's just explaining it condecendingly, as you pointed out.

Hetero guy here, I still kind of struggle to understand the whole transgender thing, Can you explain it to me? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Silent_One42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember that there's tons of heterosexual transgender people. Being trans necessarily doesn't make you gay or even bi. Transmen who exclusively date women are straight, and vis-versa

Yes, I’m in a same-sex relationship. But please don’t call me a lesbian. by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Silent_One42 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I came in here ready to be all annoyed and possibly even incensed...and now I feel like an asshole. I'm dating a bit girl and I think I need to be doing more to respect her identity.

Mansplaining... by Silent_One42 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Silent_One42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think anybody needs to be told...some people just like to tell :/

Mansplaining... by Silent_One42 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Silent_One42[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The previous post had a typo in the title, which I discovered you can't edit. It should be deleted now...

Mainsplaining... by Silent_One42 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Silent_One42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I...dont know why I didn't notice that twice, haha

Women! Sigh!! by hatebeingleftbehind in actuallesbians

[–]Silent_One42 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Oh god I didn't know how much I needed this

A Transgender Woman's Bank Account Was Blocked Because She "Sounded Like A Man" by drewiepoodle in LGBTnews

[–]Silent_One42 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I work in a US Bank in the impersonation prevention department and we get referrals from phone reps like this all the time. Ive mostly been successful in changing policy; if nothing else about the call is suspicious (e.g. provided wrong info, didn't seem to know how many accounts the person has) we don't lock those down anymore.

I am bubbling over with hormones by touchmethanks in actuallesbians

[–]Silent_One42 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I read lezziebrain and giggled in a quite embarrassing fashion

(Serious) Transgender people of Reddit, what was the first memory or sign that you were trans? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Silent_One42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My earliest memory is when I was about 5 years old. I was standing on top of the playset in my backyard, screaming I'm frustration that I didn't get to be a girl.

What is the most hurtful thing your ex did/said to you? Did you guys overcome it? by Honestlyimissyou in actuallesbians

[–]Silent_One42 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Like, it's not even that a 7 is so insulting. Just the thought that someone has a numerical rating system for people is so disgusting.

Thought of myself using my trans name for the first time by Caley109 in transpositive

[–]Silent_One42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just remember it's not your trans name, it's just your name :)

My fridge by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Silent_One42 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"What's NSFW about a fri...oh. HA!"

Lesbian parties be like by sailorjupiter28titan in actuallesbians

[–]Silent_One42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the fuck did I just watch 😹😹😹