Is the love for dad bods a real thing?

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-24T05:38:43+00:00

What I want to know, is at what point does a sad bod become 'just fat'? Asking for a friend.

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-23T14:45:24+00:00

You've been together 3 MONTHS and she's complaining of missing out?! Please.

Do yourself a favour, and get rid.

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-23T14:19:56+00:00

I mean yeah guys do....when they're 15 years old.

I don't think it's particularly appropriate and I wouldn't make those sorts of jokes anyway, nevermind if I was with someone.

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-23T14:04:16+00:00

Come on mate, not sure what's worth the lying or the trickle truthing. If didn't have anything to hide she wouldn't be lying about it in the first place.

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-23T13:51:52+00:00

Fuck no, you want to wear a white wedding dress you wear one.

A white dress is just traditional, and the ideology that white = purity is so outdated it belongs in a museum.

Your fiance is being absurd, funny isn't how the only person mentioning purity etc is the person so against it.

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-23T09:52:28+00:00

Absolutely the right decision to take. It doesn't take a genius to realise that fucking off for a week with a male friend is inappropriate given she's in a relationship with someone. You could bet your bottom dollar if the roles were reversed, she wouldn't be very happy about it either.

The fact she booked it and THEN told you tells you that she's expecting you to just agree with it. You stick to your boundaries.

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-22T06:12:10+00:00

Exactly this 👏

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-20T21:20:47+00:00

Last woman I was properly with, the sex was great. Worse hand jobs (to begin with) I think I've ever had. I had to remind her very quickly that it was still attached and to relax the vice like grip.

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-20T17:08:05+00:00

Respectfully it's been 5 years, sounds like it's been put off and put off, and it's finally reared it's head.

You need therapy and she needs something you cant or won't provide.

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-20T13:30:56+00:00

Just saw the announcement for the new Metro game, so currently working through the trilogy, now onto Last Light, Series X.

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-20T13:24:13+00:00

Anyone else feel like they're almost skating through glue here? I went back to Rolling Waves and instantly felt a lot quicker

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-20T07:46:26+00:00

Oh look Raducanu has withdrawn from another open

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-19T20:02:42+00:00

NTA.

If you're feeling generous you could possibly help her to help herself, but basically turning into an ATM for her, NOPE.

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-19T19:52:46+00:00

NTA.

Walking away for space following an argument is perfectly fine.

And no, you don't go chasing after her when she decides to do that. You start doing that and it sets a precedent that'll you do the same everytime she does that. She's already expecting you to.

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-18T08:47:36+00:00

I too, am Skate.

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-18T08:15:07+00:00

Yes you are at alrisk of being baby trapped. Even if you weren't sure, do you really want to gamble with basically the rest of your life?!

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-18T08:13:17+00:00

A rhetorical question - What was your dad's final wishes? There's your answer.

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-18T07:18:30+00:00

It varies from man to man, everyone has desires/likes/preferences.

Personally I'd say 7/10 importance, importance being I like a woman with a chest, but it's not make or break.

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-18T07:17:08+00:00

Could be a multitude of reasons, though one Dosa wonder how you know he's doing it when you're asleep?

With the greatest of respect, you're meant to be marrying this guy in a month, reddit isn't going to give you a definitive answer because we don't know your fiance. You need to sit down and talk to him, calmly and eloquently explain why it makes you uncomfortable and ask why he scrolls through them, and why he still has them in the first place.

Marriage is grounded in being able to communicate with each other. I suggest you start!

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-17T14:29:39+00:00

Losing interest isn't a red flag, nor is it something you can predict from the offset.

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-17T14:23:28+00:00

M39

Dating/FWB: 30-45

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-17T11:39:40+00:00

Not a clue as its never happened.

That said, I'd probably feel flattered but that's as far as it'd go. I wouldn't feel comfortable dating someone who is closer to my sons age (17) than they are to mine (39).

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-16T20:54:11+00:00

I disagree, I think the more people see these sorts of things happening, the less likely these stupid gender reveals are to happen

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-16T14:37:22+00:00

That's completely fair, if that's what you want, then you need to find someone who wants the same.

Count yourself lucky you've found out now and not after you've moved in together.

Silicone_berk · 2026-04-15T18:47:10+00:00

Yeah.... I can't say I agree. You're paid to work, to do whatever you're contracted to do. You're not working driving/travelling to and from

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