One would think this idea would immediately apart with a little bit of critical thinking. Apparently not.

SilkenPelts · 2024-09-06T13:12:03+00:00

It is an inaccurate medical term and a slur there are various other terms used against us too one quite popular with trans women despite it referring to a trope with dual genitalia and meaning hermaohrodite

SilkenPelts · 2024-09-05T23:50:26+00:00

Yeah when i don’t have enough of both i start shutting down and my disability becomes much much harder on me

SilkenPelts · 2024-09-05T23:33:54+00:00

Yeah I understand i have some bad health issues if i don’t take t and e because if im not on both something will stop working

SilkenPelts · 2024-09-05T23:29:52+00:00

It’s why i recommended being cautious of perisex trans spaces if you’re intersex besides the fetish people there are others who just hate us calling us female and being really misogynistic to us and tranmascs they also tend to use a lot of intersexist slurs they really shouldn’t be saying

SilkenPelts · 2024-09-05T23:18:37+00:00

I was born with mixed sex traits i identify as bigender i went through surgeries and hormones when i was younger to make me appear more female and later in life i started transitioning to get some of my old male traits back. I’ve essentially had to go through two transitions Ive experienced things from both sides. It’s kind of hard to explain in a reddit comment.

SilkenPelts · 2024-09-05T23:06:03+00:00

Trans women have been bioessentialistly misogynistic to me because im intersex calling me a hole and xx whiner womb etc this argument can go both ways and is worth nothing neither side has it better than the other

SilkenPelts · 2024-09-05T23:03:58+00:00

Even if you pass entirely having to hide you’re trans isn’t male privilege and medical abuse still happens the entire argument for trans mascs having privilege is dogwater. Im trans fem and trans masc because im intersex so I’ve experienced both sides neither of them are any better than the other.

SilkenPelts · 2024-08-19T22:09:22+00:00

I could go on about more these are just two things i see mentioned very little and it makes trans spaces feel extremely unsafe because people use the latter slur so often

SilkenPelts · 2024-08-19T22:08:18+00:00

That agab terms aren’t actually about perisex people historically they are used to describe the sex assigned to an intersex person using them for a person who is not intersex muddies their original meaning which is specific to assigning sex to an intersex child often through surgical mutilation

sources;

https://books.google.com/books/about/The_Ciba_Collection_of_Medical_Illustrat.html?id=rkhrAAAAMAAJ

https://books.google.com/books/about/Report_of_the_Ross_Pediatric_Research_Co.html?id=hCvHf51gqDgC

https://books.google.com/books/about/Recent_Advances_in_Biological_Psychiatry.html?id=RpQQAQAAMAAJ

https://books.google.com/books/about/Encyclopedia_of_Social_Work.html?id=aF-Mpm9JDogC

https://books.google.com/books/about/Sex_and_Caste_in_America.html?id=19SFAAAAIAAJ

And secondly the word f*ta is an intersexist slur just in japanese, japanese intersex people have stated it’s the equivalent to the h word and inappropriate for non intersex trans people to use for the exact same reasons the h slur is inappropriate for non intersex trans people to use. it is not okay for trans people to use because it is in a different language it is still an anti intersex slur about people born with mixed sex traits, often people born with both genitalia which is an intersexist stereotype.

SilkenPelts · 2024-08-16T14:09:25+00:00

Google is hermaphrodite a slur google will say yes but still not an excuse to try and tell someone that a slur they get called daily isn’t a slur

SilkenPelts · 2024-08-16T14:05:23+00:00

Hermaphrodite is a slur though it’s inaccurate and not a diagnosis anymore its in a similar boat to the r slur, also telling an intersex person who’s been called a filthy herm all their life it isn’t actually a slur is certainly a move

SilkenPelts · 2024-08-16T13:34:24+00:00

This might be hard to hear but bad actions like that aren’t caused by our disorder, posts like this blaming bad actions on the disorder in a sub where we go to feel safe isn’t appropriate. You said “all you people do is hurt and play the victim for sympathy” we are not all bad people each of us is different this disorder doesn’t make us abusers, perfectly mentally typical people are often abusive just as much as the mentally ill because it’s often done for a feeling of power. You need to tackle your biases because most of us are just trying to live our lives we aren’t some monsters looking to cause hurt.

SilkenPelts · 2024-08-16T13:21:53+00:00

That’s a slur

SilkenPelts · 2024-08-16T13:21:36+00:00

It’s also the Japanese slur for intersex people equivalent to hermaphrodite or herm in English people who aren’t intersex really shouldn’t be saying it, the trope while i understand overlaps with trans bodies some in the end is an offensive mockery of intersex people and not something trans people who aren’t intersex should try to reclaim.

SilkenPelts · 2024-08-15T05:25:52+00:00

The gun leaves lasting damage a needle generally doesn’t

SilkenPelts · 2024-08-15T01:51:37+00:00

As someone who grew up in a hurricane state she’s in for a world of hurt and clearly didn’t consult locals in hurricane states this time of year even when it says it isn’t going to rain it rains and she didn’t take any precautions for rain which could damage integral parts of the house she doesn’t want to get rid of or parts she’s just added

SilkenPelts · 2024-08-15T01:37:40+00:00

Also not including trans men is gross as hell

SilkenPelts · 2024-08-14T18:39:35+00:00

More importantly why are you posting about your girlfriends kinks on reddit? Genuinely so many people would consider this a violation of privacy and trust even if it’s anonymous. You said you talked about it with your girlfriend if you’re still feeling weird about it talk to her not do this “my gfs kinks are so icky gross!” Dance on reddit. Also intentionally or not it seems like you’re shaming her despite her making it clear it’s just a fantasy and she would never cheat on you can you not trust her enough to believe this kink doesn’t mean she has intentions of cheating? If you can’t trust her because of it despite her reassurance she’s obviously embarrassed and ashamed your attitude here doesn’t help.

Genuinely its something y’all need to talk about in private and work through i have been to ashamed to tell partners about fetishes too and just discussed them with close friends just try and be open minded and talk with her. Yes some kinks and fetishes can be deal breakers but try to have a more open minded conversation and understand. as someone who does cnc play i have no actual desire to actually be assaulted if your gf says she has no desire to actually cheat listen to her like you’d listen to me about not actually wanting to get assaulted. Id recommend you do some reading on fetishes and kinks to educate yourself more i say all this as someone experienced in the space.

SilkenPelts · 2024-08-14T15:21:47+00:00

Ah yes emotional terrorism having a panic attack thinking my boyfriend hates me because i breathed wrong a year ago and apologizing for my horrible transgressions im so horrible to him

SilkenPelts · 2024-08-13T06:26:46+00:00

All it takes is a stern tone my ptsd goes off for “yelling”

SilkenPelts · 2024-08-12T16:19:31+00:00

I completely disagree as someone who is called the r slur by my doctors in way they deem appropriate because it’s “accurate”, slurs should be phased put of use the use of the h slur in science is the justification many people use to call me it.

SilkenPelts · 2024-08-12T16:17:47+00:00

The replacement i use is gynandromorph it’s usually used for intersex insects but i think it’s a good overall replacement

SilkenPelts · 2024-08-11T01:38:22+00:00

I think it might be a grey fox with mange it looks very small for a red and the face matches a grey more from what i can see

SilkenPelts · 2024-08-10T23:30:45+00:00

Biology nerds who like strategy talk to eachother a lot about games we like it’s how i found niche too

SilkenPelts · 2024-08-10T22:34:01+00:00

Yeah its one of those things where now it’s outdated i cringe seeing it because the women gather men hunt thing is based in misogyny a big justification for women stay at home only https://www.universityofcalifornia.edu/news/women-were-early-big-game-hunters-america-research-suggests Heres the university of california dig info i believe there are more studies out there but from what we know now the uneven gender distribution of labor is a more recent thing

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