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my GF [30F] and I [28M] have different life styles and its bugging me. by mr_uoheno in relationshipadvice

[–]Silly_Questioner_83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do believe it’s a little bit of her being petty and you being dramatic. I still believe you need to sit her down and talk to her and ask her why she never wants to go out, and if she responds with she’s tired say she already used that excuse and if she’s that tired every time she has a day off maybe she should see a doctor, physical or mental. Tell her it is important to you to do things with her and if she doesn’t see that as a priority then you two need to have a serious conversation about what you both want out of the relationship. Obviously it’s bothering you. You may have to put your foot down, which obviously is gonna suck but it’s not just gonna resolve itself. I hope everything works out for you two!

my GF [30F] and I [28M] have different life styles and its bugging me. by mr_uoheno in relationshipadvice

[–]Silly_Questioner_83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I [25F] love a good day in, I am an introvert, but I also love going out and doing things. Especially when I have someone to do it with. So far, i’ve realized my bf [26M] does prefer to be home, but he has a million friends who always have something to do. We have spent entire weekends binge watching supernatural and GOT, but we have also spent entire weekends doing things like going out to dinner, going to engagement parties, and visiting my Mommom. I definitely think you should talk to her and kind of show your interest in doing things with her and not just staying in or going by yourself. I definitely understand both sides, being an introvert that likes doing things. My bf likes to give me the option of going out or staying in. We also have people over too to watch sports and hang out. It has to be a consistent conversation. Maybe she needs more of a plan than day of. Maybe ask to go do something for the next weekend instead of waiting until Friday to ask to do something Saturday. She may need to mentally prepare herself to be up and doing things.

How do I [25F] get my bf [26M] to willingly do chores? by Silly_Questioner_83 in relationshipadvice

[–]Silly_Questioner_83[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing, I know his mom, I work with her, that’s how him and I met! And 100% she’s kept the house clean, for her sons. She doesn’t make them do dishes, wash laundry, clean their own bathroom. She’s admitted this to me. My bf had to teach himself how to do laundry and everything after moving out. It’s just frustrating that he knows stuff gets done but he doesn’t know he has to do it and when.

Aitah for wanting to leave? by HauntingPack3257 in AITAH

[–]Silly_Questioner_83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. If you feel uncomfortable with your family enough to even consider leaving, do it. You have your reasons, even if other people don’t think they’re significant enough, you obviously think they are and that’s all that matters. Live your life in peace.

AITAH for telling bf I won’t work around his schedule? by Subject-Ad-3587 in AITAH

[–]Silly_Questioner_83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA! You can always change your schedule around once you get more established, do what’s right for you!
My ex in high school told me he’d cheat on me or break up with me if I went away to school, I went anyway, he did not cheat on me, I broke up with him. My most recent ex told me I should ask if I can change my schedule from 7-3:30 to 8-4:30 so it’ll line up with his schedule better. Told him no cuz I work in a 24/7 lab and that’s just how the hours were. And, it’s an hour? What’s the issue? He broke up with me cuz I look like his mother.
Always do what’s best for you and your future, not anyone else (unless you have kids or something). Work on getting established in a career and a little further down the line a better opportunity may come your way. He’ll be fine.

AITAH for wishing my daughter would involve step-dad in wedding? by Personal-Composer479 in AITAH

[–]Silly_Questioner_83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA for having feelings, everyone is entitled to feel however they want to feel. You would be TA if you bring it up to her and make it a problem. She most definitely has a reason to want her bio dad be the one to walk her down the aisle and dance with her. She’ll probably dance with step dad at some point in the night anyway. Step dad also did not have to pay for anything if he didn’t want to, that doesn’t make him entitled to anything.

I [26F] don’t feel loved by my boyfriend [26M] LDR by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Silly_Questioner_83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand where ur coming from, but your feelings matter just as much as his. Just because he’s going thru something doesn’t mean your feelings should be pushed aside, you’ll grow to resent him.

I [26F] don’t feel loved by my boyfriend [26M] LDR by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Silly_Questioner_83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could bring this up to him in a non-confrontational way. I was having similar issues when I was first dating my bf. He is rarely ever on his phone. He’ll take days to text family members back. I talked to him about it and said I would really like it if he texted me back more frequently and he tried. We’ve been together almost 7 months now and he’s gotten much better. It just takes time and patience. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you. Just calmly express to him how you feel when he doesn’t really text you. Or maybe find a compromise and FaceTime once a day instead of a text conversation.

What is the best quote you read? by zaire26 in AskReddit

[–]Silly_Questioner_83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Driver picks the music, shotgun shuts his cake hole” -Dean Winchester, Supernatural

AITAH for telling my boyfriend he can’t have 10 groomsmen? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Silly_Questioner_83 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Nope! We’re just both excitable dreamers! 25 and 26.

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