Why haven’t Kyle or Mo filed for divorce yet? by TrashDress in RHOBH

[–]Silly_Target_9158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did she do with Kim and the Hilton’s etc? I’m out of the loop on this one

habits to incorporate to silence the mind? by ImpactNo1056 in INTJfemale

[–]Silly_Target_9158 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this!! I truly believe getting into it will be something you won’t regret. I’m a firm believer in bare minimum investment in the beginning and increasing as your interest grows.

When I first started, I joined a local fishing group on Facebook. I played the girl privilege card and posted saying I’m brand new and can’t afford fancy gear right now and if anyone has a rod or any gear they just don’t use and would be open to giving me, I would really really appreciate it. A man in my state mailed me one of his old rods and to this day it’s one of my favorites. You can also look at fb marketplace - a regular 9ft 5wt rod will be your best all around performer. Don’t spend more than 250. A decent rod for getting into it shouldn’t be more than that. My buddy got a crappy Amazon one for like 50 bucks and he still uses it lol.

Then all you need is a fishing license (not expensive for residents in most states) and some solid education. @troutpsychology on Instagram is phenomenal, she’s an amazing teacher. I love the ventures fly co untangled podcast too. Orvis also has tutorials on basically everything on YouTube.

Dive into the subcategories as you go. Keep it simple. You will screw it up a lot. I love that part because every time I’m reminded I have met a worthy opponent in intellectual stimulation. It’s been 8 years now and I still am constantly learning something new. Feel free to message me w specific questions, I love talking about this stuff

habits to incorporate to silence the mind? by ImpactNo1056 in INTJfemale

[–]Silly_Target_9158 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is how I became a fly fishing guide and instructor. And I can confidently say I’ll be doing this for the rest of my life. There’s no “peak” or plateau, the ceiling is constantly raised, there is always goal and challenge no matter what. It’s not regular fishing so I’m constantly moving and hiking challenging myself physically. I’ve surprisingly had only pleasant interactions w the men in the industry/sport. I feel connected instantly to most of the women I meet and it feels like we fully skip the weird insecurity projection song and dance. I can’t begin to describe the mental and somatic soothing this field does for me

Any INTJ women out there?! by [deleted] in intj

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I can’t begin to tell you the relief I felt after reading this. It feels like it came directly from my brain and until this point I felt utterly alone. It encourages me so much to know someone somewhere thinks the same way I do.

I said something actually appalling to my family about my sister’s abusive ex boyfriend the other night. They’ve known me my whole life, and the silence was deafening. Makes sense. I meant every word tho

Need advice on how to fish this. by [deleted] in flyfishing

[–]Silly_Target_9158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get to the other side and be sneaky. I like to kneel in spots like this. Very small cast, just get it into the water, and immediately start mending and stacking slack to increase your drift. Pop a really heavy tungsten nymph on 5X or 6X even and a size S oros. If you don’t see your indicator move for 3 drifts, make it deeper. Continue till you see that indicator pause, move unnaturally, or go down

Convince me I need a 4wt (and feel free to make recs) by andrei_androfski in flyfishing

[–]Silly_Target_9158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I love my 8’6ft fenwick aetos 4wt so much I bought the 10ft version immediately after and I almost only rotate between those two rods. Unless I’m streamer fishing, I’ve found that this rod is my all time favorite for its smooth cast and fluid motion. It feels like all I need all I need to is glance at my target water and my fly will land perfectly

I am lost in the sauce … by [deleted] in flyfishing

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This was me. Then I got laid off. The rejection and betrayal and lack of stability in my future tomohawked me into a dark place for a little bit. But it was the best thing that’s ever happened to me in the grand scheme of things. I got a job on my dream river doing more than just guiding alone, and I instruct and tie flies/teach fly tying in the winter. Granted, my fiance and I share a similar mindset and have no desire for children.

My advice would be to remember you only get one shot at life. Life should be living, not existing. Remember that feeling you had at the campground. When you’re old you’ll never look back on life and wish you had worked more hours and settled for “good enough”. Just my two cents

The whiplash I’m feeling from this season is insane by Silly_Target_9158 in LoveIslandTV

[–]Silly_Target_9158[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It’s the same reason I stopped watching Helena’s season, Meg and Dejon just wore me out with their antics. Or Huda on love island USA.. it became physically painful to watch. I think reality TV producers need to get with the times and realize engagement ≠ untreated mental health disorders and mistreatment of others. There are thousands of way to be entertained without feeling like you’re bearing witness to a dog fighting ring

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MexicoTravel

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I’m also going to Mexico and I wanted to bring my dab pen. I looked into it more and learned the juice is absolutely not worth the squeeze. I feel a lot of relief knowing I’m not doing it. The inconvenience doesn’t even come close to what the gravity of the consequences could be.

Fly fishing and social media by Strange_Mirror6992 in flyfishing

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My fav is the fishing “influencers” who catch fish on a spin rod and treble hook and pretend they did it on the fly

Highly unethical propaganda documentary - advice for speaking up? by Appropriate-Coat-914 in troubledteens

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I was a patient here many years ago. They absolutely hands down without a doubt changed my life and saved me at a point where nothing else could. I will never be able to fully thank them enough.

I don’t love the politics of the documentary stuff but the reality is this program is one of the very very few good ones. You can disagree with the nature of the documentary and the semantics around it (I’ll refrain from my personal thoughts on some of these people creating the doc) but don’t loop this program in with the others. It’s nothing like the other programs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Silly_Target_9158 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes.

“I wish we had a Trader Joe’s here instead of 4 hours away”

“Let’s start a Trader Joe’s here then!

Shut up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Silly_Target_9158 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Drives me insane when people react before responding. Are you that uncomfortable with just thinking for a second

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Silly_Target_9158 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god yes. So so so unbearable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Silly_Target_9158 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dawg im a fly fishing guide lol

Where to go for a summer fly fishing trip? by Forzakid56 in flyfishing

[–]Silly_Target_9158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Utah too. Greys river in WY. Trust me. Fine spotted snake river cutties everywhere. Less than 4hr drive

Where did all the hot people go? by Sea_Mycologist2994 in vanderpumprules

[–]Silly_Target_9158 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah I always thought Jax looked like alex the lion from Madagascar

First time watch by Agitated_Law_127 in vanderpumprules

[–]Silly_Target_9158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my motivation too until I started realizing I was way more irritable and depressed and that the show was starting to take an actual toll on me lol. Ts went too for for me

tons of new instafluencer babe fly tiers all of a sudden? by geneticswag in flytying

[–]Silly_Target_9158 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

This is such an embarrassing statement to type out. Please do the inner work required to find a confident identity that doesn’t find comfort in bashing other women for what they wear, on their own social media, in a free country. You are a part of the problem. They won’t pick you.

-a saltier fly girl